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Hunkydunky
13-02-2021, 11:42 PM
Sometimes, I do miss them, thinking how they are now.
Things we did together, shower together, go to school together, go overseas together, and many stuffs... brought back memories.
So you miss your ex? What are the memorable moments?
pearlnjewel
14-02-2021, 12:33 AM
This thread burn for all the bros who never managed to clinched any relationship before:rolleyes:
LooksLikeJesus
14-02-2021, 10:22 AM
Sometimes, I do miss them, thinking how they are now.
Things we did together, shower together, go to school together, go overseas together, and many stuffs... brought back memories.
So you miss your ex? What are the memorable moments?
Your exs are exs for a reason. Grow some balls and move onto the next woman.
Hunkydunky
15-02-2021, 12:08 AM
Your exs are exs for a reason. Grow some balls and move onto the next woman.
Some ppl might miss ex ma.. especially those fuck scene...replaying in mind..
Hunkydunky
16-02-2021, 12:02 AM
I remember a night with my 2nd ex....
She was writing a long letter.. I didn't know what the content was as I was about to sleep... as next day gotta work.
When she finished writing, she kept her stuffs and lied beside me.. then she started kissing me and we had sex. Didn't shoot inside as she doesn't allow. So I raw her for awhile before putting on cd. Then finish it with cd on.
The next day, I found the letter in my bag when I'm home after work. Then I read the letter...it's a break up letter. I was so sad that day... but eventually moved on.
RyoDaniKimura
17-02-2021, 09:09 PM
Dayummmn. That is sad. I feel sorry you mate
clngboy
20-02-2021, 11:41 PM
The first one is always un-forgettable..
doombringer
21-02-2021, 02:01 AM
Sometimes, I do miss them, thinking how they are now.
Things we did together, shower together, go to school together, go overseas together, and many stuffs... brought back memories.
So you miss your ex? What are the memorable moments?
“Future love does not exist,” Tolstoy wrote in contemplating the paradoxical demands of love. “Love is a present activity only. The man who does not manifest love in the present has not love.” It is a difficult concept to accept — we have been socialized to believe in and grasp after the happily-ever-after future of every meaningful relationship.1 But what happens when love, whatever its category and classification, dissolves under the interminable forces of time and change, be it by death or by some other, more deliberate demise? In the midst of what feels like an unsurvivable loss,2 how do we moor ourselves to the fact that even the most beautiful, most singularly gratifying things in life are merely on loan from the universe, granted us for the time being?
3Two millennia ago, the great Stoic philosopher Epictetus (c. 55–135 AD) argued that the antidote to this gutting grief is found not i4n hedging ourselves against prospective loss through artificial self-protections but, when loss does come, in orienting ourselves to it and to what preceded it differently — in training ourselves not only to accept but to embrace the temporality of all things, even those we most cherish and most wish would stretch into eternity, so that when love does vanish, we are left with the irrevocable gladness that it had entered our lives at all and animated them f5or the time that it did.
in short 不在乎天长地久,只在乎曾经拥有
tradespeak
21-02-2021, 04:46 PM
“Future love does not exist,” Tolstoy wrote in contemplating the paradoxical demands of love. “Love is a present activity only. The man who does not manifest love in the present has not love.” It is a difficult concept to accept — we have been socialized to believe in and grasp after the happily-ever-after future of every meaningful relationship.1 But what happens when love, whatever its category and classification, dissolves under the interminable forces of time and change, be it by death or by some other, more deliberate demise? In the midst of what feels like an unsurvivable loss,2 how do we moor ourselves to the fact that even the most beautiful, most singularly gratifying things in life are merely on loan from the universe, granted us for the time being?
3Two millennia ago, the great Stoic philosopher Epictetus (c. 55–135 AD) argued that the antidote to this gutting grief is found not i4n hedging ourselves against prospective loss through artificial self-protections but, when loss does come, in orienting ourselves to it and to what preceded it differently — in training ourselves not only to accept but to embrace the temporality of all things, even those we most cherish and most wish would stretch into eternity, so that when love does vanish, we are left with the irrevocable gladness that it had entered our lives at all and animated them f5or the time that it did.
in short 不在乎天长地久,只在乎曾经拥有
Very well said bro!
iluvbreast
22-02-2021, 01:52 PM
I don't missed any ex, the only one I sometimes think about is my first gf....whom left me for another.....after that I told myself no more....I will be the one leaving...
