Love found at the wrong time with the wrong person

[prettymannequin]

Originally Posted by tuffcookie

your ex sounds committed enough to divorce, rent small flat, remarry ...who would have guessed it didn't last ... hope you not skeptical about love ...maybe he just can't commit to one for too long ..
guess so. But that is exactly my point - true love at every new encounter? No worries. I have moved on. There is a huge forest out there for me yet.

I guess he was just chasing the spark...

[tuffcookie]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

I guess he was just chasing the spark...

Well said.

Sigh. Don't we all chase the sparks. But we forgot it takes effort and hard work to continue fanning it.

Sorry hijacked the thread. Hope TS continues soon.

[prettymannequin]

Originally Posted by tuffcookie

Well said.

Sigh. Don't we all chase the sparks. But we forgot it takes effort and hard work to continue fanning it.

Sorry hijacked the thread. Hope TS continues soon.

I don't think TS really minds the hijack, we're all here to share our similar stories hey? To realise that some feelings are universal and we're never too alone.

[kenstud27]

Don't mind anyone hijacking. This is one thread for folks like us to pen down our stories that we can't normally share. Staying secret yet getting that feel out of the system, you know what feel I'm talking about.

There won't be anymore updates on this story as i need to move on, i have to. If not it wil ruin my life. I will be constantly checking back on my thread and if anyone wishes to talk or share, just use the thread or PM me.

Cheers everyone, good to be back in SG.

[real_king]

Somebody choose to talk about it.
Somebody dont.

Whatever is your choice. live with it. Good luck to u bro.

[sf49ers]

This may sound hackneyed, anyway...

'If you love somebody, set them free...'

'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all...'

Not my quotes for sure.

[Mudpie444]

Hi bro, life is journey...long journey..u do not know what lies ahead of u. Humans are highly charged emotional beings n we are constantly changing due to our environments and demands our society...
My past relationships are 坚苦 as well.. Done stupids tigs that i would never thot i would have or should hv done... Anyway.. I stop my crap juz sharing my few cents worth of my tots... To those that hurt someone deep or being hurt by someone...
What goes around... Comes around..its just a matter of time. Anyway... I realise tht love end of the day is your willingness to sacrifice; accommodate; trust; selflessness...". The physical act of togetherness is lust... (Undeniablely, guys place usually construe tht as act of love).
Give some tot of it.... Your wife has been there for u...though u now never felt her "love" anymore. Life is about perception... You should communicate more w her and u may find your "love" back...

[jemyt]

Nice story bro. Camping here.

"... I would lied to my wife said that i need to go oversea for work. Typical scandal lies and i didn't feel good about it but i feel even worse when i can't see M. I wanted ..."

TS, going overseas there would be something shown in your passport, prefer not to use such excuse though just in case wife really check

[marlz]

Time is never on anyone side... Only choice is... Choose what is important and dear to your heart.. You only live once.

[PeteTsang69]

Originally Posted by kenstud27

There won't be anymore updates on this story as i need to move on ...., .

bro pls update to present day what happened after you left for that interview ...

i.e. tho you 2 may have ended ...shes now doing this ...and i am now doing that kinda update .... cheers

[ronn80]

Try listenning to You Are Beautiful by James Blunt.
I have been into similiar situations like TS story. I realise I am not suitable to get married. Maybe I am like what a bro mentioned. Just a spark chaser.

[alec]

I seriously feel for all e bros here whom been in a similiar situation as TS. I too was down once from a cracked marriage, and mi ex was jus there and one thing led to another.... i felt soo in love with her again and even thought of ending mi loveless marriage jus that we can be together again. End up she told me to go back to my wife and work things out and she eventually found someone.

[kenstud27]

Hi everyone

Just came back from SZ recently. Apparently SBF is banned in China thus zero update all these while. New story coming up soon which I will start a new thread for it.

Nice to be back!

[Neoguri]

Just read through your stories.
Feel sad for you and I can understand how you felt.
I am also very involved with my lover and it has been going on for 3 years.
In my case, I just don't want to hurt her when our relationship inevitably ends...

[superhuman]

Support your thread and story.

Any updates TS?