Is sex a major factor for a happy marriage?

Eastpipper · #1 10-03-2005, 10:59 AM

Just wanna get some bro's view on this question?
"Is sex a major factor for a happy marriage?"
Please indicate whether u r married after posting ur comment.(optional)

Looksee · #2 10-03-2005, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Eastpipper

Just wanna get some bro's view on this question?
"Is sex a major factor for a happy marriage?"
Please indicate whether u r married after posting ur comment.(optional)

Major = more than 50%? i dun think it can be measured tat way......

Sex is 1 of the KEY factor for a happy marriage......

me married for the last 15 years liao..........

shadowlunar04 · #3 10-03-2005, 11:16 AM

Sex is a part of the link to a happy marriage. A good sex life enhances the quality of two persons in terms of physical, psychological and spiritual. I believe sex is a factor, but not main one, to maintain a good, healthy relationship.

I have been married for about 5 years and still enjoyed have sex with my wife, even though I ate outside once in a while.

mahj · #4 10-03-2005, 11:22 AM

I am married for about 6 years now. I think it is important to have good sex with your spouse. Then he/she won't be looking elsewhere.

Eastpipper · #5 10-03-2005, 11:42 AM

Wa,bro shaowlunar,I don't think u ate outside just once in a while lei,(based on all ur fantastic FR)kekekeke
Me married about 3 years but seldom have good sex with my wife thus looking to GL150 for replacement.
But seriously speaking,those all just to satisfy my urge,I do still love my wife.
Still finding ways to enjoy having sex wife my wife.still finding,still finding,still finding
Thanks for all the contribution so far!keep them coming in!
(If can,indicate ur age too!(optional)Me 26

Castrol · #6 10-03-2005, 11:42 AM

every week my wife will demand i "hand over the goods" at least once, otherwise this is what she will nag nag to me -

so which new girl in the pub is making you happy?
so nowadays you go pub to drink only or got something else?

yes, sex is a major factor. keep my marriage happy, keep my ears healthy.

sdol v2 · #7 10-03-2005, 11:43 AM

Agree, not major. But as important as other factors..
Sex can be the opening show.. or the closing credits of marriage.

Married for 4 years, blessed with 2 kids

Eastpipper · #8 10-03-2005, 11:46 AM

I feel that most bros have sex with wife just to satisfy wife's need not ourselve needs.Any agrees?Because for bros, commercial sex will always be more enjoyable than boring sexxion with ur wife.

Looksee · #9 10-03-2005, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Eastpipper

I feel that most bros have sex with wife just to satisfy wife's need not ourselve needs.Any agrees?Because for bros, commercial sex will always be more enjoyable than boring sexxion with ur wife.

commercial sex cannot be compared to sex with wife.....it's like comparing apple to orange.........

commercial sex is a transaction....to release stream........

sex with wife is bonding.......to build a relationship.......

Eastpipper · #10 10-03-2005, 11:50 AM

Gd explanation!thanks.Looks like u really experience a lot,got lots to learn from u bro!
But I mean the process different not consequences & results.

bradpitt968 · #11 10-03-2005, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Eastpipper

Just wanna get some bro's view on this question?
"Is sex a major factor for a happy marriage?"
Please indicate whether u r married after posting ur comment.(optional)

Compatibility in character is VERY important... if both of u have similar belief system.. then things would be easier....

If on top of that... both are accomodating to each other's sexual needs... that'll be even better.... = )

Cheri_Popper · #12 10-03-2005, 11:55 AM

To me communication with each other is a MUST.

As for me....I sometime "eat" outside dishes!!

Everyday eat the same dish you also sianzz teo bo???

I am 18 years old this year but that was 18 years ago!!

Been married for the last 8 yrs liao!

Eastpipper · #13 10-03-2005, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Compatibility in character is VERY important... if both of u have similar belief system.. then things would be easier....

If on top of that... both are accomodating to each other's sexual needs... that'll be even better.... = )

But nowadays,I feel very hard to find such a loving couple,agree?
(Btwthis is my 200th post!kekeke)

Cheri_Popper · #14 10-03-2005, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Eastpipper

(Btwthis is my 200th post!kekeke)

3 more posts and I will hit 1000...kekekeke

#15 10-03-2005, 11:59 AM

I'm of the opinion that great sex and happy marriage goes hand in hand. If a man is not sexually satisfied, almost 100% that he will look elsewhere(either wl or mistress) to satisfy that need. Of course if that guys has a ED problem, impotent, then no need to say lah. Healthy men will have a healthy sexually need.

If the husband is constantly milked dry of his sperm, will he still have the urge, energy and sperm to have a bonk outside? Of course there will be a few guys who will still have a quickie once in a while as "everyday eat shark fin also sian, once in a while eat maggie mee then you will appreciated shark fin", but I am confident to say that the frequency to shag someone else other than wife will be reduced drastically.

I may be wrong but these are just my point of view