Hunkydunky
22-02-2021, 02:34 PM
I don't missed any ex, the only one I sometimes think about is my first gf....whom left me for another.....after that I told myself no more....I will be the one leaving...
I'm the one who left my 1st gf. She quarrels with me most of the time until I cannot take it. I'm her 1st too.
damien
25-02-2021, 05:04 AM
I do miss my 1st gf too, we were each other’s first sexual experience. Sex was great, she had decent boobs but she is way too sticky and eventually led to lots of quarrels especially when I’m in the army and i choose to spend my weekend nights with my camp mates instead of her, i eventually broke off with her and it didnt end well. Well even if i could turn back time I would’ve done the same thing again. So no regrets on that lol. After our breakup some days she will still request for meetup, just for sex and she still allows me to raw and cip. That was almost 10 years ago i think but yes sometimes i do miss her and wonder how she’s doing.
cokekane
01-03-2021, 08:07 PM
not as much as the first 6mths, she was very chio and out of my league.. she left me for another rich guy
it was hell.... now i am happy with my current one, no more looking back. thanks for the memory/lesson :)
chaoslord
01-03-2021, 08:57 PM
Yes I do.
My ex is a KTV girl which was perfect as I am married. We had 5 good years together and grew very close during circuit breaker when she could not work and I took care of her solely. For a year, her pussy only saw one cock.
When circuit breaker ended - she started work on my encouragement and met another guy. Younger, handsome and very generous, he wooed her and hard and I could see her developing feelings for him. I decided to step aside and allow her to pursue this opportunity as even a 1% chance to succeed with him was still better than 0% chance with me. To be clear I broke up with her which upset her at the point but appreciated it deep inside.
I miss the sex, the companionship and the convenience. But the reality is that she was never mine. I simply rented her for her time and companionship. When the next better thing come along - I gave her my blessings to allow him to pursue her. This was very recent on 25 Feb 2021. Memories still flood back over time when alone but slowly these feelings would ebb away. I am human after all - so I banged a new hot chick today :D
Gentle Beast
03-03-2021, 04:44 PM
Yes I do.
My ex is a KTV girl which was perfect as I am married. We had 5 good years together and grew very close during circuit breaker when she could not work and I took care of her solely. For a year, her pussy only saw one cock.
I miss the sex, the companionship and the convenience. But the reality is that she was never mine. I simply rented her for her time and companionship. When the next better thing come along - I gave her my blessings to allow him to pursue her. This was very recent on 25 Feb 2021. Memories still flood back over time when alone but slowly these feelings would ebb away. I am human after all - so I banged a new hot chick today :D
5 good years together and just 5 days to get over it with a new hot chick, you are truly a top level 'heartless' man!:D
Bullshitlar
04-03-2021, 10:01 PM
I do miss my 1st gf too, we were each other’s first sexual experience. Sex was great, she had decent boobs but she is way too sticky and eventually led to lots of quarrels especially when I’m in the army and i choose to spend my weekend nights with my camp mates instead of her, i eventually broke off with her and it didnt end well. Well even if i could turn back time I would’ve done the same thing again. So no regrets on that lol. After our breakup some days she will still request for meetup, just for sex and she still allows me to raw and cip. That was almost 10 years ago i think but yes sometimes i do miss her and wonder how she’s doing.
Wait what?? U spend your weekend book out with your camp mates instead of your gf?? Or ur family or friends outside of army circle???
Are u gay? Abit suspicious
Mthrfckr
06-03-2021, 02:23 AM
I miss my ex so so much...she passed away in a road accident last year in Thailand. I couldn’t go for her funeral due to covid restrictions.
hijav
20-04-2021, 11:57 PM
Hell no......its thanks to my ex that I have made beautiful friendships with my overseas female partners
rampage333
23-04-2021, 10:21 AM
At times, but everytime i would think about myself settling down jitao turn off ahaha
yowtf
23-04-2021, 01:25 PM
Definitely missed them, but only for the sex.
