Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Rem... in this dog-eat-dog world (esp in china), we are the only one responsible for our own life.

No matter how you love her, dun make the mistake of wanting to run her life or else u will be chasing a dream.

Like I said, she is of a certain age so maybe she wants to settle down with you. Juz be sure you can afford her lifestyle.

Cheerios...

Yes maybe she is ready to settle down and I happen to come into her life at that point.

Anyway she is not high upkeep as what other bros thought PRC girls to be.

But still need to consider the fact she willing to come to spore to lead a life with me mean she is expecting something like a semi-good life or good life.

But still regardless if I am marrying a PRC girl or not it take cold hard cash to maintain a marriage beside the love involved.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Yes maybe she is ready to settle down and I happen to come into her life at that point.

Anyway she is not high upkeep as what other bros thought PRC girls to be.

But still need to consider the fact she willing to come to spore to lead a life with me mean she is expecting something like a semi-good life or good life.

But still regardless if I am marrying a PRC girl or not it take cold hard cash to maintain a marriage beside the love involved.

Ya.. juz dun get dragged into paying for her extended family in china (which is disaster prone)

Sideline: I dun know if you ever feel this way but for me, I feel sex is jus much less enjoyable after my GF left. I could last twice as long (even with other Fls) when she was around. Darn, only exception was Xiao Na, Wu Li and now hopefully Li Wei.

I juz spoke to Xiao Lu today and expended the last of my callback credit and told her about this. Got laughed at but she reminded me that this is juz a phase and may pass after me and my GF's feelings water-down with time.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Ya.. juz dun get dragged into paying for her extended family in china (which is disaster prone)

Sideline: I dun know if you ever feel this way but for me, I feel sex is jus much less enjoyable after my GF left. I could last twice as long (even with other Fls) when she was around. Darn, only exception was Xiao Na, Wu Li and now hopefully Li Wei.

I juz spoke to Xiao Lu today and expended the last of my callback credit and told her about this. Got laughed at but she reminded me that this is juz a phase and may pass after me and my GF's feelings water-down with time.

For now she is not asking me for any $$$ for her family maybe it is my blessing that she is not on good terms with her extended family beside her immediate family.

So thus she got no excuse to ask me for additional $$$ to give to her extended family. Lucky me.

Well bro for yr sideline I haven't got to the stage where my little bro is raging out of control for me to seek other pastures but for one thing I can concur with you is sex is hella of great with my GF around....

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Dear Azzaro, did i mention the 3 weeks i was on domican(sleeping pills) and relaxant tablets?
Trust me, I didnt enjoy those days.
Didnt sleep for 2wks straight, yes i mean 2 wks no BS
Heart beat was high and BP was rocket high
Even my GP was panicking, she's been seeing me since high school

Well, I remember her words..."I know you for so long, you're a very strong focused person, if you set your mind to release this person, you will make a comeback soon.....then she grabbed my wrist in a caring gesture.....FISH! I just exploded in the clinic...too touched.......imagine.

It's hard, you yeard her voice, her face keeps appearing everytime you close your eyes, but trust me, it's all worth it.
If I listen to my mates then, even the mamasan told me to let go, I wouldnt have to go to hell and back.

Be strong......

Bloody hell bro azzaro, you better listen to this guy. Cos its the best advice I've heard so far on this issue. Get yourself up!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

Bloody hell bro azzaro, you better listen to this guy. Cos its the best advice I've heard so far on this issue. Get yourself up!

Tks bro Colins, but to Bro Azzaro, here's my story so as to help you not become a statistic like me & my pal who's still a wreck.

I'm in my late 30s, hv been playing since I was 27.....
Very successful life and thus, have tons of $$$$ to spend
KTVing was a way of life then..the other was golf
Anyway, me and a few very regular bro's have all kept our little scorecards on KILLS!
Yes kills
Since 2000 to now, kills are tallied at 38
Kills means screw hor.....but the best part is, I never fancy calling chicken or FL...cos I like the thrill of hunting them down and devouring them and of cos, throw them away after I get sick of them....basically, no more than 2 weeks.
Most importantly, I am never a carrot head, I like to engage in mind games & mind F*** them till they throw themselves at me FOC.....of course the usual tips apply.

Everyone around me was very envious of me...cos women just seem to come to me....even those not sitting wif me will lean behind their guests and seduce me.....with tons of witnesses of cos.
This happened at almost all the hot and high end KTVs
Thus, soon I was given a title WEI XIAO BAO.......always the winner, always kill but can never be killed!!!!

