Long LT in Bangkok - where to start?

[Thecityguy80]

Hi everyone. I will be in Bangkok in August. What I would ideally love is to find a girl who will spend a few days with me - stay with me you know the girl friend experience... If we really click then up to 3-4 weeks

Does anyone here have any guidance on how to best approach that?

[Funquest]

So I have a Tinder question as this is my first time using it. Do you get many Ladyboy likes? Some look like LB's but will confirm they are female. Too good to be true to see a model like girl charge 2500?

[atoll]

So I have a Tinder question as this is my first time using it. Do you get many Ladyboy likes? Some look like LB's but will confirm they are female. Too good to be true to see a model like girl charge 2500?

If getting to know Thai girls online, best to do a video call to verify the lady is indeed the same as pic and not ladyboy. Less you make a wasted trip meetinf up with them.

2500 for ST? I know some girls working FL will try their luck on Tinder or wechat. But usually those that contact you would either be ladyboy or use fake pics - more misses than hits.

[Funquest]

If getting to know Thai girls online, best to do a video call to verify the lady is indeed the same as pic and not ladyboy. Less you make a wasted trip meetinf up with them.

2500 for ST? I know some girls working FL will try their luck on Tinder or wechat. But usually those that contact you would either be ladyboy or use fake pics - more misses than hits.

Thanks. I deleted Tinder. Not worth the hassle. TF was another minefield for me.

[arrowcloud]

Can you share your experiences on TF ? I'm currently on it. Most hot girls are posting insta + line on the side. But haven't contacted yet as I'm only going next month.

Thanks. I deleted Tinder. Not worth the hassle. TF was another minefield for me.

[tehbingg]

Can you share your experiences on TF ? I'm currently on it. Most hot girls are posting insta + line on the side. But haven't contacted yet as I'm only going next month.

sorry may i know what’s TF?

[arrowcloud]

sorry may i know what’s TF?
TF is shorthand for ThaiFriendly.com

[joesmith]

Can be apartment, condo or hotel. Some operate in shop if linked to specific joint. No issues with security guard, as long as you don't act suspicious or nervous...lol. Abit like in Sg FL Dome 1 concept.

Message them in English?

[kslogic]

Message them in English?


No, have to be in Isaan dialect.

[Funquest]

Can you share your experiences on TF ? I'm currently on it. Most hot girls are posting insta + line on the side. But haven't contacted yet as I'm only going next month.

This is only based on my experience. Others have reported various degrees of success and failures.

- pics are usually old or they use a lot of filters, photoshop
- those posting Line are freelancers or scammers. I got one wanting me to buy in to some lottery gaming scheme. I usually check their Line and see if they have recent posts and are active. If you get a Line account with no posts (restricted) then it's a red flag.
- those hot girls with IG, just to boost their followers they rarely respond and/or limited English. Also those photos or links to IG can be a showcase of their former glory days and they are like older now.
- and the biggest one is trying to determine if they are Ladyboys or not.
- these girls probably get a ton of messages so don't expect prompt responses hence hard to make any type of plans

It's a mine field. I did find only 2 legitimate FL's that I would be interested in but it was way more work than it's worth. It also depends on what type of person you are, age and how picky you are.

So just to re-iterate, this is my own experience. I have paid memberships for both TF and Tinder and no longer bother with either.

[nolaboy]

This is only based on my experience. Others have reported various degrees of success and failures.

- pics are usually old or they use a lot of filters, photoshop
- those posting Line are freelancers or scammers. I got one wanting me to buy in to some lottery gaming scheme. I usually check their Line and see if they have recent posts and are active. If you get a Line account with no posts (restricted) then it's a red flag.
- those hot girls with IG, just to boost their followers they rarely respond and/or limited English. Also those photos or links to IG can be a showcase of their former glory days and they are like older now.
- and the biggest one is trying to determine if they are Ladyboys or not.
- these girls probably get a ton of messages so don't expect prompt responses hence hard to make any type of plans

It's a mine field. I did find only 2 legitimate FL's that I would be interested in but it was way more work than it's worth. It also depends on what type of person you are, age and how picky you are.

