Advise please

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Pastor adidas, in PRC now right? chok dee na.....

kop khun kup ... but me still in SG ...
now at airport typing this msg ...
will reached ZH in abt 5 hrs time ....

[CeiResident]

Confessions Of The Night.....


I had been waiting for a call that never came. A meeting that never came. A text message reply that never came. The lowest I went was to sink into depression, but not for long.

When there's a beginning, there will be an end.


Nothing last forever. Except diamonds.

Or so they say..


Why do we celebrate life when we know there will be a day it'll end.


Journey of life.

Or so they say...


There are some things that ends which you can't control. Life and relationships.


There are some things you hope that will last forever. Money, youth, fun and of course the thing called love.

Sometimes, we chose to let certain things continue when we can stop it.

Sometimes we put an end to certain things too fast without trying.......

"Sometimes, people fall out of love with their partner but they are still in love comfortably in the relationship. In love with the notion of being 'in love'.

When they searched through the inner drawers of emotions, they realised they have fallen out of love a long time ago."


It strucked like lightning. Why didn't you write this earlier on?


Call it enlightenment or realisation. I had been in love with having a relationship but not in love with the other party all these while! Those who wanted a relationship, those who claimed they want a relationship and those who stated they don't want a relationship.


Where is the love? I asked. It's somewhere out there. A voice at the back of my head told me. I touched my heart. Feel it. It said. I could only feel my heart thumping. You're not being very helpful, heart..


When the timing is right, the feeling isn't. When the feeling is right, the person isn't. Was it because I have fallen out of love a long time ago? Nothing seemed right.




Guys need to strive hard in career hoping in future, his family can live a better life.gals have the option to the need of striving hard or need not to strive as they can look for a more stability guy. in this way, they dun seems to look for love. they are looking for stability. love is secondary.

as long we can live our life to the fullest, have goals, dreams, ambitions, be happy, shelter to live, dun tink it is a must to find love.






The line is bold is very true. But for the women, in all fairness, men must understand women and her role in society.

In the past, women were kept at home to take care of the home and kids. Our ancestors were wise, they had a reason for it. In time it became a tradition, and the reason was lost.

Women are biologically different from men, for they suffer from menses, a medical and mental condition affecting her regularly every month. We all have seen how our sisters or friends behave - 3 weeks of being sweet and then 1 week of being a monster, when PMS takes control of her mind.

In our present society, in order to live just comfortable, the women have, unfortunately, been required to work to supplement the family income. When women complain of stress, it is not imagined, but a reality, especially during her PMS.

Some girls had it easy, but most girls have it difficult. The PMS would love to rage against the bosses, but their rational mind don't allow it for they would lose the job. Thus they suffer in silence or wreck it on their brothers, boyfriends or husbands during that particular week of the month. It is something we men MUST bear, for we dont give birth unlike women. If they had an opportunity not to work, most would gladly choose not to, like their ancestors who were just housewives, for the stress of the competitive working environment in singapore is great and demanding.

So, to claim women want only money and dont want to work, it would be not be entirely true. All they want is security, or at least the assurances of it if a guy just started work and had not establish himself yet. That's why younger women prefer older men. ( the established ones)

Once she is assured of security, in that freedom will love grow. In conflicts and stresses, who cares or have time for love?



My 5 baht.....



The Resident ( TTSH WARD 83)

2118hrs

[CeiResident]

คืนข้ามปี Endorphine



มองเวลาก็เกือบเที่ยงคืน
mong way-laa gor geuap tiang keun
Looking at the time, it's almost midnight.

สิ้นคืนนี้ ก็เป็นเวลาของปีใหม่
sin keun nee gor bpen way-laa kong bpee mai
By the end of tonight it would be a new year.

มองทางใดมีแต่แสงไฟ
mong taang dai mee dtae saeng fai
Whichever way I look, there would be but lights.

สวยเพียงไหน หัวใจก็จำได้เลือนลาง
suay piang nai hua jai gor jam daai leuan-laang
However beautiful they are, my heart would only be able to remember them vaguely.

มีเพลงเปิดดัง มีผู้คนรอบกาย หัวใจก็ยังเงียบงัน
mee pleng bpert dang mee poo-kon rop gaai hua jai gor yang ngiap ngan
With songs blaring loudly, with crowd surrounding me, yet my heart is still silent.