One day, i met this chick.
Well, she was sorta the ANG PAI at this high end KTV n i took fancy to her.....well, I guessed, another 1 to the tally soon.
On the 3rd time we were together, we went overnight, was a lovey dovy night.......
I tot to myself, ok not very skillful but its a good sign....cos dunno means green.......
Next morning, I woke up, sat up on bed & then she just turned over to hug me...ok normal but funny thing is that she just engulfed my dick in her mouth....a bj ensued.
I didnt cum but asked her if she knew BJ...she said her 1st time and just felt like giving me 1...damn touched but told myself.....CON JOB!

Time went by...we had our occassional arguments and overnights.......then one day, early in the morning, she called me & said she wants to go back! I said why? Earn enuff liao ah? She said no, she dun want us to always quarrel cos she has to hang out with other customers....wah score point...again touched.....then I said..once your rice bin finish, you'll be back for you dun know any other way to make $$$$ liao...she was assertive in her reply....NVR COMING BACK TO THIS DAMN PLACE AGAIN!!!!! Wow i tot, this gal must really be in love wif me.......

So she went back.......5 days later, I flew up...why..like what you said, she's the best F*** i've ever had.
Stayed in the hotel for 3days 2nites...a six star one...anyway, i asked her, so who have you been in touch with from our little island since you came back....she was very convincing and told me she cut all ties will singaporeans liao...and only me...her lao gong is the one and only sillyporean she's still in touch wif. Wow, score another 10,000 points.

The night before i came back, in the coffee house with her 2 best gal friends, a call came......she definitely became stressed...like marikita like that...walked out of the coffee house to answer the call.....that was when i knew....something fishy......
Well her friends finished their dinner so i foot the bill, went us to my room and said goodnite to her friends. Mind you, she has not returned from that call yet.
Ok i tot, it's the executive floor, no keycard cannot come up...so i went up alone, took a shower and went to bed.....
Sometime later, my doorbell rang....when i went to the peephole, it was her.
I was happy but angry so i decided to give her the benefit of a doubt and let her in to explain herself.
Well, she was very calm but i was the angry quiet one and after explaining to me, i accepted...though still quite buay song.
So i tot, now to take!
Ask her who she belongs to, she replied, yours my lao gong...
ok i want something no one has ever taken,she asked what & looked in fear....I said i want to fuck your ass! She was hesitant but gave in...to proove herself...and she commented, i'm your already lao gong, you can take watever you want......that was her 1st anal

As time went by, thing started to happen that doesn't make sense but again, give benefit of a doubt else will fight............
She made me promise her that i'll go up once every 14days to see her so she wont get too lonely....i agreed

Totally on the phone with her everyday....phone bills was like 3-5k a month.....
So far no $$$$ transpired

On the 3rd trip, after reaching the hotel, she asked me if I had cash for the cab fare??? See, all these while, all the biils except the hotel and airfare and makan was paid by me.....I was shocked asked her wat happen to all the $$$ you earned......she told me a friend cheated it away from her.........so i had 5k SGDE wif me & i gave it to her....willingly

I will skip the rest cos if i was to continue, it'll be a book.

Anyways, 7mths passed and she said she need to find RMB250k...I asked her for wat but basically her reasoning doesnt seem to convince me......but i said, ok i will pass you SGD50k....she said she doesnt want to give me the impression that she's trying to con my $$$$$$......i said its ok else you sure come back......
Mind you all these while, i have been ostracized by friends cos they already see my downfall.....outsiders can always see better...she was all i got....everything
After that call, $$$ involved liao...i kinda woke up...so i started to plot since i was suppose to go up in a weeks time!
2 days later, i called her and forced myself to cry, said i was arrested for illegal trading and now being sued for a bankrupt.........

She said dun worry lao gong, since this is the case, i'll come back, earn & support both of us...nabei...i was touched...but the (A) & (B) was fighting....reality & heart.....

Basically, she came back......had to really act broke and really lived off her......she made 6k here in 1 month and i think 5k was spent on us or me.....this is very summerised hor

Then one day...something happened and she took the next flt back & never came back liao
The puzzles...the riddles...the loopholes.....the uncertainty....i started to have a psychical & mental breakdown.
My doctor friend suggests I go visit my GP..........which that part u know already..........

If you had the chance to have coffee wif me, i'll tell you the whole story in detail......alot have not been said here so maybe the story still a bit messy
but bottomline is, i see your post...like i mentioned, photostat!

That's Y i really...and i really hope you dun fall into that trap.....
Well, i am ok now, still have dreams and flashes of her still but other than that, i'm healthy and normal...still going to the KTVs and killing but never again, will i allow myself to get too comfortable.......cos when you're too comfortable, you let your guard down and that's when you're the weakest!

Sorry all for being so LO SOH!!!!

