Do you regret not marrying a Singaporean Girl sometimes?

[BatamBro]

Bros who married a foreigner, how ya'll feel now? Regret? 😄

[pearlnjewel]

No marriage is perfect not even local couples or cross natoon couples all have theor pwn set of problems. Some local wife cheat amd also some foreign wife cheat also. Lets npt discount the sacrifices foreign wives contribite to the local guys. Some foreign woves are really attractive and still willing to marry older man.

Will still prefer local girls as wife unless too old liao then wont waste time anymore

[singmarine]

No matter what, I feel Singaporean girls are still the best afterall. SG girls may be hard to court initially but after they marry you, at least they understand SG hardships & lifestyles hence normally dun go hard on you.

Foreign girls are much easier to court but after marry you, they make so much demands as though you are very well off. Lets be honest, foreign girls marry you not because they like you but rather they want to live a live in Singapore.

[Peacekeeping]

Sg chinese are big on face. Everything also compare. Got car vs no car, 4rm vs 5rm, central area vs kampong area. If finances cannot keep up with the wife lifestyle it’s really stressful.

[aakumu]

Hi bro,
A good friend once said,
Women wants a better life; or better their life.
If not, why want to be with a men..:eek:
The different is; if you start from a 3rd world countries, she will accept an electric bike, eat at home.
When you start at a 1st world countries, she demand BMW and dine at 5 star hotels.
They all have pussy to trade for it, which every girl has one.
The golden question is; do you have what it takes for these women want to chase you.
You value determine what can you can get and retain.
That is how the world works.
I don't resent it, I just live with it.

My humble two cents.

[Xgenre]

Come on, there are many wonderful Singaporean ladies. Many don't even need your money. We don't have that many problems with our female classmates in Primary, Secondary and tertiary school days right?

The issue is about the individual lady and not Singaporean Girl in general. What's wrong with your mum or sister?

[aakumu]

Hi bro,

Most Men see women as "SEX" object.
Most Women see men as "Success" object.
comment below
If you prefer an old women to younger one?:eek:
OR
If a women prefer a broke men compare to a successful men?

When a King married a commoner, she becomes a Queen;
What happen when a Queen marry a common man, he does not become a king does he??
What is worse; do you think a Queen would look his way..:rolleyes:

SAD to say, but that is how our "Lizard brain" works.

My humble two cents.

[Kenkenkenchan]

Sg girls are the worst please. They are money minded yet act like not

[sbwow]

Money equates to resources.

Why the fuck ppl want to spend resources when they can retire comfortably earlier.
If you are single, probably need to work 15 years to retire comfortably.
If you have a family, some might need to work 30 years or a lifetime to support their family.

Working is one thing, but lots of work has their own stress and tiresome. Not as simple as just working.
Some jobs require you to work more than 12 hours and longer hours, inclusive of weekends and calls. Midnight work too.

[aakumu]

Money equates to resources.

Why the fuck ppl want to spend resources when they can retire comfortably earlier.
If you are single, probably need to work 15 years to retire comfortably.
If you have a family, some might need to work 30 years or a lifetime to support their family.

Working is one thing, but lots of work has their own stress and tiresome. Not as simple as just working.
Some jobs require you to work more than 12 hours and longer hours, inclusive of weekends and calls. Midnight work too.

Hi bro,
Good plan.

My humble two cents.

[sbwow]

Planning Retirement, enjoy the luxurious life of a retiree.

Where got time to plan marriage and wasting money. WTFFF. :rolleyes:

[driedlemon3]

Planning Retirement, enjoy the luxurious life of a retiree.

Where got time to plan marriage and wasting money. WTFFF. :rolleyes:

when humans think they are in love it messed with their brain's ability to do logical thinking. end of day the feeling of love is just chemical reaction in the brains n worse of all it's just temporary!

[hellwolf1]

how about Malaysian girl? recently going to make my move.

[pearlnjewel]

how about Malaysian girl? recently going to make my move.

Malaysian girl also okay, alot of elder generation also maalysians. But malaysians also got all kinds.