อยากมีคนพิเศษ อยู่ในคืนพิเศษ
yaak mee kon pi-set yoo nai keun pi-set
I wish to have someone special during this special night.

คืนสำคัญอีกคืน ที่ต้องอยู่อย่างเหงาใจ
keun sam-kan eek keun tee dtong yoo yaang ngao jai
An important night, but yet another night that I had to be alone.

อยากมีคนพิเศษ จับมือกันข้ามผ่าน
yaak mee kon pi-set jap meu gan kaam paan
I wish to have someone special to hold my hand to pass this night.

คืนสำคัญอีกคืน ที่ความเหงาคืบคลาน...หัวใจ
keun sam-kan eek keun tee kwaam ngao keup klaan ... hua jai
An important night, but yet another night when loneliness slowly creeps into my heart.



รอเวลาจะผ่าน ข้ามปี
ror way-laa ja paan kaam bpee
I waited for this moment to cross over to the new year.

ข้ามคืนนี้ เหมือนเดิมด้วยใจที่ว่างเปล่า
kaam keun nee meuan derm duay jai tee waang bplao
Yet I pass this night as before with an empty heart.

มองทางใดเจอแต่เรื่องราว
mong taang dai jer dtae reuang raao
Whichever way I look, I would but find stories

ของความรัก ของคนที่มาคู่เคียงกัน
kong kwaam rak kong kon tee maa koo kiang gan
of love, of people who come together to be close with each other.

มีเพลงเปิดดัง มีผู้คนรอบกาย หัวใจก็ยังเงียบงัน
mee pleng bpert dang mee poo-kon rop gaai hua jai gor yang ngiap ngan
With songs blaring loudly, with crowd surrounding me, yet my heart is still silent.

อยากมีคนพิเศษ อยู่ในคืนพิเศษ
yaak mee kon pi-set yoo nai keun pi-set
I wish to have someone special during this special night.

คืนสำคัญอีกคืน ที่ต้องอยู่อย่างเหงาใจ
keun sam-kan eek keun tee dtong yoo yaang ngao jai
An important night, but yet another night that I had to be alone.

อยากมีคนพิเศษ จับมือกันข้ามผ่าน
yaak mee kon pi-set jap meu gan kaam paan
I wish to have someone special to hold my hand to pass this night.

คืนสำคัญอีกคืน ที่ความเหงาคืบคลาน...หัวใจ
keun sam-kan eek keun tee kwaam ngao keup klaan ... hua jai
An important night, but yet another night when loneliness slowly creeps into my heart.

(Interlude)

มีเพลงเปิดดัง มีผู้คนรอบกาย หัวใจก็ยังเงียบงัน
mee pleng bpert dang mee poo-kon rop gaai hua jai gor yang ngiap ngan
With songs blaring loudly, with crowd surrounding me, yet my heart is still silent.

อยากมีคนพิเศษ อยู่ในคืนพิเศษ
yaak mee kon pi-set yoo nai keun pi-set
I wish to have someone special during this special night.

คืนสำคัญอีกคืน ที่ต้องอยู่อย่างเหงาใจ
keun sam-kan eek keun tee dtong yoo yaang ngao jai
An important night, but yet another night that I had to be alone.

อยากมีคนพิเศษ จับมือกันข้ามผ่าน
yaak mee kon pi-set jap meu gan kaam paan
I wish to have someone special to hold my hand to pass this night.

คืนสำคัญอีกคืน ที่ความเหงาคืบคลาน...หัวใจ
keun sam-kan eek keun tee kwaam ngao keup klaan ... hua jai
An important night, but yet another night when loneliness slowly creeps into my heart.

Another lonely new year eve without u.... Spending it in singapore is just so different without u......

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Confessions Of The Night.....

Another lonely new year eve without u.... Spending it in singapore is just so different without u......

bro ... i realise u r a very sad man ...
and u r suffering becoz u do not want to let it go ...

We can condition ourselves to overcome and adapt to adverse condition.
the choice is up to us to make.

Don't dwell on the past.
Always look forward and
Forget about what cannot be changed.

Sometimes we must be hurt in order to grow.
Sometimes we must fall in order to know.
Soemtimes we must lose in order to gain.
Because some lessons in life are best learned through pain.

