making love after a long time.

[NewEra]

So, after being single for a long time (more than 5 years) i have recently got attached. So all this while when i was single when i need release most of the time i just PCC, so recently when i was starting to make love to my gf, i realize i could not get a erection, i have 0 issues when i masturbate or when i see pretty girls or kiss and cuddle my gf i do get an erection.

So it was quite an embarrassment when i could not get hard esp when my gf was all wet down there. i am only early 30's.

Whats wrong? Too much pcc in the past?

[waaaaaa]

cant be due to too much pcc.

could be psychological. did your gf try to stimulate you?

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by NewEra

Whats wrong? Too much pcc in the past?

Most likely she is not attractive enough for you to be sexually aroused.

Dump her and find a new gf.

[metamorphosis76]

Wu foreplay bO? Like Oral Sex....squeeze & Lick NeH neh bo? Try get yourself arousal bro... See whether your cannon can marikita bo...if cannot, then bo paing lor....maybe you need to get a GF look like your porn artistes...

[exge]

that is known as porn induced ED. it is actually quite common. you just need to change a few things about your pcc habit.

1) don't use the "death-grip"
2) try to include your partner/potential partner in your fantasies when pcc-ing.

Right now, your dopamine centers are wired to pornstars, you need to rewire them. Unfortunately, you need to stop pcc-ing to porn for a short while to let the brain revert to normal. Then when it is normal, make sure you make use of point no2 above.

Enjoy and best of luck

[Boicoyne]

Originally Posted by exge

that is known as porn induced ED. it is actually quite common. you just need to change a few things about your pcc habit.

1) don't use the "death-grip"
2) try to include your partner/potential partner in your fantasies when pcc-ing.

Right now, your dopamine centers are wired to pornstars, you need to rewire them. Unfortunately, you need to stop pcc-ing to porn for a short while to let the brain revert to normal. Then when it is normal, make sure you make use of point no2 above.

Enjoy and best of luck

very true. watching porn can screw with your performance in bed. same thing happened to me before too bro.

like exge said, stop watching porn for a month, and maybe try not to masturbate too. lose all the mental attraction u have for the pornstars. thats what i did.

[NewEra]

Originally Posted by metamorphosis76

Wu foreplay bO? Like Oral Sex....squeeze & Lick NeH neh bo? Try get yourself arousal bro... See whether your cannon can marikita bo...if cannot, then bo paing lor....maybe you need to get a GF look like your porn artistes...

No oral at that point la, but i was licking her neh neh and she was stroking my bro. She was really wet down there but i not hard

[NewEra]

Originally Posted by exge

that is known as porn induced ED. it is actually quite common. you just need to change a few things about your pcc habit.

1) don't use the "death-grip"
2) try to include your partner/potential partner in your fantasies when pcc-ing.

Right now, your dopamine centers are wired to pornstars, you need to rewire them. Unfortunately, you need to stop pcc-ing to porn for a short while to let the brain revert to normal. Then when it is normal, make sure you make use of point no2 above.

Enjoy and best of luck

Sounds like a possibility, really need to start re-wiring. Thanks

[ah rat]

Ts,indeed to much pcc

[Jazzy69]

Originally Posted by NewEra

So, after being single for a long time (more than 5 years) i have recently got attached. So all this while when i was single when i need release most of the time i just PCC, so recently when i was starting to make love to my gf, i realize i could not get a erection, i have 0 issues when i masturbate or when i see pretty girls or kiss and cuddle my gf i do get an erection.

So it was quite an embarrassment when i could not get hard esp when my gf was all wet down there. i am only early 30's.

Whats wrong? Too much pcc in the past?

Maybe you have use up your 5000 times...

[pleasurehobby]

Originally Posted by exge

that is known as porn induced ED. it is actually quite common. you just need to change a few things about your pcc habit.

1) don't use the "death-grip"
2) try to include your partner/potential partner in your fantasies when pcc-ing.

Right now, your dopamine centers are wired to pornstars, you need to rewire them. Unfortunately, you need to stop pcc-ing to porn for a short while to let the brain revert to normal. Then when it is normal, make sure you make use of point no2 above.

Enjoy and best of luck

Our fellow Samster here has hit the jackpot on this answer.

Adding on to it, this syndrome is totally psychological.

You have been brainwashed by too many other visual stimuatations that now you dont seems to find your gf as sexy and arousing anymore.

For such a case, i personally suggest getting arouse by her through other SENSES.

An example will be closing your eyes, and smelling her all over. Her hair, her neck, her boobs down to her pussy.

Add some touch when smelling her by gentling pitching her nipples, careless down her belly and sliding it into her pussy.

This method removes visual and focus your stimulation on smell, and i am pretty sure before you know it its a hard on again. Try it.

[Wallao]

Watch a porn video first before making love.

[Krazzie]

Should be a mind problem. The more you tried to perform the more stress you get the more unlikely you will be hard enough to make love to your gf. As it gets worse the stress got worse the more you fear when shes ready and.. guess what you will just become soft and not able to continue.

Lucky for me I suffer the same fate with FLs, while still capable with my fb.

Understand you are totally capable of making love with your gf and finishing it. Abstain from PCC and porn for the time being until you want to rape her. Then... "rape" her Problem solved.

Good luck TS.

[Tundrawolf]

TS why not have some foreplay with your gf ?

[waaaaaa]

yup like some said, stop pcc for some time and when you are horny. dun think u cant stand.