[Peacekeeping]

how about Malaysian girl? recently going to make my move.

Just do it. You know her character better than us.

[sbwow]

The questions being posed makes me wonder whether the person has the mental capacity to think.

We don't even know who the fuck the girl you want to marry is. We don't even know her.

And then you come to the forums and ask whether you should marry this or that girl? WTF?

Impressive...

[iluvbreast]

I always advocate all samsters have every right to post here.....this ought to be one of the dumber threads I come across....

Regret marry Singaporean Girl? why leh? They have some genetic defects? Malaysian Girls better? How come? Their genes are highly compatible with Singaporean men? ATB all money faced?

I don't realise some of those who posted here have sampled enough Singaporean Girls to conclude their common trend...likewise for other Nationalities.

TS should get out of Singapore sometimes (and no, not just go on tours), and see how people live in other countries then maybe he will realise it is there is no one size fits all, you think it is like buying car? Buy the same model means the same specs?

[pearlnjewel]

I always advocate all samsters have every right to post here.....this ought to be one of the dumber threads I come across....

Regret marry Singaporean Girl? why leh? They have some genetic defects? Malaysian Girls better? How come? Their genes are highly compatible with Singaporean men? ATB all money faced?

I don't realise some of those who posted here have sampled enough Singaporean Girls to conclude their common trend...likewise for other Nationalities.

TS should get out of Singapore sometimes (and no, not just go on tours), and see how people live in other countries then maybe he will realise it is there is no one size fits all, you think it is like buying car? Buy the same model means the same specs?

Ts meant those who marry foreign wives, did they regret

[iluvbreast]

Ts meant those who marry foreign wives, did they regret

Yes i am aware of that. My point to him was there is no one size fits all in this kind of situation.

Does he mean all Singaporean girls are the same and all foreign wives act differently? The thing is they are all individuals and they behave differently. The question is so open everyone will have a different answer, then what useful information can he gather?

[chubbybastard]

Malaysian girl also okay, alot of elder generation also maalysians. But malaysians also got all kinds.

What makes you think so? Malaysian and foreign thai, vietnam girls no different. They are in SG for a reason and that reason is for a better life.

[pearlnjewel]

What makes you think so? Malaysian and foreign thai, vietnam girls no different. They are in SG for a reason and that reason is for a better life.

Thats why i put malaysian also have all kinds, some good some bad

[ErikTenHag]

I only regret getting married.

[np99]

I only regret getting married.

😂

This is so true

[kt88_2]

😂

This is so true


Malaysian are more greedy n money face,my personal opinion, cos I marry one,regret, even resort to stealing from my family members n including myself , really shameful when caught ,but still thick skin n Don admit, exchange rate of 1 to 3 makes ppl crazy n only divide with a border only, her sister n family also asking for money also.sad

[larue]

Malaysian are more greedy n money face,my personal opinion, cos I marry one,regret, even resort to stealing from my family members n including myself , really shameful when caught ,but still thick skin n Don admit, exchange rate of 1 to 3 makes ppl crazy n only divide with a border only, her sister n family also asking for money also.sad

That's literally one massive sample size.

[LooksLikeJesus]

No matter what, I feel Singaporean girls are still the best afterall. SG girls may be hard to court initially but after they marry you, at least they understand SG hardships & lifestyles hence normally dun go hard on you.

Foreign girls are much easier to court but after marry you, they make so much demands as though you are very well off. Lets be honest, foreign girls marry you not because they like you but rather they want to live a live in Singapore.

:D:D:D:D:D:D Unbelievable

[PrivateRyan]

No matter what, I feel Singaporean girls are still the best afterall. SG girls may be hard to court initially but after they marry you, at least they understand SG hardships & lifestyles hence normally dun go hard on you.

Foreign girls are much easier to court but after marry you, they make so much demands as though you are very well off. Lets be honest, foreign girls marry you not because they like you but rather they want to live a live in Singapore.