[CeiResident]

[QUOTE=adidas88;3309724]bro ... i realise u r a very sad man ...
and u r suffering becoz u do not want to let it go ...

Paradoxically, we fail to disclose ourselves to other people because we want so much to be loved. Because we feel that way we present ourselves as someone we think can be loved and accepted, and we conceal whatever would mar that image.”

Another reason we hide is to protect ourselves from change. Still another reason we don't disclose ourselves is that we were never taught how. .Personal ambitions and economic pressures also give us powerful reasons for concealing what we really are. All of us hide behind the iron curtain of our public selves. Men hide what prevents them from seeming strong and masculine.
“Disclosure is so important (because) without it we really cannot know ourselves. Or to put it another way, we learn to deceive ourselves while we are trying to deceive others. For example, if I never express my sorrow, my love, my joy, I'll smother those feelings in myself until I almost forget they were once part of me.

Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst, a spark that creates extraordinary results.


gwàa jà bòk rák - กว่าจะบอกรัก








Men are like....
Teller Machines - Once they withdraw they lose interest
Chocolate Cars - sweet, smooth and they usually head right for your hips
Parking spots - all the good ones are taken & the rest are handicapped
Commercials - you can't believe a word they say
Government boards - they take so long to mature
Lava lamps - fun to look at, but not very bright


Peace.
Love.
Empathy

The Resident(2254hrs)

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Paradoxically, we fail to disclose ourselves to other people because we want so much to be loved. Because we feel that way we present ourselves as someone we think can be loved and accepted, and we conceal whatever would mar that image.” .....

Another reason we hide is to protect ourselves from change. Still another reason we don't disclose ourselves is that we were never taught how. .Personal ambitions and economic pressures also give us powerful reasons for concealing what we really are. All of us hide behind the iron curtain of our public selves. Men hide what prevents them from seeming strong and masculine.
“Disclosure is so important (because) without it we really cannot know ourselves. Or to put it another way, we learn to deceive ourselves while we are trying to deceive others. For example, if I never express my sorrow, my love, my joy, I'll smother those feelings in myself until I almost forget they were once part of me.

Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst, a spark that creates extraordinary results.

bro .. i can see u read a lot in order to write these ..
but r u applying that in ur life ??
personally i dun think so ....

remember ..
You are responsible for your own decisions, your own actions and your own life.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past.
You can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

[CeiResident]

I had been waiting for a call that never came. A meeting that never came. A text message reply that never came. The lowest I went was to sink into depression, but not for long.

When there's a beginning, there will be an end.


Nothing last forever. Except diamonds.

Or so they say..


Why do we celebrate life when we know there will be a day it'll end.


Journey of life.

Or so they say...


There are some things that ends which you can't control. Life and relationships.


There are some things you hope that will last forever. Money, youth, fun and of course the thing called love.

Sometimes, we chose to let certain things continue when we can stop it.

Sometimes we put an end to certain things too fast without trying.......

"Sometimes, people fall out of love with their partner but they are still in love comfortably in the relationship. In love with the notion of being 'in love'.

When they searched through the inner drawers of emotions, they realised they have fallen out of love a long time ago."


It strucked like lightning. Why didn't i write this earlier on?


Call it enlightenment or realisation. I had been in love with having a relationship but not in love with the other party all these while! Those who wanted a relationship, those who claimed they want a relationship and those who stated they don't want a relationship.


Where is the love? I asked. It's somewhere out there. A voice at the back of my head told me. I touched my heart. Feel it. It said. I could only feel my heart thumping. You're not being very helpful, heart..


When the timing is right, the feeling isn't. When the feeling is right, the person isn't. Was it because I have fallen out of love a long time ago? Nothing seemed right.





Guys need to strive hard in career hoping in future, his family can live a better life.gals have the option to the need of striving hard or need not to strive as they can look for a more stability guy. in this way, they dun seems to look for love. they are looking for stability. love is secondary.

as long we can live our life to the fullest, have goals, dreams, ambitions, be happy, shelter to live, dun tink it is a must to find love.






The line is bold is very true. But for the women, in all fairness, men must understand women and her role in society.

In the past, women were kept at home to take care of the home and kids. Our ancestors were wise, they had a reason for it. In time it became a tradition, and the reason was lost.