[aczeta76]

Bro TS,

Listen to the advice given and read the true-life stories AND for goodness sake, dun become another statistic

Good luck

[EtherC]

Newbies & lao jiaos alike should take a good look at this demonstrated lethality of KC trap. 400+ posts to date and the chai tao doesn't budge. Don't waste your breath people, he's in his thirties old enough to make his own life choices. If he suffers from this its entirely his own fault. Just bear in mind that with WLs theres a fatal attraction line that we should never cross. If you ever find yourself becoming possessive of the WL, take a step back and slap yourself. WLs have Lao Gongs,Bao Beis and Chin Ai Des. Being called that doesn't mean you're the special one. It means you have been tagged, categorised and primed to bleed in the end. Much better to objectify them than have them objectify you. 宁愿我负天下人,莫让天下人负我-曹操

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Tks bro Colins, but to Bro Azzaro, here's my story so as to help you not become a statistic like me & my pal who's still a wreck.

I'm in my late 30s, hv been playing since I was 27.....
Very successful life and thus, have tons of $$$$ to spend
KTVing was a way of life then..the other was golf
Anyway, me and a few very regular bro's have all kept our little scorecards on KILLS!
Yes kills
Since 2000 to now, kills are tallied at 38
Kills means screw hor.....but the best part is, I never fancy calling chicken or FL...cos I like the thrill of hunting them down and devouring them and of cos, throw them away after I get sick of them....basically, no more than 2 weeks.
Most importantly, I am never a carrot head, I like to engage in mind games & mind F*** them till they throw themselves at me FOC.....of course the usual tips apply.

Everyone around me was very envious of me...cos women just seem to come to me....even those not sitting wif me will lean behind their guests and seduce me.....with tons of witnesses of cos.
This happened at almost all the hot and high end KTVs
Thus, soon I was given a title WEI XIAO BAO.......always the winner, always kill but can never be killed!!!!

One day, i met this chick.
Well, she was sorta the ANG PAI at this high end KTV n i took fancy to her.....well, I guessed, another 1 to the tally soon.
On the 3rd time we were together, we went overnight, was a lovey dovy night.......
I tot to myself, ok not very skillful but its a good sign....cos dunno means green.......
Next morning, I woke up, sat up on bed & then she just turned over to hug me...ok normal but funny thing is that she just engulfed my dick in her mouth....a bj ensued.
I didnt cum but asked her if she knew BJ...she said her 1st time and just felt like giving me 1...damn touched but told myself.....CON JOB!

Time went by...we had our occassional arguments and overnights.......then one day, early in the morning, she called me & said she wants to go back! I said why? Earn enuff liao ah? She said no, she dun want us to always quarrel cos she has to hang out with other customers....wah score point...again touched.....then I said..once your rice bin finish, you'll be back for you dun know any other way to make $$$$ liao...she was assertive in her reply....NVR COMING BACK TO THIS DAMN PLACE AGAIN!!!!! Wow i tot, this gal must really be in love wif me.......

So she went back.......5 days later, I flew up...why..like what you said, she's the best F*** i've ever had.
Stayed in the hotel for 3days 2nites...a six star one...anyway, i asked her, so who have you been in touch with from our little island since you came back....she was very convincing and told me she cut all ties will singaporeans liao...and only me...her lao gong is the one and only sillyporean she's still in touch wif. Wow, score another 10,000 points.

The night before i came back, in the coffee house with her 2 best gal friends, a call came......she definitely became stressed...like marikita like that...walked out of the coffee house to answer the call.....that was when i knew....something fishy......
Well her friends finished their dinner so i foot the bill, went us to my room and said goodnite to her friends. Mind you, she has not returned from that call yet.
Ok i tot, it's the executive floor, no keycard cannot come up...so i went up alone, took a shower and went to bed.....
Sometime later, my doorbell rang....when i went to the peephole, it was her.
I was happy but angry so i decided to give her the benefit of a doubt and let her in to explain herself.
Well, she was very calm but i was the angry quiet one and after explaining to me, i accepted...though still quite buay song.
So i tot, now to take!
Ask her who she belongs to, she replied, yours my lao gong...
ok i want something no one has ever taken,she asked what & looked in fear....I said i want to fuck your ass! She was hesitant but gave in...to proove herself...and she commented, i'm your already lao gong, you can take watever you want......that was her 1st anal

As time went by, thing started to happen that doesn't make sense but again, give benefit of a doubt else will fight............
She made me promise her that i'll go up once every 14days to see her so she wont get too lonely....i agreed

Totally on the phone with her everyday....phone bills was like 3-5k a month.....
So far no $$$$ transpired

On the 3rd trip, after reaching the hotel, she asked me if I had cash for the cab fare??? See, all these while, all the biils except the hotel and airfare and makan was paid by me.....I was shocked asked her wat happen to all the $$$ you earned......she told me a friend cheated it away from her.........so i had 5k SGDE wif me & i gave it to her....willingly

I will skip the rest cos if i was to continue, it'll be a book.