Wah seh, u 100% support local products, sometimes change eat exotic food also not bad :)

[Tommy007]

Many experience bros here

[Xgenre]

Wah seh, u 100% support local products, sometimes change eat exotic food also not bad :)

Eat exotic food is ok but marriage is more complicated. If there are kids, having 2 Singaporean parents will be better when the kids start studying. Primary school maths and English are harder to learn when 1 of the spouse is a foreigner.

I spoke to a prc lady with a son studying in our primary school recently son is P6 and doesn't have assessment books. Prc doesn't even know assessment books exist.

[kt88_2]

In general,stay single better ,if need marry a Singaporean girls better, from personal experience

[amethys]

Just looking around and lost count of the numbers of divorcees in our social circle tells alot.

[SocialCircle]

Actually I would prefer a foreign wife.
Most of my friends who got, they have more lobang from their spouse country like buy house and do business.

[lechlee]

Bros who married a foreigner, how ya'll feel now? Regret? 😄

Bro.. suppose you might be single, and need some statistic or reassurance to date a foreigner or settle with a Singaporean lady. That's why you asked such question.

Assuming this is not a troll, I shall give my more sincere answer. By the way, my wife is a filippina and we have been together for 14 years.

Actually, most of us would want to date ladies with a marriageable prospect unless you are still at the fboy or looking around phase la. But this really calls for destiny and fate since every lady you come across will be unique and has her own personality and temperament. Though her culture does influence a bit of how she views the world and handles life, which will then affect your initial judgement of whether her value and belief system will align with your own, but don't forget that even we Singaporeans also have diverse ways of thinking and living our life. If outside people just use a set of labels to describe Singaporeans such as snobbish, kiasu, materialistic and pragmatic, do you think these descriptors are exactly who you are? I doubt so. And same applies to foreigners.

You can only find out whether she's suitable for you after you have been with her and spend a good amount of quality time conversing and even living together.

It's unfair to any lady you are considering seriously dating to go in with a set of presumptions based on what you have read, heard and even experienced before. Bro, give each relationship a clean slate and try to be your best so that your partner will be her best too. And then you decide whether that would be your potential wife.

Anyway, no marriage is perfect la. As the saying goes, marriage is never a bed of roses. You have to constantly iron things out and you can never say you fully understand someone even after a decade together. Even if you truly understand your wife, there are certain differences that exist and these are unresolvable. Don't expect anyone to change. No one will change. Just change yourself. That's the easiest. Thus, you can only minimise the impact that differences cause by either compromising on your side or living with certain defects in your relationship. And when a child is in dynamic, it's a different ball game we ought to learn how to play. Adulting and parenting are continuous learning journey. We can never stop learning to be better in our roles.

[BatamBro]

Bro.. suppose you might be single, and need some statistic or reassurance to date a foreigner or settle with a Singaporean lady. That's why you asked such question.

Assuming this is not a troll, I shall give my more sincere answer. By the way, my wife is a filippina and we have been together for 14 years.

Actually, most of us would want to date ladies with a marriageable prospect unless you are still at the fboy or looking around phase la. But this really calls for destiny and fate since every lady you come across will be unique and has her own personality and temperament. Though her culture does influence a bit of how she views the world and handles life, which will then affect your initial judgement of whether her value and belief system will align with your own, but don't forget that even we Singaporeans also have diverse ways of thinking and living our life. If outside people just use a set of labels to describe Singaporeans such as snobbish, kiasu, materialistic and pragmatic, do you think these descriptors are exactly who you are? I doubt so. And same applies to foreigners.

You can only find out whether she's suitable for you after you have been with her and spend a good amount of quality time conversing and even living together.

It's unfair to any lady you are considering seriously dating to go in with a set of presumptions based on what you have read, heard and even experienced before. Bro, give each relationship a clean slate and try to be your best so that your partner will be her best too. And then you decide whether that would be your potential wife.