Women are biologically different from men, for they suffer from menses, a medical and mental condition affecting her regularly every month. We all have seen how our sisters or friends behave - 3 weeks of being sweet and then 1 week of being a monster, when PMS takes control of her mind.

In our present society, in order to live just comfortable, the women have, unfortunately, been required to work to supplement the family income. When women complain of stress, it is not imagined, but a reality, especially during her PMS.

Some girls had it easy, but most girls have it difficult. The PMS would love to rage against the bosses, but their rational mind don't allow it for they would lose the job. Thus they suffer in silence or wreck it on their brothers, boyfriends or husbands during that particular week of the month. It is something we men MUST bear, for we dont give birth unlike women. If they had an opportunity not to work, most would gladly choose not to, like their ancestors who were just housewives, for the stress of the competitive working environment in singapore is great and demanding.

So, to claim women want only money and dont want to work, it would be not be entirely true. All they want is security, or at least the assurances of it if a guy just started work and had not establish himself yet. That's why younger women prefer older men. ( the established ones)

Once she is assured of security, in that freedom will love grow. In conflicts and stresses, who cares or have time for love?



My 5 baht.....

The Resident

[CeiResident]

Life or human existence has no real meaning or purpose because human existence occurred out of a random chance in nature, and anything that exists by chance has no intended purpose."

[CeiResident]

ขอบฟ้า
"kop faa" (Horizon)


ได้แต่เหลียวมองไปสุดฟ้าไกล
daai dtae lieow mong bpai soot faa glai
I can only turn and look far into the distance.

มันช่างน่า..เสียดาย ที่เราไป..ไม่ถึงขอบฟ้า...
man chaang naa . . sia daai tee rao bpai . . mai teung kop faa . . .
It should have been shouldn't it.. It's a shame that we couldn't…make it to the horizon.

จบเสียที
ที่เธอต้องทนทรมานเดินบนทางที่เราสองคน..หวังกั น
ไปยังฝัน..สุดฟ้า
jop sia tee
tee ter dtong ton tor-ra-maan dern bon taang tee rao song kon . . wang gan
bpai yang fan . . soot faa
The suffering that we experience on our road to the sky has finally ended.

ปิดฉากเสียที..เมื่อเจอคนที่ดี
จงโชคดีกับเส้นทางที่ยังเหลือข้างหน้า
bpit-chaak sia tee . . meua jer kon tee dee
jong choke dee gap sen taang tee yang leua kaang naa
The scene finally ended. I wish you the best of luck when you meet someone better on the remaining road.

เธอไปกับเขาคงดีกว่า
ter bpai gap kao kong dee gwaa
You'd be better go with him.

ยอมเข้าใจๆ จะไปด้วยกันก็มีแต่เหนื่อยล้า
yom kao-jai-kao-jai ja bpai duay gan gor mee dtae neuay laa
I'm willing to understand, that it would only be wearisome if we stayed together.

ฉันเข้าใจๆ ที่เธอร่ำลา
chan kao-jai-kao-jai tee ter ram laa
I understand the reason for you to say goodbye.

ขอบฟ้า...ต้องกลายเป็นเขาที่พาไป
kop faa . . . dtong glaai bpen kao tee paa bpai
Horizon… it turns out that he is the one that takes you to the Horizon.

ทุกสิ่งที่ฝันกันเอาไว้ จบแล้ว ไม่เหลือสักอย่าง
took sing tee fan gan ao wai jop laew mai leua sak yaang
Everything that we dreamed of has ceased, with nothing left behind.

ฉันทำได้เพียงแค่เท่านี้ มาส่งเธอได้แค่ครึ่งทาง
chan tam daai piang kae tao nee maa song ter daai kae kreung taang
I can only do this much. I can only take you halfway on this journey.

ก็คงต้อง ยอมรับมัน ยอมรับมัน
gor kong dtong yom rap man yom rap man
I just have to accept it.

จะเจ็บเท่าไหร่ฉันก็จะทน เมื่อเธอจะไปฉันห้ามไม่ได้
ja jep tao-rai chan gor ja ton meua ter ja bpai chan haam mai daai
No matter how much it hurts, I'm going to withstand the pain. I can't stop you since you've decided to leave.

