Tirak Problems - Woes or Joys

[KJparty]

Originally Posted by Elvis_Boy

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I regret what I used to do.......and because of what I did.......it was my own mind that was killing me. How have i changed? I have learned to hate Cheongsters.....i have learned to hate men who disrespect woman and abuse them physically and emotionally........i have learnt to be more tolerant......but most of all....i have learned to be humble. I have learnt that when "lady luck" smiles on you...be grateful and appreciate things around you. Don't be a cocky bastard or a show-off.......it only shows you how insecure you really are.....Love the one you're with and tell them how much you love them.......everyday.

I wish you all luck in your future endeavours

I believe I am an opposite of what you have achieved. Best wishes to you and your family. Sometimes, tirakship does make someone better although in a different way.

[sexoholic]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Must ask Suteerak1099 1 question

When his girlfriend get money from Sponsors, he hear already is it a joy or woe???

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Pride and ego takes a huge blow when the person whom one loves has to take money or gifts from someone else. Guess in the case of guys, its doubly so.

[netraker]

Wouldn't it be a joy if one is able to read your tirak/gf mind ? or could it be a woe because the truth is far from what you see, hear and believe.

[newbadass]

Throughout my chiongng life, people have often told me not to be so cynical. Have more empathy for WLs:
"WLs are also human, they have needs and emotions like us."
"We should try to put ourselves in their shoes."

I have done both. I agree that WLs are also human, and I try to imagine what a typical human would do if in their shoes.

Let's say you need money so desperately that you have to open leg sell. And then some romantic fool comes along and presents his carrot head for you to chop. Half a dozen more do the same thing. These bastards are willing to exploit your need for money in order to bonk you, and their swollen egos tell them you are being nice because you got special feeling for them. What would you, as a typical human, do? Chop them jialat jialat or just carry on opening leg to sell?

My conclusion?

WLs are human, I agree. And after putting myself in their shoes, I trust them even less.

[Rof|maoxz]

FLs WLs only good to you for a max 45mins.

[netraker]

On the flip side, there are a few WL who come from well to do families, meaning that all is provided for and they do not need to sell their bodies but they still do it.. so even if i put myself in their shoes, I still can never totally understand their need to do it. Perhaps some of these FL WL do it for the fun ? fun from the money, gifts and attention they can "squeeze" out from their victims(usuaul suspects) .. FL WL sure know how to separate emotion and work in this line of profession, otherwise, they will be all be heartbroken every other day ...

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by netraker

On the flip side, there are a few WL who come from well to do families, meaning that all is provided for and they do not need to sell their bodies but they still do it.. so even if i put myself in their shoes, I still can never totally understand their need to do it. Perhaps some of these FL WL do it for the fun ? fun from the money, gifts and attention they can "squeeze" out from their victims(usuaul suspects) ....

ya, I also know one agogo lady who came from well to do family... no financial commitments, graduated from good respectable International School, and just work in agogo bar because friends invited...... I also don't understand......

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

ya, I also know one agogo lady who came from well to do family... no financial commitments, graduated from good respectable International School, and just work in agogo bar because friends invited...... I also don't understand......

u know her meh in person?or onli hearsay? ...by the way just read from stickmanbangkok weekly that rainbow 4 having a trend of university undergrads plying their trade there too...dun play play...hahaa...

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

u know her meh in person?or onli hearsay? ...by the way just read from stickmanbangkok weekly that rainbow 4 having a trend of university undergrads plying their trade there too...dun play play...hahaa...

WOW! U're back! *LOL* hearsay from a agogo expert leh! So what say you? Will someone with good financial background, no financial commitments, good education background (International School), go work in a AGOGO bar jus cos her friends invited her to? She eat full too free or what? *LOL*
Ya lor, don't play play... alot of weird people around....
So what've u been up to? Started ur "something" already or not? *LOL*

[netraker]

JC is more than an expert ...an agogo ladies man.. sounds like re-resurrection of a past topic/thread.. hmmm.. where did I read that from..getting old already..

[redlord]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

u know her meh in person?or onli hearsay? ...by the way just read from stickmanbangkok weekly that rainbow 4 having a trend of university undergrads plying their trade there too...dun play play...hahaa...

take here ,my URL below for new or old bie brother ,wish you enjoy reading stickmanbangkok

[redlord]

Originally Posted by newbadass

Throughout my chiongng life, people have often told me not to be so cynical. Have more empathy for WLs:
"WLs are also human, they have needs and emotions like us."
"We should try to put ourselves in their shoes.":

Agree brother ,they also had emotions ,but maybe her emotion also not to strong like us,wear their shoes will knows them better .....

