[Advice Needed] Girlfriend

[Ahjon86]

Well bro.. You can try to set the mood right by having good kisses and foreplay helps alot..

It's good to know that u love her and want to be faithful to her.. But always remember that a healthy relationship is both ways and I cannot help but agree that if she loves u just as much sex shouldn't be a problem in your relationship as its suppose to be a natural thing..



[True story] My school motivation retreat turn mini orgy

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[newfly76]

dude, relationship is not only abt sex. Here's a short version of my 'story'. I met a girl at the airport, while on transit. I fly a lot on business.. occasionally you get lucky.

She is not the most attractive girl that most guys will take 10s to take a peak. Nevertheless, she is atractive enaugh for me. We chatted a bit and ends up bf/gf in no time.

Long story short, we did some fooling ard but i respect her wish for no sex for a a couple of years.

Fast forward 12 years and we are happily married for 10 years. Like most 'old' couples, i'm not getting much either. once or twice a month if i'm lucky. Most important is we still enjoying each other in more ways than one.

So, bro, i would say try it out. See if you still want her as bad with not sex. When you guys get married, the it wil be a real honeymoon! I know i did!

p/s: Now, i still travel for work, and occasionaly struck a conversation with some SYT. I do feel 'old' and hard to get into a real, intelligent conversation with a 18/20 yrs old chick. Of course, nothing beat a young thing in bed, but i rather hang out with someone i can have a conversation with!

Good Luck !

[nuclearkid]

At 21, most of us who had gfs then do not end up marrying them. You are both at phases of your lives where philosophies and ideologies are evolving at its fastest and many relationships do not survive this tumultuous stage.

Nursing a wood - that's an erection for those unfamiliar with this term - every other hour (you are afterall only 21 and us blokes have runaway libidos at this age) is probably causing you consternation about your celibate lifestyle right now. Since you claim to be in love with each other, enjoy the relationship for what it is and start worrying only when you are about to marry this gf of yours. If she insists no or minimal sex after marriage, I guess you know you are fucked.

[imax88]

TS, if the sexual drive of your gf is not there at 21, you are not going to get more as time goes by. your libido is only a passing phase and there are more important stuff in life to do for a 21, like education. social circle and career.

only you can make that decisive decision. weigh the pro and con of the relationship, compatibility in other areas like hobbies, intellect, outlook is equally important.

you are young and can afford to make mistake. but dont take too long to let go after you realize the relationship has no future.

[outofsex]

Bro learn to let go
it's part and parcel of life
and it's a part of growing up
get more gf and change more, eventually u will knw wat u want in life or in someone whom u think can make u willingly to put on yr 'suffe Ring'

[TheEvilDoer]

Originally Posted by binggabanga

Recently, she told me that she don't wish for me to talk cheekily, or anything about sex. Nor does she want to have sex anymore. She just tells me she wants a pure, clean, innocent relationship, where its just about love.

Looks like you have been friendzoned, you better run now and not commit to anything before the women charter pawns you the rest of your life.

[(o)(o) Tuner]

I think "INSECURE" is the word that's flashing on her mind. Both you guys are still young, so she probably feels you are unstable in many ways, financially & career...etc. Moreover, she might also thought having pre-marriage sex is morally wrong.

You are still young and energetic. I suggest you spend more effort in your work and try to work your way up in the corporate ladder. Continue your relationship and let nature takes its course. Remember, a man is nothing without a successful career.