Anyway, no marriage is perfect la. As the saying goes, marriage is never a bed of roses. You have to constantly iron things out and you can never say you fully understand someone even after a decade together. Even if you truly understand your wife, there are certain differences that exist and these are unresolvable. Don't expect anyone to change. No one will change. Just change yourself. That's the easiest. Thus, you can only minimise the impact that differences cause by either compromising on your side or living with certain defects in your relationship. And when a child is in dynamic, it's a different ball game we ought to learn how to play. Adulting and parenting are continuous learning journey. We can never stop learning to be better in our roles.

appreciate this reply.
its true, well said.. no one will change, just change yourself.

[iamsootlor]

No matter what, I feel Singaporean girls are still the best afterall. SG girls may be hard to court initially but after they marry you, at least they understand SG hardships & lifestyles hence normally dun go hard on you.

Foreign girls are much easier to court but after marry you, they make so much demands as though you are very well off. Lets be honest, foreign girls marry you not because they like you but rather they want to live a live in Singapore.

Statistically maybe true that a higher number marry Singaporeans for money and/or life in Singapore. But when they receive what they demand, they serve the husbands like king. Or they come across a good guy, and they go through thick and thin with the guy.

SG may seem like a better choice, because of cultural reasons, understanding life in SG. This does not mean they are a better person. I see so many SG girls sleeping around behind their husbands back. They too marry for money. Marry a SG guy easier to get HDB.

So I believe marriage we cannot say which country is better. It is who we are happier with. I have friends with foreigner wives enjoying their lives so much more fulfilling than friends with SG girls as wives.

All boils down to think clearly, what the girl wants / needs , what the guy wants / needs , can both party fulfill each other, regardless of nationality.

[Peacekeeping]

Statistically maybe true that a higher number marry Singaporeans for money and/or life in Singapore. But when they receive what they demand, they serve the husbands like king. Or they come across a good guy, and they go through thick and thin with the guy.

SG may seem like a better choice, because of cultural reasons, understanding life in SG. This does not mean they are a better person. I see so many SG girls sleeping around behind their husbands back. They too marry for money. Marry a SG guy easier to get HDB.

So I believe marriage we cannot say which country is better. It is who we are happier with. I have friends with foreigner wives enjoying their lives so much more fulfilling than friends with SG girls as wives.

All boils down to think clearly, what the girl wants / needs , what the guy wants / needs , can both party fulfill each other, regardless of nationality.

If can’t connect with the foreign wife then she become like a sex doll because no communication, only sex.

[iamsootlor]

If can’t connect with the foreign wife then she become like a sex doll because no communication, only sex.

you are right ! so it is about the connection not the country !

[pptimer]

i prefer thai and viet girls:)

[dessertboy]

i prefer thai and viet girls:)

same ah but must find the kampong one for wife hahaha then they take care you like king !

[overlord9898]

i prefer thai and viet girls:)

best... good choice

[justwanadoit]

Yes, after i live in Europe and dated several european girls, i feel Singapore girl cannot match them in terms of beauty, interesting personality, hobbies, caring for partner etc

Now i regret marry so early.

In fact now on dating app back Singapore for holidays, i have no matches, because i keep swipping left when I see singkee girls

[Greenfrog]

Yes, after i live in Europe and dated several european girls, i feel Singapore girl cannot match them in terms of beauty, interesting personality, hobbies, caring for partner etc

Now i regret marry so early.

In fact now on dating app back Singapore for holidays, i have no matches, because i keep swipping left when I see singkee girls

well singaporean gals actually make very bad girlfriends.

this is my conclusion after dating a hei long jiang gal.

[Greenfrog]

No matter what, I feel Singaporean girls are still the best afterall. SG girls may be hard to court initially but after they marry you, at least they understand SG hardships & lifestyles hence normally dun go hard on you.

Foreign girls are much easier to court but after marry you, they make so much demands as though you are very well off. Lets be honest, foreign girls marry you not because they like you but rather they want to live a live in Singapore.

Singaporean girls is good if only you can match them in their social status.

there is one chinese saying； 木门对木门。金门对金门。

[justwanadoit]

Singaporean girls is good if only you can match them in their social status.

there is one chinese saying； 木门对木门。金门对金门。


Then i have to say educated singapore men are actually 金门 but because of fkin environment set up by our gahrmen and stupid women's charter and many unfair practices, the singapore men are made to look like 木门

My suggestion is for educated singapore men to seek their partners or gfs or even flings away from Singapore. Go Europe best if you can, tbe girls are top notch- face figure conversations class...or other countries, we will be treated like the real 金门 that we are!

