Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by IwantbustyKim
Adopt Islam as a religion (If you are both not already Muslim) and then you can "request" for sex anytime. Even violently if the need arises cos there is no Rape in Islam.
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by mongkokdog
so easy ma! KFC is everywhere!
Ya that is my last resort. Eating out may solve my problem and will not seem like a "beggar" to her. Thought before if without this issue life will be much happier. So tough to see her attitude.
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by Killala
TS no.1 reason why relationship fails is becus couples do not communicate well enough. Make sure u keep up with her daily life, find out what she wants, ,maybe u just need to buy gifts to make her happy? then will have sex lo.
Otherwise, if she refuse to have with you almost all the time, might be she hiding something from you.
Lastly, don't base your married lives all on sex, it'll ruin your relationship 90% of the time. Just because u don't get sex does not mean u have to cheat, i'm sure there's more than that in marriage.
Final note: she might be cheating,don't quote me and anyhow jump to conclusion
It alway one way from me buying gift for her and she dun seem to appreciate. Ah she not willing to share her daily life as sometime I asked her but she just dun bother. Hmmm she hiding something😁
You are right that marriage is not all about sex but human beings have needs also. Keep on DIY also not a solution. Eat out will solve the problem as I dun need to approach her then will not get into an ugly situation with her. Outside you get more sex position that u want even she gave in at times when she need she will reject most or 90% of the position just to get it done and over asap.
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by FunnyHippo
Tiagong this is one of the many reason men jiak outside.
Lately there was a research which provided stats that women in Singapore are not having enough sex.
Some have gone to the extend of self pleasure.
Maybe u are not good at bed?
Not true cos she not interested in any fancy style or foreplay. Just want to get it over asap.
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor
Once you've had a kid or two, wives become mothers. They aren't designed for sex anymore. Most become flabby, ugly and loose anyway so I'm surprised you're even interested in her sexually unless she's a rare exception.
That is why the government legalised the sex industry which provides a much needed social service for which there is alway high demand.
That it quite true but I am for one that is happy with only my wife if she is willing to give in but sad to say even I wanted to stay faithful also damm tough.
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by MoJoe313
After having a child, a woman's libido drops. Likely because of the child. Try to imagine yourself in your most intense moment at work. Sex is the last thing on your mind. A mother is 24/7 at work over her child and her family. Worse if she has a job outside too.
Try to alleviate her worries. Get involved in your kid, invest in a maid to do the housework. It is really not going to work if you just lie there expecting sex by persuading verbally. Many bros here have been there before.
I have many kids and still date my wife at least once every week. Sex life is good. It is an important function to have in a happy marriage.
The last thing you should do is eat outside. You should know how our Woman's Charter work. You lose your kid even if she cheats. If she catches you, hallelujah to you.
She is damm free Lor. We have helper and just a kid only. Only I know that she had the time but just refuse out of no reason. Date her?? She will just tell you not free lah have work lah bah bah bah. Yes before I intend to eat outside I really really try my best to have more time with her but to no avail due to her attitude.
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by dreamlover2010
It can mean she's simply not interested being having sex anymore.
Or it could also mean there could be another guy outside.
On your part you need to groom yourself up. Trim away the tummy inches. Go for that regular haircut and improve your wardrobe. Get a fashionable upgrade. Be romantic. Be desirable.
Bring the family out more often. And whenever possible spend time with your wife alone see movies, eat at her favourite stalls, hold her hands, make her feel good to be with you again.
Give her kisses several times a day. Long ones and short ones too. On her lips. On her neck. Hug her now and then. Squeeze her breasts. Caress her.
And when the chance comes, make sure you screw her well until her juices come out. Many times the fingers work better than the cock. And certainly can tahan longer. A combination works really well. Screw her like she was never screwed before. Then she will really miss you.
Bro. My look is ok. I had spent a lot of time with my family. Ask her out alone normally she will not wNt as she prefer to be at home. To do all the little move that u mentioned I done before but she just think that I m siao cos we are married. Aiya funny woman lah. She dun like to be finger reason she say is dirt. WTF!!
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by retsmas
Bro,
U r fortunate liao. My situation worst.
my wifey dont even initiate. 95 percent of the time I secretly watch porn at night and jerk off. Only 5 percent I initiate sex and do with a piece of dead meat.
Hahaha we are in the same boat. No less than you except I dun DIY.
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by A1406
She is damm free Lor. We have helper and just a kid only. Only I know that she had the time but just refuse out of no reason. Date her?? She will just tell you not free lah have work lah bah bah bah. Yes before I intend to eat outside I really really try my best to have more time with her but to no avail due to her attitude.
