Have anyone fallen in love with a FL

[ahpui99]

Does nationality matter? I see a lot of prc comments. Had friends that kenna from thai and malaysian wor

[Big Sexy]

nationality doesnt matter, the point is never kc with a whore
when it comes to whores, just screw, pay and leave

Originally Posted by ahpui99

Does nationality matter? I see a lot of prc comments. Had friends that kenna from thai and malaysian wor

[ahpui99]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

nationality doesnt matter, the point is never kc with a whore when it comes to whores, just screw, pay and leave

Agree with you, my friend

[warrior2013]

Originally Posted by warrior2013

Thanks for the advice bro.
I tried that and the patterns are rather different from the ladies.

They are quite unique.

That's what made me spellbound by my prc ML now. ( shes in dragonland Fling now )

Booked the ticker for Hubei already. Read alot about the bros bad experiences etc and even got severely mindfucked myself almost to mental oblivion but managed to stay focused on my weightlifting and biz ( thank GOD for that ). She kept telling me to rest enough and go there a healthy n strong person when she sees me so I did just that, took my steroids and trained like a madman and sent her my pic after 16 days of training and chemical wizardry ( so to speak ) and was told that muscles intimidated her. First time in my life as a cheongster I got sucker punched. LOL. Anyway, she told me if I love my sport just do it but dun overgrow ( I cant anyway my genes arent fantastic to start with ) Insomnia for 72 hrs ( abit exagggerated ) and tried my best to stay composed thru the day. I was mindfucked 24 hrs per day while trying to stay focused. Guess this is my ultimate karma for years of straying and philandering when I once had good girls but failed to treasure them. Already a walking comedy but I come to the point I dun give a fucking shit anymore cos too many obstacles came along just before I was about to fly off. Its due soon. But the intensity of mindfuck is climbing to the stratospheric levels and rage is overwhelming me as fate seem to be trying to stop me in ANY possible ways ( murphy's law to the infinite level ) and since its my debut visit to China I must tel myself no matter how hellish the outcome may be its a trip to embrace the culture and living there as part of experiential purpose altho I know well enough why I was gonna be there. To contain my rebellious streak I went thru austere spiritual cultivation at horrendous intensity cos I dun wish her to see the dark side of me. Notat this point at least. Made enough for the trip ( as per her recommended amt -pretty reasonable ) SInce in my 10 yrs of cheonging I nvr had such a deep connection to a prc before I am gonna take this as far as I can. Maybe it will be the devastation strong enough to break me since for yrs I was unbreakable ( soul-wise ) my exp is very diff from other bros in my opinion its a spiritual journey and if it leads to my entry unto the dark side then I shall dine in hell ( hypothetically ). Let fate lead the way ( well fates been a real motherfucker to me pretty long now but I will go ahead anyway ). This will be the next level of test for me in the emotional realm. Just do it.

[newbieboy]

So it's true... Weight lifters are suckers for pain.

[warrior2013]

Originally Posted by newbieboy

So it's true... Weight lifters are suckers for pain.

HAHAHAH! Pain and gain happens in the gym but pain the heart will destroy even The Strongest amongst mortals... Lubu himself couldnt control his destiny after meeting DIao Chan (KC level 100000++ ). What more normal folks like us?

[patrickjane]

Originally Posted by warrior2013

HAHAHAH! Pain and gain happens in the gym but pain the heart will destroy even The Strongest amongst mortals... Lubu himself couldnt control his destiny after meeting DIao Chan (KC level 100000++ ). What more normal folks like us?

Haha. Nice one.

[warrior2013]

Originally Posted by newbieboy

So it's true... Weight lifters are suckers for pain.

Abt the pain...concur with u on that at another aspect. I do smile with delight as the doctor administered my anabolics over 4 injections and that freaked him out. Not a hint of fearing or wincing over the needle. Thick one.


But... the pain in the heart will reduce me from a black bear to a torn up teddy bear..

GUess I am not alone in this....

[MaMister]

Spend more money and you will learn.

[MaMister]

Originally Posted by pstrike

This.

I'm just coming back from overseas, and I met this girls at a massage place. I got her number after the first time, we chatted a bit. She would go out with me, but when I try to visit the same place to get service from her, she would refuse and say that it's awkward, and it just drove me crazy knowing that she was doing it with everyone else that came to visit.

