True Love Story of a PRC woman and a Experienced Chengster

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by saabking

wah..you good huh..can do budget bao - 8K RMB a month? How you find such good bargain??!!..i thought market rates is already 20-30K RMB a month.

You sure or not 20-30k? I budget king lei.

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by newbieboy

Earlier a bro asked if I shower them with gifts to keep them, and some have implied over PMs I'm some Casanova. Actually, no. And not just that, I don't pay monthly rental type payments, be it school fees, BY fees, other miscellaneous fees which are disguises of body fees.

I am decent looking, have a decent sized tool, and a good sense of humour and wit, that's all I have going for me. While going for a full BY or a few partial BYs is something I can live with, I haven't yet done it, for a few reasons: 1) my passive income cannot sustain this yet 2) I have enough low hanging fruit to keep me busy 3) actually things I've described makes me sound like a player but I am not. People have feelings, so do I. On an intermediate level I connect emotionally with girls who have proven themselves to me, and my gifts are rare and well-deserved. I conduct these relationships like I would with a wife, i.e. Too little too late. You need to realize for most women, gifts and money never secure them. You can employ these tools to lubricate the initial arrangement, but if you can't make them laugh AND give them orgasms then it's pretty much downhill from there.

Also, if you are really playing the game, you must always keep in mind that there are better players than you. No team in the BPL goes undefeated forever. We've all paid our dues. Some more, some less. But it will keep you in good stead to remember we never win all the time, and that's ok.

Many laojiao bros subscribe to the Alpha male theory, and that's not something I practice. If you read Bro WB's teachings in his thread, you will realize he is a value investor. I'm afraid I'm even more of one, I don't sit around and wait for one girl to change her mind, because I know we all have preferences in partner searches. If she wants to blow cold, she's off my list and on to the next. It's a numbers game, really. The more places you go ( and I mean in life not just joints) the more people can tell you're not so easy to tackle. Ticking all the boxes is impossible, so if you can tick most, it's good enough to kick start something. It is the same for them. Know what you can bring to the table, and if you have nothing yet, acquire a skill or some knowledge, and then we can start in the lower divisions and aim for promotion (while always remembering that one bad mistake can cost a season and a place in the BPL). Any manager that tells you no luck was involved in winning trophies is full of BS. We all have some luck at some time, so ride on it and don't ask why. Only ask when things go wrong. Don't over question, sometimes they themselves don't understand why they're so nice to us. When I first started out I used to do stupid things like fetch them and their friends around, move houses and pick ups from airport. Nowadays I just say fuck off it's easier for you to cab don't waste my time and stop calling me at work.

End of the day if you can make them laugh harder and climax harder, you win. And if there's someone better than you going for the same meat, you starve for awhile. They don't really need us for money, though if you can provide it then things become easier to "consummate", as bro WB would say. Don't lose sight of what's important, and sometimes if it means you have to choose between family and friends or some girl you barely know for 2 weeks, pick the former. The girls worth your time will realize you have priorities above them, and they have to work hard to become one. It's actually better for you in the long run than to make illogical choices, which actually jeopardizes their perception of you. Because there's no man weaker than an irrational one, and like we always look for someone more attractive than we are, they look for someone stronger than they are, be it wealth, intelligence or morals. The saying "don't give up a forest for a tree" applies at every stage, not just something friends tell you after you lose. Remember that. Hope this helps!

Very well put. "Numbers game", "valued investor", "low hanging fruits". Will up you.

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by newbieboy

There's only 1 option, and just so happens the option is 1. You first need to accept that you never were a player. You know what's a player? A player is like me, I one drunk call I can go sleep over, I give 1 day notice and fly china that girl pick me from airport stay her apartment. Reach airport 2 hours ahead of my arrival in case my flight early. I don't call or wechat them they get angsty, they pretty much act like you do when she doesn't reply. I wear rubber they dulan, I play handphone game in bed they give me blowjob to get my attention. I refuse sex they sulk. That's a player. You need to accept you never been one in the first place ok? Sounds like a lot of ego from me but bros who have met me know I'm not like that IRL. But if I don't talk so plainly you will never understand you were never in control. You've been played but that's ok, the forest still stands waiting for your next forage. Cut your losses while the bulk of your fixed assets is still under your name. True love? Fuck off, true love with them only true until they have all your money. You must understand, these girls also believe in true love, but if they only take and don't give, their true love is elsewhere, probably with a poor little wolf dog with a good sized tool and muscles and sweet talk.

You know why she say don't want money now? It's not the money she doesn't want, it's the reporting she has to do to you that she wants to reject. You understand this? Suddenly she realizes she can't make X amount from you monthly, did cost benefit analysis, and now she's thinking ok, let's relegate this yuandatou to the "standby" league. Meaning now she give up 8k and she give up daily reporting to make 30k, but standby and every interval, since you stop giving monthly, she can try for big ticket items every few months. Because you stopped giving monthly you will feel paiseh and give in to the big ticket school fees medical fees trouble with gangsters fees. Typical behavioural pattern of men like you. You just project few months down the road she tell you she need 20k if not her fathermotherbrothersister will be killed by gangster, you give or don't give? Sure give what! What's the net difference between 8k monthly and 20k one shot? Bingo! Only difference is she no need report to you every night.

Like I said, only 1 option and the option is 1.

You write very well and document your thoughts very well. And for that I admire your writing style. Kudos to you.