Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[slyer]

Originally Posted by no_faith

yes bro, see my nick and siggy. wat to do.

to me if i ever decided to get married, asians/ang mo i ok de lah.
but see chinese gals throw themselves to ang mo/ke leng/dig mud hor, i cant stand it, dunno y.

bro we shd be optismitic when comes to love. love is sth wich we can't control. it also depends on fate and luck. sometimes the guy has all the qualitites and criterias the girl wan, but when there's no chemistry n feel, they will still remain as friends

i oso can't stand chinese gals choosing other guys

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Thats why I reluctantly agreed to my ex request to split cos of her parent objection. I always believe parents blessings are very important. But after so many years, now than she realized I am too old for her. Very difficult to accept her excuse.

parents blessings are very impt when comes to marriage..

[no_faith]

fate, luck, chemistry, feel, stability, too troublesome. need so much to have a long run relationship.

furthermore we all know the gal chooses her guy not the other way round.
criterias the girl, if the guy got the qualities, he can do it.

when ppl telling me my expectations too high, i tell them, nah, my expectations are not tat high.
so, i feel sian and numb in such tingy.

yes, not only marriage, in everyting parents blessing is important.
the only i tink abt marriage is forget abt the vows and juz sign the papers.

[1acoruna69]

I agree with bro no_faith

[The Sexorcist]

Originally Posted by no_faith

ok lah ok lah, maybe too offensive for my sentence. i keep to myself loh.

peace no war

I was supporting you! Don't misquote me my brethen. Make love Not war! Sex heals! War harms!

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Very seldom you find average educated Chinese woman marry to an Indian/Sikh (again no offence to our Indian bros) jaga, guard. If they marry to a caucasian, that one sure very big Dick one! MD or Chairman of Mnc.

Testified! My brethen!

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by no_faith

furthermore we all know the gal chooses her guy not the other way round. criterias the girl, if the guy got the qualities, he can do it.

Very very true. After lapse of few yrs, we may change whether in terms of looks or status, thats where she will dump you and flirt to another guy, imo.

[no_faith]

does any1 has experience got dump due to you were defeated by reality and materialistic gain?

when @ early stage, all abt love.
later stage, she tried to compare. she in the society, temptations are so strong against will power, she said eg...
why my fren's bf can bring her frequnet holidays?
"see, see, my fren bf got a new car wor."

u love her so much and so work hard to match her expectations, when finally u met, she compare other stuff. and u work again. then she gets impatient as time passed. finally she said sorry.

she wans u to promise her u will love her and nvr leave her.
but she nvr say she will love u and nvr leave u.

[Xdecepticon]

Doubt theres such thing as "true love". True love knows no age barrier, color nor status.

[Acidman]

Originally Posted by Microsoft

My classmate is married for many yrs. He had 3 children the elder 1 in upper sec. Can b consider quite a happy family....

I can still recalled the day b4 his 1st date with his wife. We r chatting at the sarabat store n i told him if u r not int in her, at least hint 2 her... Dun waste her time. Date turn out quite well n he had no heart 2 tell her wat he wanted 2 say. Come look for me a day b4 the 2nd date n i told him the same thing.

U might have guess wat happen in the end.. Till 2day, his wife didn't noe he agreed 2 go out with her jus wanna tell her not to waste her time coz he actually int in her good friend. Faith is a bery funni thing sometime... Haizz

I can very confidently tell you if your friend were to have met another girl that touches his heart now, we would have another broken marriage. Since your friend has never really really fall in love with his wife.

[Acidman]

Originally Posted by Microsoft

My classmate is married for many yrs. He had 3 children the elder 1 in upper sec. Can b consider quite a happy family....

I can still recalled the day b4 his 1st date with his wife. We r chatting at the sarabat store n i told him if u r not int in her, at least hint 2 her... Dun waste her time. Date turn out quite well n he had no heart 2 tell her wat he wanted 2 say. Come look for me a day b4 the 2nd date n i told him the same thing.

U might have guess wat happen in the end.. Till 2day, his wife didn't noe he agreed 2 go out with her jus wanna tell her not to waste her time coz he actually int in her good friend. Faith is a bery funni thing sometime... Haizz

I can very confidently tell you if your friend were to have met another girl that touches his heart now, we would have another broken marriage. Since your friend has never really really fall in love with his wife.

[Acidman]

True love do exist. Some men find it, some don't. Some settle for second best, some stayed single. Some carried on searching after settling down with their second best, some don't. Those that found it eventually will face heartache if you are already married.

So think twice before you get married, is she your true love? Can you live without her?

[Saltiga]

Originally Posted by Acidman

I can very confidently tell you if your friend were to have met another girl that touches his heart now, we would have another broken marriage. Since your friend has never really really fall in love with his wife.

well.. yes and no if you ask me, alot of time love developed after couple started knowing each other better, while some goes purely for looks, some for figure, some for brain and others fall for their truthfulness.. there is no right or wrong in any of the above just the way you are, which makes you stand out from the guy beside you..

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by Acidman

Those that found it eventually will face heartache if you are already married.

That really penetrate my heart!

[jinrenhe]

side track abit.. i used to hear this song when i was a teenager but didn't feel much. This morning when i listened to this song 88.3 radio... wah suddenly feel like the lyrics so fitting to my life now

Lee zhong sheng's "寂寞难耐"

总是平白无故的.难过起来
然而大夥都在笑话正是精彩
怎麽好意思.一个人走开

不是没有想过.随便谈个恋爱
一天又过一天.三十岁就快来往后的日子怎麽对自己交待

寂寞难耐寂寞难耐
爱情是最辛苦的等待
爱情是最遥远的未来

时光不再啊.时光不再
只有自己为自己喝采
只有自己为自己悲哀

esp those lyrics highlighted..

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by Acidman

I can very confidently tell you if your friend were to have met another girl that touches his heart now, we would have another broken marriage. Since your friend has never really really fall in love with his wife.

Perhaps... we went separate way soon after he park tor... Nowadays we meet up sometime once a yr or lesser... Usually in a grp so no chance to speak to him in private... But seem like he still holding on quite well so me oso wish him all the best lor... or maybe he like me lidat give up long ago n go abit crazy..

Oso remind me of an old old song tat goes like dis...忘尽心中情，遗下爱与痴，笑声送旧愁，美酒洗前事。

[Acidman]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

That really penetrate my heart!

Yes, it penetrate alot of our hearts.