It really screws things up once you get to know them too well. So after that I tell myself, when I visit, I'm visiting just to have some fun, not to make any friends, try to get into any relationship, or anything. Have a good time, and forget about it.

Why not fuck her outside instead.

[warrior2013]

Originally Posted by warrior2013

Booked the ticker for Hubei already. Read alot about the bros bad experiences etc and even got severely mindfucked myself almost to mental oblivion but managed to stay focused on my weightlifting and biz ( thank GOD for that ). She kept telling me to rest enough and go there a healthy n strong person when she sees me so I did just that, took my steroids and trained like a madman and sent her my pic after 16 days of training and chemical wizardry ( so to speak ) and was told that muscles intimidated her. First time in my life as a cheongster I got sucker punched. LOL. Anyway, she told me if I love my sport just do it but dun overgrow ( I cant anyway my genes arent fantastic to start with ) Insomnia for 72 hrs ( abit exagggerated ) and tried my best to stay composed thru the day. I was mindfucked 24 hrs per day while trying to stay focused. Guess this is my ultimate karma for years of straying and philandering when I once had good girls but failed to treasure them. Already a walking comedy but I come to the point I dun give a fucking shit anymore cos too many obstacles came along just before I was about to fly off. Its due soon. But the intensity of mindfuck is climbing to the stratospheric levels and rage is overwhelming me as fate seem to be trying to stop me in ANY possible ways ( murphy's law to the infinite level ) and since its my debut visit to China I must tel myself no matter how hellish the outcome may be its a trip to embrace the culture and living there as part of experiential purpose altho I know well enough why I was gonna be there. To contain my rebellious streak I went thru austere spiritual cultivation at horrendous intensity cos I dun wish her to see the dark side of me. Notat this point at least. Made enough for the trip ( as per her recommended amt -pretty reasonable ) SInce in my 10 yrs of cheonging I nvr had such a deep connection to a prc before I am gonna take this as far as I can. Maybe it will be the devastation strong enough to break me since for yrs I was unbreakable ( soul-wise ) my exp is very diff from other bros in my opinion its a spiritual journey and if it leads to my entry unto the dark side then I shall dine in hell ( hypothetically ). Let fate lead the way ( well fates been a real motherfucker to me pretty long now but I will go ahead anyway ). This will be the next level of test for me in the emotional realm. Just do it.

Been some time since the days of uncertainty.
Apparently a series of unexpect events came about and many upheavals took place at the same time.
My gal buddy even described it as " me vs everything " and here's the outcome.
SHe and I had huge quarrels from time to time about the intentions she had and the lack of communication as well as my insecurities as a first timer in long distance so called relationship despite my cheonging years.
Out of sight out of proximity my vision blurs.

Alas, my insecurities as well as her realization that this isnt gonna work out make things fall apart. I will dispense from the nitty gritty but in a nutshell. I failed to see the distance and phenomena that is to come will not only separate us but also wreck my world n all that I hold dear. NO. I am NOT blaming her for that, but it is I who failed to see the compassion she had when she tried to tel me that parting was imminent and illusory measures were used. Conversations were all care and concern from her and her update of her life, very real of her.
We had a heart to heart talk ( details not needed ).
We are now friends and speaking heartily to each other.
Painful it is. But truth set me free, the truth I was too blind to see.
Its a peaceful completion and now we are on journey as friends.

Peace out! )

[babyeyes]

Originally Posted by tomcat007

They are in this line to make money, not to find love. Direct from a WL: Even got love, still need to feed stomach.

Just follow 3F procedure... Find, Fuck, Forget.

You are right! Bro.

[shadoweclispe]

I feel that you should set aside around 1.5k for a FL (inclusive of the costs for fucking, hotels,meals,etc) After the money is used up, you would have obtained a reasonable amount of GFE and companionship to make your time and money worth. After that, just move on to a new one! Like what so many bros have stated, supply is more than demand. Why limit yourself to one?
Personally, this works as it helps keep things fresh and the damage is limited.

[vaxva]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

My ex "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.

Few words, great teaching...
Thanks for the essay

[Boinkboinkboink]

Originally Posted by justl00king

It depends on how you handle the relationship.

......

Just need to remember this- if they really likes you, they only want your time. If not, they just want your money.

What if "mixed signal" leh bro?