Anyways, 7mths passed and she said she need to find RMB250k...I asked her for wat but basically her reasoning doesnt seem to convince me......but i said, ok i will pass you SGD50k....she said she doesnt want to give me the impression that she's trying to con my $$$$$$......i said its ok else you sure come back......
Mind you all these while, i have been ostracized by friends cos they already see my downfall.....outsiders can always see better...she was all i got....everything
After that call, $$$ involved liao...i kinda woke up...so i started to plot since i was suppose to go up in a weeks time!
2 days later, i called her and forced myself to cry, said i was arrested for illegal trading and now being sued for a bankrupt.........

She said dun worry lao gong, since this is the case, i'll come back, earn & support both of us...nabei...i was touched...but the (A) & (B) was fighting....reality & heart.....

Basically, she came back......had to really act broke and really lived off her......she made 6k here in 1 month and i think 5k was spent on us or me.....this is very summerised hor

Then one day...something happened and she took the next flt back & never came back liao
The puzzles...the riddles...the loopholes.....the uncertainty....i started to have a psychical & mental breakdown.
My doctor friend suggests I go visit my GP..........which that part u know already..........

If you had the chance to have coffee wif me, i'll tell you the whole story in detail......alot have not been said here so maybe the story still a bit messy
but bottomline is, i see your post...like i mentioned, photostat!

That's Y i really...and i really hope you dun fall into that trap.....
Well, i am ok now, still have dreams and flashes of her still but other than that, i'm healthy and normal...still going to the KTVs and killing but never again, will i allow myself to get too comfortable.......cos when you're too comfortable, you let your guard down and that's when you're the weakest!

Sorry all for being so LO SOH!!!!

[EtherC]

Newbies & lao jiaos alike should take a good look at this demonstrated lethality of KC trap. 400+ posts to date and the chai tao doesn't budge. Don't waste your breath people, he's in his thirties old enough to make his own life choices. If he suffers from this its entirely his own fault. Just bear in mind that with WLs theres a fatal attraction line that we should never cross. If you ever find yourself becoming possessive of the WL, take a step back and slap yourself. WLs have Lao Gongs,Bao Beis and Chin Ai Des. Being called that doesn't mean you're the special one. It means you have been tagged, categorised and primed to bleed in the end. Much better to objectify them than have them objectify you. 宁愿我负天下人,莫让天下人负我-曹操

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Tks bro Colins, but to Bro Azzaro, here's my story so as to help you not become a statistic like me & my pal who's still a wreck.

I'm in my late 30s, hv been playing since I was 27.....
Very successful life and thus, have tons of $$$$ to spend
KTVing was a way of life then..the other was golf
Anyway, me and a few very regular bro's have all kept our little scorecards on KILLS!
Yes kills
Since 2000 to now, kills are tallied at 38
Kills means screw hor.....but the best part is, I never fancy calling chicken or FL...cos I like the thrill of hunting them down and devouring them and of cos, throw them away after I get sick of them....basically, no more than 2 weeks.
Most importantly, I am never a carrot head, I like to engage in mind games & mind F*** them till they throw themselves at me FOC.....of course the usual tips apply.

Everyone around me was very envious of me...cos women just seem to come to me....even those not sitting wif me will lean behind their guests and seduce me.....with tons of witnesses of cos.
This happened at almost all the hot and high end KTVs
Thus, soon I was given a title WEI XIAO BAO.......always the winner, always kill but can never be killed!!!!

One day, i met this chick.
Well, she was sorta the ANG PAI at this high end KTV n i took fancy to her.....well, I guessed, another 1 to the tally soon.
On the 3rd time we were together, we went overnight, was a lovey dovy night.......
I tot to myself, ok not very skillful but its a good sign....cos dunno means green.......
Next morning, I woke up, sat up on bed & then she just turned over to hug me...ok normal but funny thing is that she just engulfed my dick in her mouth....a bj ensued.
I didnt cum but asked her if she knew BJ...she said her 1st time and just felt like giving me 1...damn touched but told myself.....CON JOB!

Time went by...we had our occassional arguments and overnights.......then one day, early in the morning, she called me & said she wants to go back! I said why? Earn enuff liao ah? She said no, she dun want us to always quarrel cos she has to hang out with other customers....wah score point...again touched.....then I said..once your rice bin finish, you'll be back for you dun know any other way to make $$$$ liao...she was assertive in her reply....NVR COMING BACK TO THIS DAMN PLACE AGAIN!!!!! Wow i tot, this gal must really be in love wif me.......