They became Ex-ed for a reason.
coldshower
03-05-2021, 04:49 AM
Just broke up last week. Super painful, miss her everyday.
NetRodent
04-05-2021, 12:18 AM
Well..
旧爱还是最美 - 苏永康
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TyraNoah
04-05-2021, 02:47 AM
Not really. People need to move on. There should be nothing like getting stuck in the past. The thoughts of them may come but deciding not to indulging them is up to you
Penguin23
07-05-2021, 11:55 AM
Yes I do.
My ex is a KTV girl which was perfect as I am married. We had 5 good years together and grew very close during circuit breaker when she could not work and I took care of her solely. For a year, her pussy only saw one cock.
When circuit breaker ended - she started work on my encouragement and met another guy. Younger, handsome and very generous, he wooed her and hard and I could see her developing feelings for him. I decided to step aside and allow her to pursue this opportunity as even a 1% chance to succeed with him was still better than 0% chance with me. To be clear I broke up with her which upset her at the point but appreciated it deep inside.
I miss the sex, the companionship and the convenience. But the reality is that she was never mine. I simply rented her for her time and companionship. When the next better thing come along - I gave her my blessings to allow him to pursue her. This was very recent on 25 Feb 2021. Memories still flood back over time when alone but slowly these feelings would ebb away. I am human after all - so I banged a new hot chick today :D
Damn Power bro, great post.
Atarash
06-06-2021, 11:48 PM
First time posting. Long time lurker, please do bear with me a bit.
So, i basically work overseas and i had this german girlfriend. We met at a bar that i went to with my work colleagues.
We hit it off right away, she speaks fairly good english. We drank, sat, talked. What shocked me the most is that she was super proactive. She basically noticed when I went into the toilet and she chased me inside. I got a shock when she opened the door behind me and came in.
Long story short, i had a bj and a nice fuck later that night.
So i ended up seeing her every time i went to Germany.
We spoke a lot via text cos i was in the region but not always there, i move around alot for work.
Most of the time i went there we'd meet, hang out with her family, drink, have bbqs, play w her pets, it was fun.
One day she told me she wanted more and i couldnt give it to her. She wanted a family, marriage and all that. I couldnt, mainly due to the job. It could take me from europe region to SEA in days, so...i couldnt.
She then told me she'd open the relationship to which i couldnt say no, cos its not fair to her. She eventually got pregnant by a swedish guy who didnt treat her quite well. I miss her alot. But i'll never forget all the times that i spent with her.
Xia406
07-06-2021, 12:28 AM
A friend once said these wise words, "The memories you have had with your ex belongs to you and her only. Nobody else can take it away from the both of you. It is okay to recall the beautiful moments once a while but after that carry on with the life."
I have several exes and I do wonder how are some of them doing occasionally. Some I broke up with them, some broke up with me, and some just fade away.
But life has taught me that exes are exes for a reason. So yeah life goes on. The clock won't stop ticking. But if fate has it for the 2 of you to come together again down the road, good for you and treasure it. If not, forge on until you find the one.
Datingafter35
09-06-2021, 09:08 PM
A friend once said these wise words, "The memories you have had with your ex belongs to you and her only. Nobody else can take it away from the both of you. It is okay to recall the beautiful moments once a while but after that carry on with the life."
I have several exes and I do wonder how are some of them doing occasionally. Some I broke up with them, some broke up with me, and some just fade away.
But life has taught me that exes are exes for a reason. So yeah life goes on. The clock won't stop ticking. But if fate has it for the 2 of you to come together again down the road, good for you and treasure it. If not, forge on until you find the one.
Sage.
Words of wisdom indeed. Used to delete my ex photos. Now horny or lonely. Just look at them. Still keep in contact with one ex but I guess it's time to move on because I only miss sex with her. Which is really bad because she wants a husband and I make less than her which is her priority now.
