How to handle a Breakup

Originally Posted by beck7777

So you having the same GF all along?

I was also wondering what he meant 'patch' ..., maybe sooner or later no patch... ouch wood ..

Despite steps given by TS, it is never easy, n also never fall 4 another on the rebound.

[Swift_jay]

its reali quite a good steps to take seriously..
i have been doing some of it myself even before i read it... jus think abt the time when u r not with her and being alone there is also fun too..
jus like when u r a kid wanting to have all the fun and u dun wan any disturbance from ur parents.. haha.. seem stupid it might be but it reali works for my case...

sometime might think of those happy time back but after all it over and have to think in a positive way tat the next gal will make a better and sweeter memories.. wats the point of holding on the past?? there are lots of nicer flower too...

cheers

[tk-king]

Originally Posted by beck7777

So you having the same GF all along?

ya same GF feeling
with diff gals

[L P P L]

Originally Posted by tk-king

ya same GF feeling
with diff gals

Oh, by patch, u mean hooking up with another ... in this case, yours may not be break up in the strictest sense, bcos there was no emotional attachment in the first place, just sexual.

[Xdecepticon]

If love so great, and age knows no boundary then why the parent must come into the picture? But I always believe theres only one mum/dad. So I let her go but deep inside, i feel rotten to the core. Will never find another similar her.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

time will try to heal all wounds.Like most ppl will say,its easier said than done but thinking back seriously do we really have a choice?This is life,most of the time we do have a choice but its only whether we wanna take it or not.I had been thru a broken r/s of 3 yrs and it took me more than a yr to slowly forget it thou shadows of the past do appear here and then but i had to tell myself its really over and i really need to move on.

[ix1x]

sometimes what is rational may not be something you able to overcome emotionally... yes you can have steps trying to cure it but maybe its only able cure on surface but deep down inside are you really ready to face it agaain?

[no_faith]

itz not easy but try not to torture urself.
y torturing urself where she might be wif another guy happily together bonking?
which makes u all time loser. which also might indirectly gives the guy's a chance tat telling u, u r weak or else ur gf wun be wif me now?

be cool, relax, be happy. she has left you becuz a better one is coming for u.

[Xdecepticon]

Some woman really born with a man's heart! They can tell you she love you but when the time come for her to call it quit, she will just do that. Love really hurts!

Any guys here can recommend any Chinese monk, Hindu priest or Malay bomoh to chant holy water just to stop one from thinking the past?

[no_faith]

not easy to forgive and forget.
maybe can erase the memories?
juz like a com, delete the folders u dun wan?

[Xdecepticon]

Sure. But how to erase those fond but hurtful memories?

[no_faith]

ttz y im saying, is there techonology that u can erase the memories u dun wan juz like deleting folders in a com.

[milf.hunter]

Originally Posted by BatistaSG

Getting a new replacement will always help to get over it

i dun really agree in finding a replacement though. no offence, but i found myself 1 when i was undergoing a breakup too. but until now, 7 yrs later, i still couldn't tell myself that i love her

[Xdecepticon]

If theres really such technology that could erase off memories, I may not want to. I only wish to erase off memories of my relationship with my ex. Thats all. Heard "holy water" could do just that.