So Hard and Stressful To Get Pregnant

[Rain-Men]

I feel you bro...been through that stage before and it is indeed stressful. Like all brothers said, the key thing is to do it relaxed and chances will be higher. Perhaps after trying some time you can go for professional help...maybe IUI or IVF even.

[wally888]

So ironic as this forum is talking about joy of making love....now sex has turn to torment for TS. Hope we continue to live on motto of sex is for pleasure. Else after your wife give birth then no more sex liao which is a misery....

[mcyeoh]

Originally Posted by lasupkia

Try to wack on the 13th and 14th day after "Aunty" come. That's how I kanna my baby. I'm also 40s nearing the big 50. But wifey is younger in 30s.

that because you are a honry peverted uncle that cant find women with your similar age........funny.

[Nsdselvlian]

Originally Posted by zhanyou

Bro. One more medical fact to understand. Under normal cirumstances, even with the correct timing, the chance of pregancy is 20%. Cannot be so accurate one shot one kill.

More accurate for your wife to plot her body temp rather to rely purely on the 13 or 14 th day.

The first day of a woman's menstrual cycle is know as CD1 (cycle day 1) or LMP (last menstrual period) counts on till to the next menstrual cycle, the standard cycle day should be around 28-30 days.

The ovulation period where the eggs are most fertile are around CD 10-14 (10 -14 days after CD 1) and during this period, their temperature will rise, frequent discharge, sticky muscus discharge and some women are known to be horny during the ovulation period.

Originally Posted by Lauhuu

Precisely. Onli 1 mth and she is asking me to go seek med help. Shit also need to take off pants.

I am stress more from her wanting to be preg than anything else.

At first say ok, let nature take its coyrse. Now, full speed. Really cb. Give an inch, woman wants a meter!

TCC (trying to conceive) is like taking a roller coaster ride for woman and she will naturally feel more stressful especially when her biological clock is tickling on her.

However, do encourage her to read up more on TCC, start on the daily dosage of folic acid, educate her on the standard time frame and it is not like doing everyday equals to higher chance of pregnancy. Do note that for some women, even if they ovulate, the eggs are infertile.

U might like to talk to her about having a more nutritious diet, avoid taking the "liang" stuff, go for a evening stroll/weekend sport activities to strengthen the bond etc.

Most importantly, communicate and make your feelings known to her. How stress u feel and how it affect your performance. Choose the right period to voice out. Do consider a short getaway.

[Nsdselvlian]

Originally Posted by mcyeoh

that because you are a honry peverted uncle that cant find women with your similar age........funny.

It is no brainer to know that women of his age are undergoing menopause and of granny level. If he want kids, he naturally will go for younger women.

[want0nmee]

Bro, I feel u. Going through this stage now too. Normally just try to do it on the 13-14th day. N do it for the next 7 days. The last week before her mens come don't do it. Cos there is when the baby is forming n can ask your wife to take bai feng wan on the 26/27 day

[Nsdselvlian]

Originally Posted by want0nmee

Bro, I feel u. Going through this stage now too. Normally just try to do it on the 13-14th day. N do it for the next 7 days. The last week before her mens come don't do it. Cos there is when the baby is forming n can ask your wife to take bai feng wan on the 26/27 day

Note bai feng wan is to be taken only after menses clear (replenish blood loss n clear away dirty blood clots)

[sgsam]

bro try to watch some porn movie to increase your horniness..

[FlashTT]

Me also trying both my wife and me almost 40. I think have to leave my soldiers in the cave for 20mins before washing them lor. just do everyday or alternate day after PMS clear lor.

[FlashTT]

One question, will BBBJ before FJ reduce the chance?

[clack]

bro where you got the report? interesting and can share the link, thanks

Originally Posted by coolguy71

hi .. i seen a report.. the study shows couples show high chances of conceive baby when they make love in the mood of excitement..

For example.. couple who make love in car .. public area.. the fear and excitement of possible getting caught add more hormones to the sex.. thus our 'soldier' are more active..

Another example : Unmarried couple have pre-marriage sex.. are more easy to get pregnant.. as it is forbidden and so wrong.... the thought of excitement.. can have wonder to increase chances of conceive..

Or maybe you and your wife go for a romantic holiday.. the mood is so good.. you are so turn on.. the moment you might just have send your elite soldier into your wife.. and bingo.. 9 month.. 1 cute baby..

Good luck bro...no harm try...

[cuntcum]

Originally Posted by FlashTT

One question, will BBBJ before FJ reduce the chance?

no la, maybe your didi too short cannot go deep enough. try put something under her when do deeds

[consultant]

bro, Important thing is to relax by getting away from normal routine. Even staycation at local hotel with nice room, music and scents to getting right mood will help. Sometimes if too anxious, didi will become flaccid at last minute. Watch comedies with soft porn not xxx otherwise anxiety to keep up with the souped up sex machines will make things worse. In Korea, to encourage couples to,have kids they have free nightly soft porn viewing from10+ pm onwards in hotels.Apparently sponsored by their caring government!In case your wife wants to go Korea, this tip is for you all! Don't worry about overweight or underweight, thisncan change over time with dieting. In the dark, a hole is a hole like my instructor used to say! Carry on firing!