I love a girl but she like my colleague

ilovehebe · #1 22-12-2014, 09:56 PM

I am married and no problem in my marriage except the Sparks are not there anymore. This girl 26 years old work near my workplace and I get to see her everyday during my course of work. I fall in love with her but she don't like me I suppose. She only talk to my colleague . I saw the, exchange messages and often talk to each other which make my heart pain.i try to forget her but I really can't. I did try to message her and she never even bother to reply me. What should I do. I am trying to forget her but everytime I see her and also her photos on fb I can't forget her.

clapton · #2 23-12-2014, 09:33 AM

Bro u said u married liao, and also no prob in marriage... so forget abt love lar, play play can, don't put heart.

MoJoe313 · #3 23-12-2014, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by ilovehebe

I am married and no problem in my marriage except the Sparks are not there anymore.

Bro, this is the biggest antithesis I read here. When there are no more sparks in your marriage, IT IS a big problem. You should be working on your marriage, not on another girl.

Greendevil · #4 23-12-2014, 10:18 AM

TS, i really wonder what your definition of love? you everyday see a pretty girl in office and fall in love with her but she does not show any respond. if everyone like you, then a lot of ppl working in mediacorp will be falling in and out of love very frequently.

(o)(o) Tuner · #5 23-12-2014, 10:40 AM

TS if this is your character then you shouldn't marry your gf (now your wife) in the first place.

sootongs · #6 23-12-2014, 11:53 AM

You love your colleague just by looking at her? Think you are just itchy for action.

ah rat · #7 23-12-2014, 12:32 PM

Ts,u have a wife & u love sick with other girl

Babyrexx · #8 23-12-2014, 01:38 PM

TS.. You need to put in Time and Effort to maintain a Healthy Marriage. Everything will come to a Flat spot over time. Even with the girl you are currently attracted to. You should think of how to rekindle your relationship with your Wife. Not to destroy the Trust by thinking of others.. All the best.

looney83 · #9 23-12-2014, 01:51 PM

u already said everything liao.

You are married.

The girl don't even want to wreck your marriage. If she want to wreck your marriage, be prepared that some time down the road, she will wreck other people marriage as well.

Looks will changed, character won't change.

1nottiboy · #10 23-12-2014, 01:57 PM

Been in a similar situation before. The feelings you have for the other gal will eventually pass. Meanwhile just concentrate on your work and pick up a hobby. that's what I did.

Indianpower · #11 23-12-2014, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by ilovehebe

I am married and no problem in my marriage except the Sparks are not there anymore. This girl 26 years old work near my workplace and I get to see her everyday during my course of work. I fall in love with her but she don't like me I suppose. She only talk to my colleague . I saw the, exchange messages and often talk to each other which make my heart pain.i try to forget her but I really can't. I did try to message her and she never even bother to reply me. What should I do. I am trying to forget her but everytime I see her and also her photos on fb I can't forget her.

You sound like a pussy ass bitch. Stop being a beta. You don't wanna fuck your wife? Why...is she an ugly lian? This new chick is hotter? If you're an alpha like me, I'd just say to her...we are fucking tonight. And it'll happen. Cos I have the swagger and good looks to make it so. If i was married, fucking threesome time. That's how i roll. You manjans need to grow a pair. I know you have a little dicks but please!

naan1974 · #12 23-12-2014, 02:38 PM

Maybe because you are married so she don't want to be the third party.
How about you divorce your wife then declare to her you are single again
and officially start dating her.

sicknasty · #13 23-12-2014, 02:57 PM

Is that girl Joan ?

IwantbustyKim · #14 23-12-2014, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by ilovehebe

I am married and no problem in my marriage except the Sparks are not there anymore. This girl 26 years old work near my workplace and I get to see her everyday during my course of work. I fall in love with her but she don't like me I suppose. She only talk to my colleague . I saw the, exchange messages and often talk to each other which make my heart pain.i try to forget her but I really can't. I did try to message her and she never even bother to reply me. What should I do. I am trying to forget her but everytime I see her and also her photos on fb I can't forget her.

I know easier said than done but u gotta move on bro....

USboy · #15 23-12-2014, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by ilovehebe

I am married and no problem in my marriage except the Sparks are not there anymore. This girl 26 years old work near my workplace and I get to see her everyday during my course of work. I fall in love with her but she don't like me I suppose. She only talk to my colleague . I saw the, exchange messages and often talk to each other which make my heart pain.i try to forget her but I really can't. I did try to message her and she never even bother to reply me. What should I do. I am trying to forget her but everytime I see her and also her photos on fb I can't forget her.

Bro, don't want to seem rude but it seems like you are non-existent to her. You're married and she's obviously trying to build a friendship or relationship with another man/your colleague. The fact she doesn't return your texts should say it all. You probably should be careful from a work point of view too. Are you messaging her about work related stuff? If not, are you messaging her as a friend? From your description it just seems you're like creepily stalking her from afar bro. I suggest putting energy in getting the spark back with your wife man. Don't wreck your marriage. Find the love again!