How to fuck a virgin?

[ikapopo]

Hi all,
I'm seeing this girl whos a virgin and she wants to lose it with me.
Can anyone suggest the best way to go about it to minimise pain and maximise pleasure? Apart from health issues, is it better to use a condom, lubricant wise, or is it less painful, less abrassive to do without?
I intend to give her a lengthy foreplay and oral to ease any anxiety. Should i make her orgasm with oral first, then go into penetration, or should i leave the orgasm with the latter? Any more tips would be helpful.
Thanks

[etindet]

Here's the best tip you will get"
- Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.
- Make her come before penetration, most women don't come from penetration alone, and even if they do, making her come will make her even wetter.
- I'd ask her if she wants to use a condom or not, but if you've had a few sexual partners it might be an idea to get yourself tested before you have sex without one.
- It does feel nicer without a condom, and I'm glad I lost mine without a condom, but you need to play safe.

[gdblxus]

Originally Posted by etindet

Here's the best tip you will get"
- Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.
- Make her come before penetration, most women don't come from penetration alone, and even if they do, making her come will make her even wetter.
- I'd ask her if she wants to use a condom or not, but if you've had a few sexual partners it might be an idea to get yourself tested before you have sex without one.
- It does feel nicer without a condom, and I'm glad I lost mine without a condom, but you need to play safe.

nice tips
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legen...opsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy

[cheongsterjon]

i think it is better to let her cum first before penetration, so that in case she doesn't cum later with penetrative sex, at least she has cum and will not feel disappointed with her first time...and even if she does cum with your penetration later, she may be wetter so her penetrative sex may be less painful....be prepared for some blood ..

[tigerprawn]

Originally Posted by cheongsterjon

i think it is better to let her cum first before penetration, so that in case she doesn't cum later with penetrative sex, at least she has cum and will not feel disappointed with her first time...and even if she does cum with your penetration later, she may be wetter so her penetrative sex may be less painful....be prepared for some blood ..

Bro I beg to differ to let her cum first before penetration. The issue here is not so much cum or not but the anxiety of the first time penetration. For some girls, once they cum, their privates will become very sensitive to touch (just like for guys sometimes after ejacuation need some time to recover and the penis head becomes very sensitive) so if you make her cum first then penetrate, that may make the penetration even more painful.

My humble opinion, from personal experience, is that oral is good yes to make her horny and aroused. Make her super horny and aroused and flowing dripping wet but not cum yet, that is the best time to penetrate a virgin.

Also, again from my personal experience, dont make it a stressful event by insisting must complete the penetration in one session. You can stretch it over a few sessions over a few days or a week or so. First few times maybe just rub your cock around and outside her cunt without penetration use her own juices to lubricate and rub around the entrance in circular motion with a gentle pressure at entrance to let her know and feel that your cock head is filling up her entrance .... but no penetration. Then with your fingers massage her clit to make her cum while sucking her breasts, kissing her etc. Let her first experience and get comfortable with the presence of your cock at her entrance and experiencing orgasm. After she cums, stop. (she can BJ you or whatever). Then next time, go a little further each time, until you start pushing your cock in a little bit by bit each time such that technically part of your cock has passed her entrance but not deep enough yet to reach and break her hymen. Always ensure she is aroused and has orgasms and dont lose control to just start ramming. Then finally when she is ready later one day, she will literally beg you to push it in please.....

The above is in my opinion the BEST way to break a virgin using the greatest level of care and tenderness. Of course, some girls may prefer to break it at one go with the excitment of the pain and all. But since TS is asking for the best secure way, the above is what i feel, from personal experience, the best way forward, Even for the most shy and anxious tense virgin it will work.

Good luck!!

oh and last but not least, wrt the issue of using condom or not. I agree with one of the bros. Do a blood test to ensure you are clean first - then fuck her raw with her consent and preference of course. Unless she chooses and insists otherwise, I think a first time penetration by a piece of rubber is hardly the way to go especially if the girl is tense and anxious.