Penguin23
14-06-2021, 02:47 PM
A friend once said these wise words, "The memories you have had with your ex belongs to you and her only. Nobody else can take it away from the both of you. It is okay to recall the beautiful moments once a while but after that carry on with the life."
I have several exes and I do wonder how are some of them doing occasionally. Some I broke up with them, some broke up with me, and some just fade away.
But life has taught me that exes are exes for a reason. So yeah life goes on. The clock won't stop ticking. But if fate has it for the 2 of you to come together again down the road, good for you and treasure it. If not, forge on until you find the one.
Powerful words, borne out of life experience. Too bad cannot upz, since I discovered this post too late
For the longest time, my motto for my exes (ex wife, ex-gf, same same) has always been:
May only the most beautiful memories remain.....
Shadow_warrior
03-07-2021, 01:31 AM
“Future love does not exist,” Tolstoy wrote in contemplating the paradoxical demands of love. “Love is a present activity only. The man who does not manifest love in the present has not love.” It is a difficult concept to accept — we have been socialized to believe in and grasp after the happily-ever-after future of every meaningful relationship.1 But what happens when love, whatever its category and classification, dissolves under the interminable forces of time and change, be it by death or by some other, more deliberate demise? In the midst of what feels like an unsurvivable loss,2 how do we moor ourselves to the fact that even the most beautiful, most singularly gratifying things in life are merely on loan from the universe, granted us for the time being?
3Two millennia ago, the great Stoic philosopher Epictetus (c. 55–135 AD) argued that the antidote to this gutting grief is found not i4n hedging ourselves against prospective loss through artificial self-protections but, when loss does come, in orienting ourselves to it and to what preceded it differently — in training ourselves not only to accept but to embrace the temporality of all things, even those we most cherish and most wish would stretch into eternity, so that when love does vanish, we are left with the irrevocable gladness that it had entered our lives at all and animated them f5or the time that it did.
in short 不在乎天长地久,只在乎曾经拥有
that's a nice share
unfortunately the heart does not work on logic and writings. It feels what it wants to feel.
Shadow_warrior
03-07-2021, 01:34 AM
Powerful words, borne out of life experience. Too bad cannot upz, since I discovered this post too late
For the longest time, my motto for my exes (ex wife, ex-gf, same same) has always been:
May only the most beautiful memories remain.....
that's true for me too.
Marriage is one thing, staying married is another. But realising that someone that you thought you left behind is still there, in your heart, is inevitable for some
Perhaps you can listen to a song that you used to listen to and reminiscence on the relationship. take it out, have a drink, sing a song and put in back in the deep recesses of your heart.
Tomorrow Life goes on.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0uVpf4fpuI
hunter12
05-07-2021, 09:53 PM
Yes yes.. for the 1st 2 ex.. can't say miss but regret. ... cause that time is guai guai Kia.. knn nvr up them.. sibey regret. Haha..
tanyifu
06-07-2021, 11:26 PM
Broke up for about a year plus cause ex stop loving me. Recently found out ex got new bf. Sigh suddenly emo 🥲
coolttt
14-07-2021, 03:55 PM
Broke up for about a year plus cause ex stop loving me. Recently found out ex got new bf. Sigh suddenly emo 🥲
Bro, that is normal, just let it go :)
maxsee
22-07-2021, 09:04 PM
I only miss my wife, never miss any of my exs :D
JoannaJourney
01-08-2021, 03:01 AM
I missed his hugs and kisses and maybe the sex we ever had. But I don't miss his lies.
从陌生到熟悉再到陌生,这就是人生。
谢谢你曾经出现在我的生命里,好久不见的孤独患者。:)
Datingafter35
03-08-2021, 07:15 PM
I missed his hugs and kisses and maybe the sex we ever had. But I don't miss his lies.
从陌生到熟悉再到陌生,这就是人生。
谢谢你曾经出现在我的生命里,好久不见的孤独患者。:)
Must be husband material. Got money?
Shadow_warrior
03-08-2021, 08:07 PM
I missed his hugs and kisses and maybe the sex we ever had. But I don't miss his lies.