So just to re-iterate, this is my own experience. I have paid memberships for both TF and Tinder and no longer bother with either.

Thanks bro, helpful. Had similar frustration and was thinking just me.

[Oshimayuko]

The video calls always don't look like real person. Somemore some photoshop their skin colour until so fair, comes looking like from Issan.

[arrowcloud]

Thank you this is very useful ! You are right, a lot of them have insta accounts. I'm yet to hit them up, will try later. But it does seem like they just want to boost rankings.

This is only based on my experience. Others have reported various degrees of success and failures.

- pics are usually old or they use a lot of filters, photoshop
- those posting Line are freelancers or scammers. I got one wanting me to buy in to some lottery gaming scheme. I usually check their Line and see if they have recent posts and are active. If you get a Line account with no posts (restricted) then it's a red flag.
- those hot girls with IG, just to boost their followers they rarely respond and/or limited English. Also those photos or links to IG can be a showcase of their former glory days and they are like older now.
- and the biggest one is trying to determine if they are Ladyboys or not.
- these girls probably get a ton of messages so don't expect prompt responses hence hard to make any type of plans

It's a mine field. I did find only 2 legitimate FL's that I would be interested in but it was way more work than it's worth. It also depends on what type of person you are, age and how picky you are.

So just to re-iterate, this is my own experience. I have paid memberships for both TF and Tinder and no longer bother with either.

[mikasackerman]

This is only based on my experience. Others have reported various degrees of success and failures.

- pics are usually old or they use a lot of filters, photoshop
- those posting Line are freelancers or scammers. I got one wanting me to buy in to some lottery gaming scheme. I usually check their Line and see if they have recent posts and are active. If you get a Line account with no posts (restricted) then it's a red flag.
- those hot girls with IG, just to boost their followers they rarely respond and/or limited English. Also those photos or links to IG can be a showcase of their former glory days and they are like older now.
- and the biggest one is trying to determine if they are Ladyboys or not.
- these girls probably get a ton of messages so don't expect prompt responses hence hard to make any type of plans

It's a mine field. I did find only 2 legitimate FL's that I would be interested in but it was way more work than it's worth. It also depends on what type of person you are, age and how picky you are.

So just to re-iterate, this is my own experience. I have paid memberships for both TF and Tinder and no longer bother with either.

Just registry my TF work Premium account. Message whole day to nearly 30 girls no one reply. Sad...

[serav1]

Just registry my TF work Premium account. Message whole day to nearly 30 girls no one reply. Sad...

I think one of the main key points is that you gotta state your location as BKK, then you'd get more hits. If you put it as SG you'd probably get a lot less. I also just signed up recently and on my first day I've had quite a few replies, and chats that's carried on for a while.

[Fatso4u]

I think one of the main key points is that you gotta state your location as BKK, then you'd get more hits. If you put it as SG you'd probably get a lot less. I also just signed up recently and on my first day I've had quite a few replies, and chats that's carried on for a while.

It also helps if you state in profile that you are currently in bangkok after you set your location to bangkok.

For TF and Tinder, it is alot of work trying to meet up with ladies this way. Besides all the work in sending out messages and viewing profiles, you will need to filter out those ladyboys, scammers and fake profiles too. After doing all that, the genuine replies are like only a small amount compared to the number of profiles reached out.

Having said that, i have actually met up with some of these ladies. Some are looking for Long Term Relationship, others are freelancers and there are those hoping to snare sugar daddies. I continue to remain friends with a couple of them after the initial meet up.

Unless i have alot of time to spend cultivating the relationship before i go bangkok, I probably wouldn't use these dating platforms. I know others have had success getting free ONS with these ladies on dating app, but I'd prefer P2P instead of seeking free ONS or FWB.