ต้องปล่อยเธอไปทั้งน้ำตาแม้แทบขาดใจ
dtong bploi ter bpai tang naam dtaa mae taep kaat jai
I've got to let you go, even though the pain is killing me.

จะเจ็บเท่าไหร่ฉันก็จะยอม ให้เธอในวันที่ดีข้างหน้า
ja jep tao-rai chan gor ja yom hai ter nai wan tee dee kaang naa
No matter how much it hurts I accept it, so you can have a brighter future.

ให้เธอเดินไปพบความสุข ที่ตรงขอบฟ้า...
hai ter dern bpai pop kwaam sook tee dtrong kop faa . . .
So you can go and find happiness at the horizon.

ฉันยอม....ยอม...
chan yom . . . . yom . . .
I'm willing to let you go.

ยอมเข้าใจๆ จะไปด้วยกันก็มีแต่เหนื่อยล้า
yom kao-jai-kao-jai ja bpai duay gan gor mee dtae neuay laa
I'm willing to understand, that it would only be wearisome if we stayed together.

ฉันเข้าใจๆ ที่เธอร่ำลา
chan kao-jai-kao-jai tee ter ram laa
I understand the reason for you to say goodbye.

ขอบฟ้า...ต้องกลายเป็นเขาที่พาไป
kop faa . . . dtong glaai bpen kao tee paa bpai
Horizon… it turns out that he is the one that takes you to the Horizon.

ทุกสิ่งที่ฝันกันเอาไว้ จบแล้ว ไม่เหลือสักอย่าง
took sing tee fan gan ao wai jop laew mai leua sak yaang
Everything that we dreamed of has ceased, with nothing left behind.

ฉันทำได้เพียงแค่เท่านี้ มาส่งเธอได้แค่ครึ่งทาง
chan tam daai piang kae tao nee maa song ter daai kae kreung taang
I can only do this much. I can only take you halfway on this journey.

พรุ่งนี้ไม่มีแล้วเธอ
proong-nee mai mee laew ter
I won't have you here with me tomorrow.

ต้องกลายเป็นเขาที่พาไป
dtong glaai bpen kao tee paa bpai
It turns out that he is the one that takes you to the Horizon.

ทุกสิ่งที่ฝันกันเอาไว้ จบแล้ว ไม่เหลือสักอย่าง
took sing tee fan gan ao wai jop laew mai leua sak yaang
Everything that we dreamed of has ceased, with nothing left behind.

ฉันทำได้เพียงแค่เท่านี้ มาส่งเธอได้แค่ครึ่งทาง
chan tam daai piang kae tao nee maa song ter daai kae kreung taang
I can only do this much. I can only take you halfway on this journey.

ก็คงต้องยอมรับมัน
gor kong dtong yom rap man
I just have to accept it.

จะเจ็บเท่าไหร่ฉันก็จะทน
ja jep tao-rai chan gor ja ton
No matter how much it hurts, I'm going to withstand the pain.

ให้เธอเดินไปที่บนขอบฟ้า
hai ter dern bpai tee bon kop faa
I'm letting you go so you can walk beyond the horizon.

ให้เธอไปดี..โชคดีเถิดหนา..
hai ter bpai dee . . choke dee tert naa . .
Letting you go.. I wish you the best of luck.

จะเจ็บเท่าไหร่ฉันก็จะทน
ja jep tao-rai chan gor ja ton
No matter how much it hurts, I'm going to withstand the pain.

[CeiResident]

Confessions Of The Day


The long and short about The Broken Heart


The workload at my work place is really getting to be a bit too much. I left close 0130hrs last night, and here I am back at this shitty little place again.

Anyway, my ex Office Bimbo’s breakup brought back painful memories for me. Even though I am close to reaching my thirtys' now , I do how bad it feels when your heart gets smashed into pieces. The following is an epic poem I wrote after my secondary school crush dumped me:


The Broken Heart

Broken heart, very painful.
It hurts so much it’s like very painful.
Feelings change, what to do?
It’s better to be hurt soon than to remain a fool.

I met a girl once, beside the loo.
She was an Ah Lian, and that was very cool.
We spoke, she laughed, I was acting the fool.
We became good friends, and even went to the zoo.

But this girl, also a bit terrible.
Want this want that, want me buy this and that for her.
Shopping shopping shopping, everyday shopping.
Shop until I shop away my lunch money and fed on nothing.