从陌生到熟悉再到陌生,这就是人生。
谢谢你曾经出现在我的生命里,好久不见的孤独患者。:)
no one can have everything, nothing stays the same forever
you cannot have someone and not lose someone someday
you cannot have someone if there was no void in the first place
Nothing stays the same. Just live in the moment and the memories will be there to remind one of the good times.
Someone once said, the way to screw your life over is to ask for life not to send me you people that will disappoint you, hurt you, screw you over, be rude to you.
In asking for the good, you must also acknowledge that there will be bad.
JoannaJourney
04-08-2021, 02:13 AM
396167
Must be husband material. Got money?
Not exactly ideal husband material as he cheated on his gf when he was with me. He lied to me from day 1, else will not fall so deeply in love and got hurt eventually.
Shadow_warrior
16-08-2021, 01:19 AM
A rainy night, and just had vivid dreams of an ex from 20 years ago
Its funny, but the older you get, the things you thought you left behind, you realise that they were merely hiding under the layers of time.
they say time will heal all wounds, I think it does for some superficial ones, but for those whom you had the most connection, I think you carry these emotions for life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSFL5CxzYQU&list=RDM9MrvMnWKhM&index=2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M9MrvMnWKhM&list=RDM9MrvMnWKhM&index=2
Nitework
17-08-2021, 05:54 PM
A rainy night, and just had vivid dreams of an ex from 20 years ago
Its funny, but the older you get, the things you thought you left behind, you realise that they were merely hiding under the layers of time.
they say time will heal all wounds, I think it does for some superficial ones, but for those whom you had the most connection, I think you carry these emotions for life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSFL5CxzYQU&list=RDM9MrvMnWKhM&index=2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M9MrvMnWKhM&list=RDM9MrvMnWKhM&index=2
Man ... Your words carry the weight of experience and wisdom. Would love to trade stories with you over a drink. Myself just ended a 10 year relationship that was emotionally deeper than my own sexless marriage. She cheated but who am I to throw the first stone. Life truly is complicated
Shadow_warrior
19-08-2021, 02:19 AM
Man ... Your words carry the weight of experience and wisdom. Would love to trade stories with you over a drink. Myself just ended a 10 year relationship that was emotionally deeper than my own sexless marriage. She cheated but who am I to throw the first stone. Life truly is complicated
I can tell you stories man...love deep, hurt big. We did alot of stuff to each other to, she cheated and I cheated back. But, the passion and intensity, has never been visited in all my relationships after
its funny but 2 decades later, I swear she still misses me. I don't know how I know, but I just do. And when we lived together, we tested this "connection" and it was uncanny. And its only this girl
in fact, at one point, I really wanted to step away, went to a psychic to told me it was meant to fulfil a romance from another lifetime. I didn't believe it, till she told me something else about us, and a few days later, it came true.
maybe in another lifetime
二百年後在一起
應該不怕旁人不服氣
團圓或者晚了廿個十年 仍然未捨棄
換個時代在一起
等荊棘滿途全枯死
這盼望很悠長
亦決心等到尾 等得起
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQcYQ7iC-Rc
Nitework
19-08-2021, 03:00 PM
I can tell you stories man...love deep, hurt big. We did alot of stuff to each other to, she cheated and I cheated back. But, the passion and intensity, has never been visited in all my relationships after
its funny but 2 decades later, I swear she still misses me. I don't know how I know, but I just do. And when we lived together, we tested this "connection" and it was uncanny. And its only this girl
in fact, at one point, I really wanted to step away, went to a psychic to told me it was meant to fulfil a romance from another lifetime. I didn't believe it, till she told me something else about us, and a few days later, it came true.
maybe in another lifetime
二百年後在一起
應該不怕旁人不服氣
團圓或者晚了廿個十年 仍然未捨棄
換個時代在一起
等荊棘滿途全枯死
這盼望很悠長
亦決心等到尾 等得起
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQcYQ7iC-Rc
I know exactly what you mean.
A psychic also predicted her coming into my life at the stage it did. She keeps saying she must have owed me in her last life. Given how she cheated in this and our connection, the cycle will keep going on in the next life as well.