So she went back.......5 days later, I flew up...why..like what you said, she's the best F*** i've ever had.
Stayed in the hotel for 3days 2nites...a six star one...anyway, i asked her, so who have you been in touch with from our little island since you came back....she was very convincing and told me she cut all ties will singaporeans liao...and only me...her lao gong is the one and only sillyporean she's still in touch wif. Wow, score another 10,000 points.

The night before i came back, in the coffee house with her 2 best gal friends, a call came......she definitely became stressed...like marikita like that...walked out of the coffee house to answer the call.....that was when i knew....something fishy......
Well her friends finished their dinner so i foot the bill, went us to my room and said goodnite to her friends. Mind you, she has not returned from that call yet.
Ok i tot, it's the executive floor, no keycard cannot come up...so i went up alone, took a shower and went to bed.....
Sometime later, my doorbell rang....when i went to the peephole, it was her.
I was happy but angry so i decided to give her the benefit of a doubt and let her in to explain herself.
Well, she was very calm but i was the angry quiet one and after explaining to me, i accepted...though still quite buay song.
So i tot, now to take!
Ask her who she belongs to, she replied, yours my lao gong...
ok i want something no one has ever taken,she asked what & looked in fear....I said i want to fuck your ass! She was hesitant but gave in...to proove herself...and she commented, i'm your already lao gong, you can take watever you want......that was her 1st anal

As time went by, thing started to happen that doesn't make sense but again, give benefit of a doubt else will fight............
She made me promise her that i'll go up once every 14days to see her so she wont get too lonely....i agreed

Totally on the phone with her everyday....phone bills was like 3-5k a month.....
So far no $$$$ transpired

On the 3rd trip, after reaching the hotel, she asked me if I had cash for the cab fare??? See, all these while, all the biils except the hotel and airfare and makan was paid by me.....I was shocked asked her wat happen to all the $$$ you earned......she told me a friend cheated it away from her.........so i had 5k SGDE wif me & i gave it to her....willingly

I will skip the rest cos if i was to continue, it'll be a book.

Anyways, 7mths passed and she said she need to find RMB250k...I asked her for wat but basically her reasoning doesnt seem to convince me......but i said, ok i will pass you SGD50k....she said she doesnt want to give me the impression that she's trying to con my $$$$$$......i said its ok else you sure come back......
Mind you all these while, i have been ostracized by friends cos they already see my downfall.....outsiders can always see better...she was all i got....everything
After that call, $$$ involved liao...i kinda woke up...so i started to plot since i was suppose to go up in a weeks time!
2 days later, i called her and forced myself to cry, said i was arrested for illegal trading and now being sued for a bankrupt.........

She said dun worry lao gong, since this is the case, i'll come back, earn & support both of us...nabei...i was touched...but the (A) & (B) was fighting....reality & heart.....

Basically, she came back......had to really act broke and really lived off her......she made 6k here in 1 month and i think 5k was spent on us or me.....this is very summerised hor

Then one day...something happened and she took the next flt back & never came back liao
The puzzles...the riddles...the loopholes.....the uncertainty....i started to have a psychical & mental breakdown.
My doctor friend suggests I go visit my GP..........which that part u know already..........

If you had the chance to have coffee wif me, i'll tell you the whole story in detail......alot have not been said here so maybe the story still a bit messy
but bottomline is, i see your post...like i mentioned, photostat!

That's Y i really...and i really hope you dun fall into that trap.....
Well, i am ok now, still have dreams and flashes of her still but other than that, i'm healthy and normal...still going to the KTVs and killing but never again, will i allow myself to get too comfortable.......cos when you're too comfortable, you let your guard down and that's when you're the weakest!

Sorry all for being so LO SOH!!!!

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Bro TS,

Listen to the advice given and read the true-life stories AND for goodness sake, dun become another statistic

Good luck

Do appericate the advices given by the bros over here. Like what other bros say it all up to me if I willing to carrying on this destructive path or turn back while my dignity is still intact.

[EtherC]

Newbies & lao jiaos alike should take a good look at this demonstrated lethality of KC trap. 400+ posts to date and the chai tao doesn't budge. Don't waste your breath people, he's in his thirties old enough to make his own life choices. If he suffers from this its entirely his own fault. Just bear in mind that with WLs theres a fatal attraction line that we should never cross. If you ever find yourself becoming possessive of the WL, take a step back and slap yourself. WLs have Lao Gongs,Bao Beis and Chin Ai Des. Being called that doesn't mean you're the special one. It means you have been tagged, categorised and primed to bleed in the end. Much better to objectify them than have them objectify you. 宁愿我负天下人,莫让天下人负我-曹操

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Tks bro Colins, but to Bro Azzaro, here's my story so as to help you not become a statistic like me & my pal who's still a wreck.