Originally Posted by newbadass

I have done both. I agree that WLs are also human, and I try to imagine what a typical human would do if in their shoes. :

They are many type of WL too ,that's also depend on her grow up ...family ,background ,some WL"s family is lazy sitting at home waiting for money to comeby from her and that was the more sadly thing happen to this world ,fukk ...unbelivedable until you see her family is like that

Originally Posted by newbadass

Let's say you need money so desperately that you have to open leg sell. And then some romantic fool comes along and presents his carrot head for you to chop. Half a dozen more do the same thing. These bastards are willing to exploit your need for money in order to bonk you, and their swollen egos tell them you are being nice because you got special feeling for them. What would you, as a typical human, do? Chop them jialat jialat or just carry on opening leg to sell?
My conclusion?
WLs are human, I agree. And after putting myself in their shoes, I trust them even less.

Because of them open leg , face too many kind of men and many kind of untrusted ppl ,become money come 1st instead of looking for truelove ..Some cheongster cheat WL, some get cheated by WL.....so, what i can said here is ,if want to be their real tirak is not a easy way out too ,i also agree it's possible ,once they love you , they want your everything ,heart, mind ,money...but once they hate you ,they become a worse person and go back to their WL life,so more carrot head will be con too ! it's like going a round ......so brother here do your own choice

[lestat_666]

Singrakthai, regarding why sometimes WL born into rich families choose their job, I think I might have a theory.

Poverty is a big reason why many of the thai WLs are from Isaan, where farming can only bring so much to the table. However, there are exceptions where WLs do thier job for fun or for personal reasons.

I know its hard to believe but there is at the end of the day, a bastardised form of glamour attached to being a WL.

All day, men long after them, makes them feel wanted, it makes them feel beautiful. Thai WLs are shameless when it comes to compliments. What other job can give a woman that much constant attention and devotion from men?

Plus, the job has an attractive offer :"Make money in your sleep" -One of the characters in Les Miserables.

Many of these WLs also have a Father complex where either they were sexually abused when they were little or did not have a father figure in their life.

This makes them feel ok about selling their body and these are the WLs that hate men and do this job out of that spite and delight in the joy of ripping the hearts of farang or men in general.

Some are even infected with STDs or AIDS and try to spread it indiscriminately to as many customers as possible as a form of spite. This is why you must be careful about those WLs that offer raw.

Just some thoughts.

[netraker]

Originally Posted by lestat_666

I know its hard to believe but there is at the end of the day, a bastardised form of glamour attached to being a WL.

lestat, you have a very interesting view on the topic and I find it very pausible. Anyway, when i talk about well-to-do background, I mean middle to affluent, not the really rich.. and also the assumption is that the WL has not completed her education. I don't expect a gal from a rich hi-so family with good education doing this trade but one never know.

Another theory (if you want to call it theory) is the lust for material things for these WLs. Call it independence, sometimes, if a WL or anyone reaches a certain age, how to keep asking parents for money to buy expensive goods cars etc? afterall, alot of ppl like to splurge on material things to feel good about themselves... another point is that FL WL is almost like a business.. and without an agent, they still can reject whoever they don't like, work whenever they like... so it's not the same case as a WL working to feed the family...

maybe getting off topic .. so throw in another theory, the FL WL maybe out to find her tirak/bf/sponsor/lover... hehe

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by lestat_666

1)All day, men long after them, makes them feel wanted, it makes them feel beautiful. Thai WLs are shameless when it comes to compliments. What other job can give a woman that much constant attention and devotion from men?

2)Plus, the job has an attractive offer :"Make money in your sleep" -One of the characters in Les Miserables.

3)Many of these WLs also have a Father complex where either they were sexually abused when they were little or did not have a father figure in their life.

This makes them feel ok about selling their body and these are the WLs that hate men and do this job out of that spite and delight in the joy of ripping the hearts of farang or men in general.

4)Some are even infected with STDs or AIDS and try to spread it indiscriminately to as many customers as possible as a form of spite. This is why you must be careful about those WLs that offer raw.

So JUN's tirak falls into which cat?shameless,father complex or infected with stds?