A telling sign is her inability to face me and bare the truth without getting angry. Especially since there was no abuse from my end. 心里有鬼
jonn88
29-08-2021, 04:14 AM
Dun really miss my first love but sometimes I do have the urge to know how she is doing? No meet up as she might be fat and short now, I want to keep the beautiful memory till my death bed.
Datingafter35
07-09-2021, 08:28 PM
396167
Not exactly ideal husband material as he cheated on his gf when he was with me. He lied to me from day 1, else will not fall so deeply in love and got hurt eventually.
You must be really young. Rarely women will fall so deeply in love due to age.
BatamBro
27-09-2021, 02:27 AM
I do miss my ex, contact each other this year and she's been with that current guy for 5 years. she shares a lot about their relationship with me, say he cheated on her once then now changed this that. Recently he proposed to her and she told me "sorry we can't contact anymore" lol my heart sinked so bad.
I wished there's a way to hire a lady to help bait this guy with flirty messages so she can see for herself who this real junk of shit that she said yes to.
to all brothers here, I dedicate the song - still loving you by scorpions
1.9k cases liao, stay safe. cheers
Hunkydunky
27-09-2021, 08:46 AM
I do miss my ex, contact each other this year and she's been with that current guy for 5 years. she shares a lot about their relationship with me, say he cheated on her once then now changed this that. Recently he proposed to her and she told me "sorry we can't contact anymore" lol my heart sinked so bad.
I wished there's a way to hire a lady to help bait this guy with flirty messages so she can see for herself who this real junk of shit that she said yes to.
to all brothers here, I dedicate the song - still loving you by scorpions
1.9k cases liao, stay safe. cheers
Aiyah... this woman may not be good too.
She kept in contact with you.. so that you are her spare tyre. Now she's getting married...means confirm liao... that's why drop you totally.
BatamBro
27-09-2021, 07:51 PM
Unconditional love bah
Shadow_warrior
04-01-2022, 12:07 PM
For those nostalgic nights
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9cVzladjeRc
superkk
04-01-2022, 03:46 PM
i miss my last ex mainly coz she love sex. we did everything except anal and cum on face (but she let me CIM).
she is a petite girl (about 1.53 m), b cup and has a small waste (22") and nice hips + ass (30"). very nice body to hold and do various positions with. about 2 months into our relationship, she started shaving her public hair off because she likes the naked feeling and she says when the hair grows to a stubble, it feels itchy and she gets very horny.
she has a nice face but not the best teeth because her family couldn't afford braces and when she started working and could pay for her own, she opt out coz she is scared of pain. :rolleyes:
we fucked in cinema, fucked in her home, on her parent's bed, in her living room, in the bathroom, in my bathroom, everywhere in my room. came inside her, on her, once i pulled out and because i was edging myself for a while, shot unintentionally onto her face while in missionary.
i think our record for fucks in 1 day was 6 times. shoot until blank but still force to shoot then sore for the next few days but i got no rest as she wanted to fuck again 2 days later.
i am unsure was she addicted to sex or just wanted to use sex to control me (while enjoying the process). she also told me i was the first guy who made her cum thats why she became addicted. on days when we couldn't meet, she would masturbate. sometimes over the phone with me.
on the day we broke up (over the phone) she rushed over in a cab, budged into my room and wanted to fuck, spreading her legs showing her red lacey panties.
i said no and gave her money to go home.
we were together for about 4 years at that point, she was actually pressuring me when were we going to ROM when at that time, i just finished NS and was preparing for tertiary studies.
i don't miss her crazy antics but still do think of all the great sex we had. :p my story isn't uncommon... many guys have crazy a last girlfriend before finding a girl to settle down with. ;)
kave1215
05-01-2022, 06:56 PM
I miss fucking them, but don’t miss being with them. They are exes for a reason.
sbwow
05-01-2022, 09:11 PM
Mentally fuck her.
Went to X-ray her brain, saw a hole the size of a penis.
Apollo
05-01-2022, 09:32 PM
I miss fucking them, but don’t miss being with them. They are exes for a reason.
hahaha agree bro, good fuck bad fuck ...
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