I'm in my late 30s, hv been playing since I was 27.....
Very successful life and thus, have tons of $$$$ to spend
KTVing was a way of life then..the other was golf
Anyway, me and a few very regular bro's have all kept our little scorecards on KILLS!
Yes kills
Since 2000 to now, kills are tallied at 38
Kills means screw hor.....but the best part is, I never fancy calling chicken or FL...cos I like the thrill of hunting them down and devouring them and of cos, throw them away after I get sick of them....basically, no more than 2 weeks.
Most importantly, I am never a carrot head, I like to engage in mind games & mind F*** them till they throw themselves at me FOC.....of course the usual tips apply.

Everyone around me was very envious of me...cos women just seem to come to me....even those not sitting wif me will lean behind their guests and seduce me.....with tons of witnesses of cos.
This happened at almost all the hot and high end KTVs
Thus, soon I was given a title WEI XIAO BAO.......always the winner, always kill but can never be killed!!!!

One day, i met this chick.
Well, she was sorta the ANG PAI at this high end KTV n i took fancy to her.....well, I guessed, another 1 to the tally soon.
On the 3rd time we were together, we went overnight, was a lovey dovy night.......
I tot to myself, ok not very skillful but its a good sign....cos dunno means green.......
Next morning, I woke up, sat up on bed & then she just turned over to hug me...ok normal but funny thing is that she just engulfed my dick in her mouth....a bj ensued.
I didnt cum but asked her if she knew BJ...she said her 1st time and just felt like giving me 1...damn touched but told myself.....CON JOB!

Time went by...we had our occassional arguments and overnights.......then one day, early in the morning, she called me & said she wants to go back! I said why? Earn enuff liao ah? She said no, she dun want us to always quarrel cos she has to hang out with other customers....wah score point...again touched.....then I said..once your rice bin finish, you'll be back for you dun know any other way to make $$$$ liao...she was assertive in her reply....NVR COMING BACK TO THIS DAMN PLACE AGAIN!!!!! Wow i tot, this gal must really be in love wif me.......

So she went back.......5 days later, I flew up...why..like what you said, she's the best F*** i've ever had.
Stayed in the hotel for 3days 2nites...a six star one...anyway, i asked her, so who have you been in touch with from our little island since you came back....she was very convincing and told me she cut all ties will singaporeans liao...and only me...her lao gong is the one and only sillyporean she's still in touch wif. Wow, score another 10,000 points.

The night before i came back, in the coffee house with her 2 best gal friends, a call came......she definitely became stressed...like marikita like that...walked out of the coffee house to answer the call.....that was when i knew....something fishy......
Well her friends finished their dinner so i foot the bill, went us to my room and said goodnite to her friends. Mind you, she has not returned from that call yet.
Ok i tot, it's the executive floor, no keycard cannot come up...so i went up alone, took a shower and went to bed.....
Sometime later, my doorbell rang....when i went to the peephole, it was her.
I was happy but angry so i decided to give her the benefit of a doubt and let her in to explain herself.
Well, she was very calm but i was the angry quiet one and after explaining to me, i accepted...though still quite buay song.
So i tot, now to take!
Ask her who she belongs to, she replied, yours my lao gong...
ok i want something no one has ever taken,she asked what & looked in fear....I said i want to fuck your ass! She was hesitant but gave in...to proove herself...and she commented, i'm your already lao gong, you can take watever you want......that was her 1st anal

As time went by, thing started to happen that doesn't make sense but again, give benefit of a doubt else will fight............
She made me promise her that i'll go up once every 14days to see her so she wont get too lonely....i agreed

Totally on the phone with her everyday....phone bills was like 3-5k a month.....
So far no $$$$ transpired

On the 3rd trip, after reaching the hotel, she asked me if I had cash for the cab fare??? See, all these while, all the biils except the hotel and airfare and makan was paid by me.....I was shocked asked her wat happen to all the $$$ you earned......she told me a friend cheated it away from her.........so i had 5k SGDE wif me & i gave it to her....willingly

I will skip the rest cos if i was to continue, it'll be a book.