[etindet]

nice tips

[owl888]

Saw those porn videos on breaking a virgin.....think best way is to loosen/lubricate the cunt with some foreplay. Den slowly insert ur rod into her. Do a search, sure u can find some similar videos on breaking a virgin.

[DaveC65]

Tigerprawn's advice would be the best. Just realise that you are not only breaking the virgin's hymen, you are also setting and creating her FIRST major impression of sexual connection. If you only think about yourself bagging a virgin, you'll probably give her an impression of pain and frustration. If you take all night or all week to give HER as many orgasms as possible before the first penetration, she'll remember you for the rest of her life!!

[ibelieveindevil]

i would say, never ever, think that you should give in full force of all aspects of a sex to first timer....

thats means, for virgin, dont think of having oreplay, den she reach orgasm, then you fuck here front and back for 4 times, then u have bath with her and go diner ect ect.... there is a theshold.

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by tigerprawn

Bro I beg to differ to let her cum first before penetration. The issue here is not so much cum or not but the anxiety of the first time penetration. For some girls, once they cum, their privates will become very sensitive to touch (just like for guys sometimes after ejacuation need some time to recover and the penis head becomes very sensitive) so if you make her cum first then penetrate, that may make the penetration even more painful.

My humble opinion, from personal experience, is that oral is good yes to make her horny and aroused. Make her super horny and aroused and flowing dripping wet but not cum yet, that is the best time to penetrate a virgin.

Also, again from my personal experience, dont make it a stressful event by insisting must complete the penetration in one session. You can stretch it over a few sessions over a few days or a week or so. First few times maybe just rub your cock around and outside her cunt without penetration use her own juices to lubricate and rub around the entrance in circular motion with a gentle pressure at entrance to let her know and feel that your cock head is filling up her entrance .... but no penetration. Then with your fingers massage her clit to make her cum while sucking her breasts, kissing her etc. Let her first experience and get comfortable with the presence of your cock at her entrance and experiencing orgasm. After she cums, stop. (she can BJ you or whatever). Then next time, go a little further each time, until you start pushing your cock in a little bit by bit each time such that technically part of your cock has passed her entrance but not deep enough yet to reach and break her hymen. Always ensure she is aroused and has orgasms and dont lose control to just start ramming. Then finally when she is ready later one day, she will literally beg you to push it in please.....

The above is in my opinion the BEST way to break a virgin using the greatest level of care and tenderness. Of course, some girls may prefer to break it at one go with the excitment of the pain and all. But since TS is asking for the best secure way, the above is what i feel, from personal experience, the best way forward, Even for the most shy and anxious tense virgin it will work.

Good luck!!

oh and last but not least, wrt the issue of using condom or not. I agree with one of the bros. Do a blood test to ensure you are clean first - then fuck her raw with her consent and preference of course. Unless she chooses and insists otherwise, I think a first time penetration by a piece of rubber is hardly the way to go especially if the girl is tense and anxious.

I dated a couple of women who lost their virginity with me. Basically, we took it slow. Sometimes just let them masturbate by rubbing their pussy against my dick and letting her come that way instead of penetration. A few times of that and it evolves to them wanting more. You should let her take her time. When women get horny you will know. You don't have to do much, they will literally have it all planned one night and rip your clothes off and want more and more culminating in a night where neither of you get sleep just fucking and enjoying yourselves like animals.

[redtemo]

you need to take it slowly..

ambience is important.

some alcohol is fine

well u see..i am not very good at typing out scenarios i'll been through

ok..here goes

first heavy pettiing followed by some wine...then use ur fingers to siitumiate
area of target..smooch and go for it at once...or distract and enter.

[ah dorrer]

great info. remember to standby KY jelly to make it always wet, once it get dry, she will start to feel pain.

[horny28]

Take panadol first

Can also invite her mum to guide you through the process

[owl888]

Wonder TS have u break ur gf virgin?

[DaveC65]

hehe. or did his virgin gf break him?