A marriage is to be worked upon. If it was easy, it's not call work. You have to figure out how to get the groove back. Every time you sleep with someone else you lose something. Make it a habit and you will feel distant from your wife. As with many things in life, you make your own choices. How you account to your kids is your story to tell, as your father did before you. Good luck TS
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by MoJoe313
A marriage is to be worked upon. If it was easy, it's not call work. You have to figure out how to get the groove back. Every time you sleep with someone else you lose something. Make it a habit and you will feel distant from your wife. As with many things in life, you make your own choices. How you account to your kids is your story to tell, as your father did before you. Good luck TS
It takes 2 hands to clap. No matter how hard I try but no support from her still no point. Yes I slept with someone else but I still care for my family minus the sex portion. On the other hand. She should jolly well know that her attitude towards me will one fine day back fire. How long can I keep "begging" her? The more I ask her for it the more she know I want and she purposely just dun give in. How about you what will you do if you are in my shoe now?
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by A1406
It takes 2 hands to clap. No matter how hard I try but no support from her still no point. Yes I slept with someone else but I still care for my family minus the sex portion. On the other hand. She should jolly well know that her attitude towards me will one fine day back fire. How long can I keep "begging" her? The more I ask her for it the more she know I want and she purposely just dun give in. How about you what will you do if you are in my shoe now?
Every man says that. That he cares for his family. When I last saw my father in his coffin, he was into his 3rd wife. Needless to say, I suffered the brunts of his lust. Amongst my friends, 50% are either not married or divorced. In my office, all are divorced. I look into the eyes of their young kids. It is not a pretty sight. It all starts with a little fling, a little side romance ....at your point in life. Then the discoveries, the fights, the golf clubs swinging (not at the golf ball). I am motivated to tell my kids a different story.
Wisdom, if so easy, is not wisdom. If so why do so many bros fall.
For me, after solving the "tired" part, I talked plainly to her. I told her men are built differently. We are built to need sex else mankind would have ended long ago. Why so? Ask the creator, not me. It is something she will not feel. Women are built differently - to require love and the warmth of a family. Something we men can do without if needed. If my needs are not satisfied, I have no choice but to eat out, and I don't want that. There has to be a compromise of sorts. Meeting each other halfway. Not just her satisfying her needs only - of a beautiful family her version. She accepted it. Over time.
Some times it takes a little push. I'd sing chinese songs while bathing. She'd think I went karaoke with women. Every women operates with jealousy if you know them enough. Use it to your advantage. And yes, you gotta be a little thick skin. It's just the way things are. Its a pride swallowing process. For your kid.
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by MoJoe313
Every man says that. That he cares for his family. When I last saw my father in his coffin, he was into his 3rd wife. Needless to say, I suffered the brunts of his lust. Amongst my friends, 50% are either not married or divorced. In my office, all are divorced. I look into the eyes of their young kids. It is not a pretty sight. It all starts with a little fling, a little side romance ....at your point in life. Then the discoveries, the fights, the golf clubs swinging (not at the golf ball). I am motivated to tell my kids a different story.
Wisdom, if so easy, is not wisdom. If so why do so many bros fall.
For me, after solving the "tired" part, I talked plainly to her. I told her men are built differently. We are built to need sex else mankind would have ended long ago. Why so? Ask the creator, not me. It is something she will not feel. Women are built differently - to require love and the warmth of a family. Something we men can do without if needed. If my needs are not satisfied, I have no choice but to eat out, and I don't want that. There has to be a compromise of sorts. Meeting each other halfway. Not just her satisfying her needs only - of a beautiful family her version. She accepted it. Over time.
Some times it takes a little push. I'd sing chinese songs while bathing. She'd think I went karaoke with women. Every women operates with jealousy if you know them enough. Use it to your advantage. And yes, you gotta be a little thick skin. It's just the way things are. Its a pride swallowing process. For your kid.
Well said Bro. Yes that why I still in the marriage LL for my son. But I had told her before that then she say ok but still NATO from her. Aiya if can I will not turn to this forum for SOS😭
Re: What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?
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Originally Posted by dreamlover2010
It can mean she's simply not interested being having sex anymore.
Or it could also mean there could be another guy outside.
On your part you need to groom yourself up. Trim away the tummy inches. Go for that regular haircut and improve your wardrobe. Get a fashionable upgrade. Be romantic. Be desirable.
Bring the family out more often. And whenever possible spend time with your wife alone see movies, eat at her favourite stalls, hold her hands, make her feel good to be with you again.
Give her kisses several times a day. Long ones and short ones too. On her lips. On her neck. Hug her now and then. Squeeze her breasts. Caress her.
And when the chance comes, make sure you screw her well until her juices come out. Many times the fingers work better than the cock. And certainly can tahan longer. A combination works really well. Screw her like she was never screwed before. Then she will really miss you.
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