Anyways, 7mths passed and she said she need to find RMB250k...I asked her for wat but basically her reasoning doesnt seem to convince me......but i said, ok i will pass you SGD50k....she said she doesnt want to give me the impression that she's trying to con my $$$$$$......i said its ok else you sure come back......
Mind you all these while, i have been ostracized by friends cos they already see my downfall.....outsiders can always see better...she was all i got....everything
After that call, $$$ involved liao...i kinda woke up...so i started to plot since i was suppose to go up in a weeks time!
2 days later, i called her and forced myself to cry, said i was arrested for illegal trading and now being sued for a bankrupt.........

She said dun worry lao gong, since this is the case, i'll come back, earn & support both of us...nabei...i was touched...but the (A) & (B) was fighting....reality & heart.....

Basically, she came back......had to really act broke and really lived off her......she made 6k here in 1 month and i think 5k was spent on us or me.....this is very summerised hor

Then one day...something happened and she took the next flt back & never came back liao
The puzzles...the riddles...the loopholes.....the uncertainty....i started to have a psychical & mental breakdown.
My doctor friend suggests I go visit my GP..........which that part u know already..........

If you had the chance to have coffee wif me, i'll tell you the whole story in detail......alot have not been said here so maybe the story still a bit messy
but bottomline is, i see your post...like i mentioned, photostat!

That's Y i really...and i really hope you dun fall into that trap.....
Well, i am ok now, still have dreams and flashes of her still but other than that, i'm healthy and normal...still going to the KTVs and killing but never again, will i allow myself to get too comfortable.......cos when you're too comfortable, you let your guard down and that's when you're the weakest!

Sorry all for being so LO SOH!!!!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Do appericate the advices given by the bros over here. Like what other bros say it all up to me if I willing to carrying on this destructive path or turn back while my dignity is still intact.

You're rite, i am not the 1st, nor will you be the last.
For the bro who upped me & commented that you're in kinda similar situation, do the right thing.

I am married, have a lovely 8yr old kid.....
I have 2 mistresses....1 singaporean.....wif me 10yrs liao
Another from HangZhou...wif me 3yrs liao
Yes some may say I'm an asshole for being so greedy but that's just me......
My fortune teller tells me that I'll have 4 wives....and she was the 4th
I bring all my women there for reading, of cos, only those that i am starting to get serious wif
He also warned me that this 4th is fated to appear & cos u the most harm....even he warned me to leave her...I always trusted him but this time, fell on deaf ears.......
Well it happened, and you all know what, there's one more episode to be played out!
This fortune teller of mine is damn freaking choon.......so the day after she left, i went to seek him out.......
That's when he told me everything......

She loves you....truely but there's a catch.....she likes excitement and is very greedy....of cos I know.....I am a millionaire but i do not own any branded stuff.....even my wallets are Braun...not LV Prada etc
For her, Burberry, LV, you name it...it's all real not chiong stuff and all high end
The honeymoon period was sweet, but once honeymoon period is over, she starts to get bored.....you dun feed her.....love cant fill her tummy plus she greedy.......i was giving her SGD5k a month after that to survive...that's 25kRMB.....but shit was still happening behind my back...it wasnt enuff to fill her $$$ appetite...so she had other strings to fill in those gaps
He says......she'll be back & she'll sort you out......cos u r the only one for her....and becos she truely loves you...you'll suffer the most!
When there's bad weather, she'll be nice....once all calm...old ways will come back...........
He also said we're both like steel...very strong willed & focused people but once we meet, we always melt......when this encounter takes place again, you must not accept her back no matter what or it will ruin you........this time, it's the point of no return
In a nutshell, she's your karma....retribution for playing so many gals........
I asked him how to come back...already blacklisted by ICA blah blah....my fortune teller just laughed and said....unless i am wrong, then it'll be my 1st!

So imagine, the anguish of waiting for that day to come...try not thinking about it but it'll still ring its bell........

That's why i'd rather throw money, be happy wif my 3 wives and still F around.....I'm kinda like her...once all calm, bored will need to seek excitement.......there's always a price for everything

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Well, since i'm down wif a bad case of flu and stuck at home...I'll tell more....
She's from Sichuan...Chengdu
I have a company there as well.......
Before she went back...a day before actually......i brought her to my sifu for a reading
He said, "YOUR PREGNANT!" She said no leh.....then dunno
I was thrilled.....cos I hv been wanting another kid but just cant conceive
He told me to come back after she flew back...which I did
Well, my sifu was acting kinda wierd, like talking very carefully.......just asks things like is there a way to check fetus DNA blah blah.......told me to be very sure its mine...hmmmmmm
On my second trip up, she was acting strange, quarrelled then lovy dovy then war again...well she preggers i tot so i gave in......
The next day, she asks me to accompany her to the gynie...which i did....to my shock....she went for an abortion...wif me in the hospital........I freaked and told her no...she said the doc there says this baby no good blah blah...i said wait, go singapore, medical science more advanced there...then she freaked got angry and went for it
I called my 2 mistresses crying and they also spoke to her trying to talk her out of it...like we're all family, we'll all support you blah blah....no use
Then i called my sifu......he just said this action is very obvious but wouldn't reveal more.....just told me to say a prayer for the unborn child and karma will be on her not me..........I remembered, he warned her...if she doesn't change her ways, she'll be all alone one day & no one will be beside her on her deathbed....... I was in love, cared the world for her and didnt want that to happen........