This has got to stop, my wallet told me so.
So I told her I must save up, if not I can’t marry her.
I asked her to be my girlfriend, but she say she’s not sure.
But she will be very sure, if I can buy her a Perlini Silver.

So I saved and saved and saved, and got her the necklace she wanted.
But she never became my girlfriend, even though she got what she wanted.
She say I was very stupid, and called me a ‘Robert’.
And that’s the reason why, I cried for days after.

Broken heart, very painful.
It hurts so much it’s like very painful.
Feelings change, what to do?
It’s better to be hurt soon than to remain a fool

The Resident

[CeiResident]

Confessions Of The Night

Women in my life came and go like passengers to a taxi driver after she was gone. I had good passengers, and of course really bad ones. There were also some who hurt real bad. Non of them stayed for long.


Like a taxi driver, I didn't get myself too too attached to my passengers because I know they will be gone after they've reached their destination. How can you label these as relationships? I didn't and I couldn't because relationships to me, isn't like that.


Relationships shouldn't be built on love alone. We all have other things to offer other than love. Love alone isn't enough but without love, there is no foundation for a relationship at all.


Everybody wants to be in love. I want to be in love. Only some lucky ones found their true love. Most of us wait for love to happen. Some had to wait for a lifetime. Few went searching for it like me. I'll rather do something while waiting rather than sit around and do nothing.


Perhaps I wasn't capable of loving. Perhaps something somewhere went wrong. Perhaps love left long ago. It didn't deter me from trying.


Just like not taking a breath after a 100m dash. Breathless and then another dash. How can anyone take my breath away when I am breathless? I could hardly breathe. I know. I need to catch my breath before letting someone else take it away again..


I quit being in love with relationships. Love the person and not what the person have to offer. Finally, I could breathe again.
-CeiResident-
Spring, 1996

[ahyong]

Bro CeiResident,

Don worry be happy, cheer up ok!

[vmtech]

Sound like a piece from the movie script: Midnight my love.

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by vmtech

Sound like a piece from the movie script: Midnight my love.

Hi bro. It's been long since we met. care to catch up after my match in national stadium tml?

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by ahyong

Bro CeiResident,

Don worry be happy, cheer up ok!

Confession of the day.. 今日的忏悔..






There are many things in life we have to keep in balance.






Due to many factors, we allow the balancing scale to tilt.
Studies, work, family and friends.







Sometimes even to the extreme.






When was the last time you allow your scale to tilt?

Did you tilt it too much?

How much is too much?


Beats me.




If you're a straight A student and you don't have anyone to go for lunch with, you may like to set aside some time for social activities.




If you're a working personnel and lunch involves a lunchbox in the pantry or in your own office because you don't want to be seen eating alone in public, you may want to include some slack time in office or evaluate your attitude towards others.




In school, passing was my only concern. In work, I leave my office on the dot, sometimes even earlier. This may be why I'm neither a straight A student nor a high flyer in my workplace.






Until recently, I find it an uphill task to maintain a balance between family and friends . When single, it's simple. It was only choosing between family and friends. When attached, it's a little bit more tricky.



In the past, I have never viewed balancing as a challenge. Before I was attached, home is the place I headed straight after work everyday. Occasionally it's dinner with friends. Weekends are reserved for social activities. At the end of the night, it is still home.



Now, more dinners outside on weekdays. Time with friends are cut down and I am seldom home on weekends. As much as I would like to, but I am unable to spend the same amount of time with a certain group. It boils down to choices and priorities. I felt guilty for not choosing the unchosen.



It's a matter of getting used to. My family is too used to having me around which is why I am suffering from constant nagging at the moment. I have to get used to not being able to spend the same amount of time with my family and friends.




I am sure we know people who suddenly became uncontactable when they found someone to fall in love with. When they start contacting you, you know they are back to single status.


On the other hand, there are people who are attached/married but don't seemed to appear so. Most of their foul mood is contributed by arguements with their other half for not spending enough time together.



That is extreme in my point of view and I have no wish to fall into both categories.




We are not borne with a dominant hand for no reason and even our hearts are not placed right in the centre of our bodies. We are bound to tilt and favour one side more, but too much of something is never really good. That is why keeping a balance is a challenge itself