[sumochkicfViamn]

Does it give you enough reason to find other girls or FL or ML if your sex partner playing death fish all the time? Like not interested in sex at all.

[clittlebit]

you get best of both worlds, enjoy the good side of each

[wc4998]

Nationality does not matters. One thing that puzzled me is when you are single most girls are not into you, but once you are married you seemsnto carry an invisible stamp of of approval and girls start to get interested in you.

[obeyyodude]

I regret marrying my Singaporean girl. Although as other bros have pointed out nationality nowadays might not be so different.

[iamsootlor]

I regret marrying my Singaporean girl. Although as other bros have pointed out nationality nowadays might not be so different.

cultural difference i think, why you regret ? bossy ah ?

[JiraJira]

I regret marrying my Singaporean girl. Although as other bros have pointed out nationality nowadays might not be so different.

i think its not about nationality but where she grew up, the type of culture that molded her character growing up. i can be of a certain nationality but i grew up in another country.

example like thai girls those well to do rich one study in america etc. become arrogant show off like angmoh

[MrRattata]

i want to marry siam bu.

[Jasee]

My friend made a mistake marrying a British guy she met in uni. I guess the biggest issue she faced was the cultural differences.. like.. simple things.. her husband will leave the baby in the car to go to the supermarket. Crazy right..

Her husbands family also dislikes her.. I guess. It’s really better to marry a singaporean girl :)

[Andy24]

I think girls from malaysia more humble, down to earth, and most importantly lower expectations :)

[Greenfrog]

My friend made a mistake marrying a British guy she met in uni. I guess the biggest issue she faced was the cultural differences.. like.. simple things.. her husband will leave the baby in the car to go to the supermarket. Crazy right..

Her husbands family also dislikes her.. I guess. It’s really better to marry a singaporean girl :)

no offence , your friend probably a SPG or just prefer ang mo lup cheong.:)

[chariotholder]

I think girls from malaysia more humble, down to earth, and most importantly lower expectations :)

this i really agree with you.

[chariotholder]

My friend made a mistake marrying a British guy she met in uni. I guess the biggest issue she faced was the cultural differences.. like.. simple things.. her husband will leave the baby in the car to go to the supermarket. Crazy right..

Her husbands family also dislikes her.. I guess. It’s really better to marry a singaporean girl :)

if she is sufferring the differences unexpectedly , then she jumped into marriage without careful consideration.

[cmelater]

I had a failed marriage with a Singapore girl. I do regret marrying her cos' her expectations were so high.

But, I also do not aspire to marry a foreigner, especially those who already have been working in Singapore for some years. They learn the same nonsense from the local women.

Now that I have car and house, I really find no point marrying foreign or local. Better be alone and be happy. No need explain too much to someone else. For me, my runway too short to have another marriage. If I have a kid, I would have to work till 70++. Not funny..... esp when the wife also older and tend to be whiney.

[superlibido]

I had a failed marriage with a Singapore girl. I do regret marrying her cos' her expectations were so high.

But, I also do not aspire to marry a foreigner, especially those who already have been working in Singapore for some years. They learn the same nonsense from the local women.

Now that I have car and house, I really find no point marrying foreign or local. Better be alone and be happy. No need explain too much to someone else. For me, my runway too short to have another marriage. If I have a kid, I would have to work till 70++. Not funny..... esp when the wife also older and tend to be whiney.

most probably a companion that also not looking to have kids

[cornporn]

if she is sufferring the differences unexpectedly , then she jumped into marriage without careful consideration.

this i agree, marriage is human life big event. although new generation take it lightly thats why divorce rate so high. must consider many things even if two truly love each other alot of planning involved. cross cultural, 1 party will eventually have to give up life in his/her own country, friends etc so many issues. if all these looked at before jumping in marriage at least most ommon problems wont arise.