When she was wheeled out, she was obviously in pain.....in the rehab room, i could hear her weak voice calling lao gong lao gong.....but i was too shocked...upset & sad to want to give a F....that was my last straw...so i tot...i was planning to fly back tmr & adios muschachos
Then the nurse ran out, asked me if i was her man...i nodded & she ushered me into the room saying your wife looking for you......
When i went in, she was in the bed deepest of the room.....there were 3 beds altogether and what freaked me out even more were 2 more PRC couples in there....that's obviously the rehab room for abortions....the other 2 couples were actually very happy......can tell from their faces and smiles

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Anyways, there she was, curled up in pain and very weak.....stretching out her right hand wif eyes hardly able to open............just continuously calling out lao gong lao gong...i didnt utter a word and just held her hand wif no strength.....machiam limp cos i was already dead then
Tears flowed out from her eyes and she said sorry sorry, please forgive me on and on and on......imagine the scene...sadness and both of us was crying there...where the other 2 couples we celebrating.........i didnt utter a word at all

About an hour or so passed, when she regained her strength, she was ready to leave the hospital....so i still supported her cos if was obvious that she'll still weak....suggested she take a cab back home and i take another cab back to the hotel but she wanted to go back to the hotel............
Ok so we hopped into a cab and back to the hotel i went.........

Night slowly passed and finally she awoke.....very silent...can tell she's filled with guilt and again, that touched my heart

I nvr spoke to her at all during this period
Then it was time to check out & head to the airport

[DO_YOU_BJ]

At the hotel lobby, i told her no need to send me to the airport, go home.....she insisted very subtly that she wants to send me off
We went together in the cab...not a word until i was about to walk into the customs.......I looked at her....telling myself that's it.......then she cried again....saying sorry for what she did blah blah...touchy moment...then if became soft & cried and hugged her so tightly & told her to take care of herself cos that was the last time she'll see or hear from me again.......the i pushed her away & walked into customs
All these while...my heart and mind was all screwed................
The flt back, i even cried in the plane till the stewardess asked me am i alright.....so you can imagine the anguish and state i was in

When i landed, turned on my mobile phone and received a sms from her.
The sms tells of how sorry she was, and if there was any way to make it up to me she wud.....but if i didnt want her anymore, she wud nvr blame me cos its all of her own doing.....
I was so touched and impulsively called her immediately
That was the beginning of everything downhill

[DO_YOU_BJ]

As time passed, there seems to be wierd outbursts of tempers from her....which i will always blame myself for it.....TOTAL DENIAL of my own intelligence
F*** i already hv 3 wives, what am i not doin rite here

Next thing u know, 14days is almost due
She told me this time come up dun stay hotel anymore ok, my mom dun like it
So i said, then stay where....she says stay at her place with her
Hesitant at 1st but then, they it's the next step
Went up, reached her place and got a shock
The old walk up apartments that has only 2 bedrooms and really small
I was darn uncomfortable but she was very nice and sweet all the way.....surprisingly, when we're together, nvr quarrel of outbursts.....again wierd...cos not consistent

All went well, next trip up, stayed there again but this time, cannot heck liao......call my GM in Chengdu to find me a place in a porche district....so bot an apartment there for RMB1.85mil
The next trip up, moved into our new home. Her mom adores me and i liked her alot....the feeling was home, so all went very well

On one trip, went out wif her best ladyfriends again, one of them, whom I knew from here as well, is also being kept by a guy here......but wat happened later shocked me....somehow she dropped her bag & bang, 3 mobile phones dropped out....I was like WAH, your biz very big..........she said no lah, 1 number for friends, one for family the other for lao gong from SG......i just laughed and commented that i have to mad to believe that!

That was the first hint but i didnt bother. Can even joke wif my woman about it later that nite, she assurred me that she's not like her...and stupidly, I believed.

There were times i tried to call her but no signal or no answer....and after a while she'll call back in a very quiet place and apologise saying that she's out kopi wif friends and it was damn noisy cannot hear......i believed her

Many such incidents, and honestly, I was in real doubt but kept telling myself not to probe or else war again...afterall, my chick already wat.....why poison myself......