Sexless Relationship

Dickster · #1 13-08-2006, 06:42 PM

Good day to all bros,
Having encounter a problem with my gf lately , so i am just wondering a few simple ques.

1) does a sexless relationship works?

2) If a gf /wife does not allow her husband or bf to touch her, it is a guys fault to stray or have flings outside? ps : husband /bf have being faithfull all the way.

no flaming pls. sorry if i offended any bros of sisters with my comments

nice day
regards

happybonker · #2 13-08-2006, 06:46 PM

Mine is the other way round.

My gal is always complaining that I never touch her enough !!

Any bros here share the same experience ?

#3 13-08-2006, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by happybonker

Mine is the other way round.

My gal is always complaining that I never touch her enough !!

Any bros here share the same experience ?

Yeah man, my gal is damn faithful to me one, and most of the time initiated intimacy and complained not enough.

Sexless relationship is only possible if you two are purely friends. Gf can don't allow bf to touch her as they are not yet committed, but wife actually has the duty to make her husband happy provided her husband not those perverted one la..

bustymilk · #4 13-08-2006, 07:12 PM

It is not a good and valid reason for a guy to stray or have flings outside if their partner don't allow them to touch and have sex with. If you really cherish this relationship, you should have a nice talk with her finding out what is the reasons for her not doing so and explaining to her that you do have your sexual needs. As a woman, I strongly believe one of the reasons why they don't want their partner to touch and allow sex is because they are been shut down emotionally. In order to aroused them to get to the mood, you have to arouse her heart on emotional first and then on her body physically.

Dickster · #5 13-08-2006, 07:25 PM

Bustymilk,
I understand wat u trying to say and i am thankful that u hit almost wat i am trying to get . Yes i make some serious mistakes but nothing of unfaithful types. So even if she is rightful to quarrel with me or punish me but i as a male have my own urges till some times i see some gals zhao geng , i also got aroused. Some may say try pccing, i need 3 to 4 times to get myself physically tired but sexual unsatisfied. How? Bring out the problem her does not helps? I dun think i cannot control my urge any more b4 i do any stuff unfaithful.

RaymndTan · #6 13-08-2006, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by bustymilk

It is not a good and valid reason for a guy to stray or have flings outside if their partner don't allow them to touch and have sex with. If you really cherish this relationship, you should have a nice talk with her finding out what is the reasons for her not doing so and explaining to her that you do have your sexual needs. As a woman, I strongly believe one of the reasons why they don't want their partner to touch and allow sex is because they are been shut down emotionally. In order to aroused them to get to the mood, you have to arouse her heart on emotional first and then on her body physically.

In this type of situation, if the communications not reinstated and barriers broken down, the man will go whoring. Or the woman will find her own fulfilment in terms of emotionaland sexual needs.

big dick · #7 13-08-2006, 07:31 PM

1) does a sexless relationship works? Yes.. it work.. my wife and me also have a sexless relationship.. i am with her jus for the company.. there is more to a relationship than jus sex

2) If a gf /wife does not allow her husband or bf to touch her, it is a guys fault to stray or have flings outside? ps : husband /bf have being faithfull all the way. no .. it not a guy fault to stray outside if the wife refuses to let him touch her.. anyway even if the wife is good in bed, guy will still stray outside ma

At the end of the day, jus enjoy your wife company and eat outside once in a while..

asdfghjkl · #8 13-08-2006, 08:35 PM

relationship means GF/BF or marriage one?

sphritzer · #9 13-08-2006, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Dickster

1) does a sexless relationship works?

bro Is it really that possible? i mean relationship is mutual & one thing will lead to another & so on so forth. Humans have sexual desires so i'm actually amazed with big dick's positive answer.

Dickster · #10 13-08-2006, 10:12 PM

Well currently my status is bf/gf relationship, but i am sure that are some bros who are in hus/wife status who also having the same issue. To bro big dick ans, are u currently having flings outside or others release ? if so i guess ur frastration does not build up. then again i apologise if i am wrong.

cyberelle · #11 13-08-2006, 10:19 PM

well, if it is bf/gf. I think she may be just keeping it for marriage. THere is nothing wrong with that. SOme people just do not want to do it before marriage.

In this case, if you have fling outside, it is your fault. Being aroused isn't your fault though. Hard to control desires. HOwever, to have sex with another girl while you have a gf is wrong and unfaithful. Unless she allows it.

I think PCC is the only way to go. Or try to get her to do petting. However, she may still not want. If you want the relationship, than don't.

goodielecks · #12 13-08-2006, 10:23 PM

Will a relationship with sex work out? Think again. Your gf might just be saving it for your marriage. It's a rarity these days. Look on the bright side

Dickster · #13 13-08-2006, 10:39 PM

hmm we have sex for more than 6 yrs already.... lolz

goodielecks · #14 13-08-2006, 10:45 PM

and still bf and gf relationship? maybe she's waiting for you to marry her.

big dick · #15 13-08-2006, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by goodielecks

and still bf and gf relationship? maybe she's waiting for you to marry her.

so the solution is to propose to her???

could be that that is what she wanted... possible