Thai gf asking for too much money - Page 3

dustzee · #31 25-07-2011, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

No need to google, come to me and I will bring him to meet a WL who drives a brand new Honda Civic bought by her so called SG BF.

She drove me around BKK b4.

Ha bro! Sure.... would love to know!

dustzee · #32 25-07-2011, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, I'm afraid you have been had. She sees you as an ATM. When their is no more money to dispense she will find the next ATM covenient to her. Your relationship to date has been based on money. You said it youself. While your losses are significant, they are finite. Finite in the sense that you will listen to the folks here especially and call an end to the madness. No need to make a big scene out of it with her. Just call it quits before you spiral down. When you lose all your money she will leave you so have the sense to make your loses finite.

BtW Thais have a reputation for being cunning and bad with personal finance and relying on "farang" to make up for their low IQ and inability to make money as well as lack of entrepreneurship. If you wnat to sink into a third would hole then keep at it. I suggest you stick to advanced SG society. If you want to date a girl to marry why not stick with a local SG girl? At least stay within East Asians (Chinese, Japanese or Korean)? What are you crazy? if you want to be immersed in Thai culture its in your own backyard at the Golden Mile Complex.

Bro, I also thought I would end up with a local SG girl till I met her. It's hard to say why. In the past, dating a thai would only be for the fun of it. But thai girls are so docile and attentive I eventually gave in.

Anyway, just to correct a point. The Thai culture in Golden Mile is nothing compared to Thailand itself.

inlaw · #33 25-07-2011, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Joshzzz

Here's what I would do.

Pretend to run into financial trouble.
Then tell her you cannot afford to help her for awhile or even spend on her. See how she takes it for a month, then 2 months then 3.
If your relationship survives that, you may have hope yet.
If it doesn't, then you just saved yourself thousands of dollars and should be grateful.

Good suggestion, find some excuse and stop funding her for some time and see the response, and if she cares abt you.

Singster · #34 25-07-2011, 10:28 PM

As the saying goes, No Money No Honey

Linnie · #35 25-07-2011, 11:21 PM

I must say that many kind-hearted bros spent their time to post advice here. Do appreciate and listen to them.

My 2 cents worth:
If you want to find a thai or viet girl that truly loves you, you have to show yourself to be street smart at the very beginning. Show that you are clever and careful with money, they will then see you as someone who understands them and their game. They will see you as someone whom they can click with instead of an ATM.

For all of the few thai and viet girls I encounter so far, none ask me for cash or anything despite us being in short or long relationships. Some are WLs, some are not. Some even treat me to meals.

Good luck

Linnie · #36 25-07-2011, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by dustzee

Is it really a norm for them to ask their bfs for help back home? or is this only happening to foreigner bfs. What about their family?

It is normal for these girls to help finance back home (NOT YOU).

This is some traditional crap which I discourage thai/viet girls I know from doing but they still do. Some of those healthy bodied parents back home just do some easy light jobs and wait for their daughters to finance them.

Ken79 · #37 25-07-2011, 11:50 PM

You are just another cash cow or golden rooster for her, when you are dry she'd move on to another guy, simple as that.

Always remember: when the music ends; the champagne stops flowing.

These women are just good for fucking, all you need to give them is pay for meals and drinks + some normal shopping.

RealEstateGuy · #38 26-07-2011, 02:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Linnie

It is normal for these girls to help finance back home (NOT YOU).

This is some traditional crap which I discourage thai/viet girls I know from doing but they still do. Some of those healthy bodied parents back home just do some easy light jobs and wait for their daughters to finance them.

Can you give me an example of an E-Z light job? Curious what an E-Z light job is. Do they know how their dauguters are financing their lifestyle?

RealEstateGuy · #39 26-07-2011, 02:25 AM

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/reader/reader340.html

Here is a reference manual for Thailand.

Stud00 · #40 26-07-2011, 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If you stop your funding, she'll find someone else to replace you in no time at all.

That's what women from the 3rd world do. They're masters of this game.

Don't be an idiot. Break it off before you go broke.

Boss has said it all..
Dump her and move off bro..

dustzee · #41 26-07-2011, 02:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Linnie

It is normal for these girls to help finance back home (NOT YOU).

This is some traditional crap which I discourage thai/viet girls I know from doing but they still do. Some of those healthy bodied parents back home just do some easy light jobs and wait for their daughters to finance them.

Yes! I thought it was pretty ridiculous for the parents to pass their debt to the children. That's what happening in this case too. The parents are in debt cos they trusted the wrong person (a cheat), and they transferred this misfortune to the daughter. From what I see, the father is really able to make much more than he is making now. Not that I should criticize, but I think this thinking isn't practical at all. Which parents would want to see their children suffer?

dustzee · #42 26-07-2011, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Can you give me an example of an E-Z light job? Curious what an E-Z light job is. Do they know how their dauguters are financing their lifestyle?

Bro, not sure what bro Linnie has in mind for ez light job but from what I know, the thai people are really relaxed in the way they work. I went to a saloon thrice and they told me 3 times that the person who can cut hair went out for massage, come back tomorrow. Haha.....

But it works for them over there. People are generally more stress free.

However, I cannot agree with this work attitude too if they are personally in debt and their children are working their ass to pay it off.

RealEstateGuy · #43 26-07-2011, 09:04 AM

Well that's why GDP per capita is higher in SG. seems like Thais don't work as hard as normal people do. anyway I hope the brother reads the reference manual to enlighten himself. Advanced SG society is different from Thai Society. I've been to Golden Mile and feel out of place. Feels foreign like not in SG society.

wett · #44 26-07-2011, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Linnie

It is normal for these girls to help finance back home (NOT YOU).

This is some traditional crap ...

Good and bad, and that is part of asia'a tradition also, not only Thai but lot of other eastern countries.

But is is definitely bad for SG guys trying to find so called "True love" from those 3rd world countries because they can not find it from SG girl anymore, and this will happen more and more ..

hamsapkwai · #45 26-07-2011, 08:46 PM

You got to understand their culture, its no different from the Filipinos and Indonesians.

Its a SHARE culture whereby those who have are supposed to share it with those who don`t.

You will find neighbors and other freeloaders hanging around during meal times at the homes of those who have. Its an accepted practice in those areas.

Once they find somebody who has, they will leech on that person until he runs out.

In this instance they have found YOU!