Money or Honey?

richmenson · #1 08-09-2008, 06:44 AM

Say you have a really steady girlfriend of 5 years and about to get married. She's those type who will really stand by you through rain or shine.

Then... along comes another lady. Nice, demure, slender, pretty and RICH.

How rich? Driving a >300k car + staying in a district 9/10 landed property all by herself (she owns it).

Perhaps slightly older (2-3 years). But she's also nice and very supportive to you though she knows that you are attached. She also claims that she will never want to be third party yet date you out all the time.

She's so nice that you will not even think of bedding her for the sake of bedding.

Will you be tempted by the money + honey or stand firm with someone who stood by you through thick and thin for 5 years?

*Confused*

pro.d.igy · #2 08-09-2008, 10:40 PM

It depends on the conviction and bond you share with your gf.

If you are really serious about marrying your gf, you should at the very least let her know about this other gal coz in a relationship, it's about mutual trust and understanding.

Personally, if it's me, I will have to sit back and think how I would want things to turn out. I'm very sure you have a slight answer within yourself on how you want things to turn out. The reason why you are asking this question is that you want somebody to answer for you, what you already have in mind. So don't blame me for being frank, but you just simply have to decide yourself.

Me, if I have a lasting relationship with my gf and am already thinking of marriage, I will drop all other notions and ideas.

Hope this helps.

KingEros · #3 08-09-2008, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by richmenson

Will you be tempted by the money + honey or stand firm with someone who stood by you through thick and thin for 5 years?

*Confused*

Why dun you try to be real nice ... & eat both cakes??
I know I certainly would ...

nicematt · #4 08-09-2008, 10:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by richmenson

Say you have a really steady girlfriend of 5 years and about to get married. She's those type who will really stand by you through rain or shine.

Then... along comes another lady. Nice, demure, slender, pretty and RICH.

How rich? Driving a >300k car + staying in a district 9/10 landed property all by herself (she owns it).
...Will you be tempted by the money + honey or stand firm with someone who stood by you through thick and thin for 5 years?

*Confused*

Bro richmenson, your steady gf is those type that would stand by you..., would you want to forgo her and go for another richer lady who may be just attracted because of freshness, and when the interest dies down, she may be changing again??
Personally, if I am in your situation I would stay with the steady gf, cause would not want to hurt her directly, then to look at the materialistic portion. Of cause if the rich lady don't mind it, may consider being the fcuk buddy.
Just my 2cents worth of thoughts.

bunnyrabbit · #5 08-09-2008, 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by KingEros

Why dun you try to be real nice ... & eat both cakes??
I know I certainly would ...

i prefer bro KingEros idea..

unsung80 · #6 08-09-2008, 11:08 PM

There are playboys, sure have playgirl luring around.

wrong move you might regret for your whole live.

cheongsan · #7 08-09-2008, 11:18 PM

If that financially well-off lady is really in love with you, then you are one big lucky guy!

justl00king · #8 08-09-2008, 11:24 PM

Bro,

this depends on what you want and how deep the relationship with your galfriend.

If really must get married to your steady galfriend, just keep the rich one as mistress lor. Or is it the other way round, be her loverboy?

cpcheongster · #9 08-09-2008, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by bunnyrabbit

i prefer bro KingEros idea..

1 vote from bro KingEros, 1 vote from bunnyrabbit and 1 vote from me. 3 votes for eating both cakes.

Bangster · #10 09-09-2008, 01:31 AM

TS,

haven't you watched enough movies or TV serials to realise some of these rich people only want temporary companionship and then afterwards, when they've gotten bored of you, dump you aside and the cycle continues?

People with power and money have different tastes - they love to revel in their state of power and control, sometimes to the point of finding thrills by prying a girl/guy(however vulnerable or not) from their spouse-to-be, hence upping their own ego and belief that they are powerful. This may be just one of their favourite games.

It's a mind thing for them, whether subconsiously done or not.

I'd say - stick with your gf of 5 yrs lah. Unless you are not ready for marriage.

fenwick · #11 09-09-2008, 02:18 AM

The 3rd party already mentioned she will never want to be 3rd party ! I think she already send quite a clear message to TS that she want him to break off with his current GF ! But on the other hand , this richie bitch could be only TOYING with you !!! Maybe inside your heart you've already made a decision but just to post here hoping to gather more support on your decision. I just hope TS won't end up losing both.............all the best bro

Criminalz · #12 09-09-2008, 11:19 AM

Con all her money then you can be with your honey.

aces68 · #13 09-09-2008, 11:33 AM

hmm, bro TS, from your nick it seems like you are rich too.
Personally, I would choose the one who is wife material and is most sexually compatible.
For highly sexed cheongsters, I think sexual compatibility is most important if you are thinking of marriage. Good luck

lglg666 · #14 09-09-2008, 11:42 AM

This is a good problem to have....so good luck to you, since whichever way you choose both are like you said supportive and can understanding.

Augustine_81 · #15 09-09-2008, 11:48 AM

Careful bro, must handle the situation well.
As a matter of fact, what if you are left high and dry.
Both bank also can dock your ship, then jialat liao!