What should you do if your boyfriend can't satisfies your needs?

[B52bomber]

Originally Posted by Ladyvander

Now, the problem is this. I had never really felt like I am satisfied. Hardly ever turned on.

Come join the B52 club.. i "turn on" the "switch" for you... if you really want satisfaction.

[plf8813]

My opinion. If you are not sexually compatible, DONT get married.

My sister suffered from this syndrome marriage before she called it quits after 20 years. Kinda sad that its no body's fault, just that the hubby is really a dumb dumb who dont know what to do in bed.

Moral of the story, better end the relationship early than later.

[st.spicy]

My advice to you, lady to lady, that you should talk to yr bf that you are ready to hv sex with him. If he rejects, better get another bf. He gets sextisfied by you doing him hj & bj, but what abt you? Or maybe you can get a fb. My hubby did not really sextisfy me after our marriage. He is always done in 5 min and make me wet and hanging. To sextisfy myself, got a married fb, more experience and stick to the game.

[alan0338]

time to change BF liao, here have many buaya waiting to gobble u up

[Cerberus]

School Holidays.....

[lee2001sg]

From your post, I can say,

1) Your BF is not a gay.
2) Your BF does not have erectile dysfunction.

My guess is he do not wish you to get pregnant before marriage. Yes, there is condom but till date, there is no 100% prevention from pregnancy from sex. Maybe your BF is the playsafe type who do not even want to take a 0.01% risk. Another question is, does your BF mentioned about marriage?

For your case, I think you could ask your BF to help you by using a vibrator on you. If you really love your BF, do not go for flings. If he finds out, most probably he will leave you.

The best solution of all is to ask what problem he is facing. You guys should talk it out. Your problem and his problem.

Wish you have a happy future with your beloved BF.

[FucKDeviL]

Maybe can try to watch hardcore blue films with him and then teach him and train him how to lick your pussy. Tell him, if he cannot satisfy you, you not gonna to be happy and will leave him.

[Fade]

You should be happy that you are the minority virgin girl in SG at 22 y/o.
If you are just looking for sexual thrill, there are lots of ways to do it. Hooking up with other guys is very easy.. but i dun think its worth scarificing your 3 yr r/s for that.

In other words, be patient and let your first time be lovely and memorable.

[singexpat]

well, it seems that you are nt entirely looking for sex, but the "satisfaction" or mayb "orgasm"...
try to relax more, n best to convey the tots to ur bf as he is e one tht u r doing wif.. he will be sensitive to ur needs, if nt, juz dump him..

if otherwise, m sure there r many "teachers" here willing to show U..

[Fade]

Originally Posted by st.spicy

My advice to you, lady to lady, that you should talk to yr bf that you are ready to hv sex with him. If he rejects, better get another bf. He gets sextisfied by you doing him hj & bj, but what abt you? Or maybe you can get a fb. My hubby did not really sextisfy me after our marriage. He is always done in 5 min and make me wet and hanging. To sextisfy myself, got a married fb, more experience and stick to the game.

Woah.. sis, appreciate that you share your experience but its not very gd advice to a young lady. Guess she is not at that level yet.

[bochapsing]

ts,
u've come to the right place here...
there're plenty of "kind hearted gentleman" here willing to give u free solution to ur problem....



but ur case is rare, normally it's the other way round...
well, i guess normally for a guy, if the gf not ready to give, then either we eat outside;
or in order to stay faithful, we resort to "self satisfying", aka masturbation lor...

[st.spicy]

Originally Posted by Fade

Woah.. sis, appreciate that you share your experience but its not very gd advice to a young lady. Guess she is not at that level yet.

It may not be a good advice but the last decision still lies with her. Why must we ladies be the one sacrificing our pleasure for their partners? Like TS said, she did hj and bj to her bf, but what did her bf did to her to satisfy her? If this is not called selfish, what is it then? Ladies also have the right to be pleasured. If cant get it from their partner, get it elsewhere.

[Krazzie]

Not that rare actually I think is because of the bros here are chiongsters type so your friends tend to be more "open"

Personally I got one such friend... he ROM with his wife stays in the same flat for MONTHS and no sex happened, he even resort to sleeping in a separate room to prevent sex from happening.... I facepalmed when he told me that... now they are ceremony married and sex did happen so I can say he can perform and not gay (I was abit worried there as a friend but luckily no need to worry LOL)

So to TS my suggestion is to talk with your BF first before anything and find out the truth... 3 years relationship should be treasured

But if really incompatible in your views on sex I suggest you to move on or find some 'side entertainment' with guys who has more "open" views which many bros here (me included) can help with

[owl888]

Maybe your bf is those type that can only cum doing BJ/HJ. Pls refer to another thread got a guy have this problem. Ts pls check with your bf.

[kalamilk]

sis, let me(e small bro) tell u. i believe ur bf should have e same prob with my friend. my friend actually is shy n inexp in this area, he thot tt this non-sex relantionship can last n hope to marry u in the end coz he thot tt this is a way to respect u(u must have given him a wrong idea liao). so he like my friend by pushing down the thrist on u.he must be v sad n cant sleep everynight when he is alone.mayb u can try to do a normal sex wit him when u do a hj or bj on him,like tt he will understand u more and there u go with ur rs happily ever after.(if he push u away then leave this rs away too,he is not worth it liao).
hope what i say can help you to find a good waay.

cheerZ!!!