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Robbie_williams
05-11-2007, 01:41 AM
Dear bros,

I'm sure this thought have crossed ur mind before...back in our grandmother days, our parents always tell us how important it is to keep our virginity and also abstain from sex with our partner till officially married.

Fast forward....I think this is now crap....I tell myself now that if I don't fuck my gal before marriage, she may run away and sleep with other guys and I lose out. But then I really do love her and want to treasure and respect her...so at times I think we should save our first time on our wedding night...

How about u bros...to fuck or not to fuck before marriage?

jdi813
21-11-2007, 12:04 AM
I dun agree with any of ur options ...

I will fuck my gf ... that is for certain ... but it is more to see if we are sexually compatible and not waste each others time if we are not ... better for all parties involved in my opinion

Idealist
21-11-2007, 12:12 AM
IMHO, i think i respect my gf decision. If we have sex, it will be a decision we make together. So I select why not as long as she agree.

asdfghjkl
21-11-2007, 12:55 AM
depends on both are single or players lor ~ know got some guys GF want but they dun want.. :o

lioll82
21-11-2007, 01:03 AM
For me,

i think nwadays u will be dead drunk on ur wedding night for sex.. anyway everyone have their needs when the needs arises, "Just Fuck It or Her"

Zero-Hero
21-11-2007, 01:05 AM
I like Nike's motto in this incident

JUST DO IT :D

~|@|~
21-11-2007, 12:32 PM
as long as both of you are adults, you can do anything you want. i think most girls these days are very open minded anyway ;)

Red_Tirak1099
21-11-2007, 03:50 PM
Reasons you should fuck 1st.....to put deposit, to try out goods, in case kena hijack.

asdfghjkl
21-11-2007, 04:00 PM
very liberal.. agreed! :p

juzjoin
22-11-2007, 03:39 PM
in tis liberal society, i doubt many will save it till their marriage. Be it after or b4 marriage wat counts is the chemistry behind when u r in the act. :D

Earthquake
22-11-2007, 03:57 PM
I never say NO to a bonk. As long as the girl agree and she pass my quality check :D

binbin81
22-11-2007, 04:20 PM
can't find reasons rejecting her if she is willing :)

Pokimon1
22-11-2007, 04:50 PM
If you don't fuck her, somebody else will!

Torch_Man
22-11-2007, 06:16 PM
I dun agree with any of ur options ...

I will fuck my gf ... that is for certain ... but it is more to see if we are sexually compatible and not waste each others time if we are not ... better for all parties involved in my opinion
i remember i read in newspaper sumwer dat a couple got divorce bcos 1 of d parties cannot satisfy another......

as written by sum bros, we muz b COMPATIBLE in MOST aspects.
sumthing like test-drive:
b4 buyin car, muz test d car performance lah, engine lah, seat comfort lah...........

agent
22-11-2007, 07:08 PM
I would rather fuck her first as soon as i get the chance to especially if she is a virgin, and not wait till wedding day... for all I know, she can fuck some other guy without me knowing between the day we are together and wedding night... so might as well fuck her first before someone else pop her cherry and end up u did not get to take her cherry because you thought she will save it for u till wedding night since u two are together already...like real in this day and age... where everything is becoming more and more full of lies and betrayals...

in the past can save, now forget about the saving part... just fuck while u can :)

Bounder
22-11-2007, 07:28 PM
Absolutely must test drive before buying. What if she turns out to be a useless fuck on wedding night?

shroom
26-11-2007, 01:58 AM
I will definitely fuck her.

If she is still virgin, I would not have any qualms about deflowering her.

Anyways ALWAYS test-drive before you buy. No test drive no buy.

I always encourage to shag before she becomes a gf.

Virginhell
29-11-2007, 01:37 AM
depends on both are single or players lor ~ know got some guys GF want but they dun want.. :o

Can intro me ur friends whose gf wanna fuck but the bf dun wan? Hmm....

Well, I got this best buddy of mine who totally respects his GF....he told me he wun violate her cux he simply love her too much. He wan to treasure her and their love...fast forward...his gf dumped him for another guy...she is probably humping away with her new bf as I'm typing this now....my best buddy? Well, he is kicking his own arse till date for not heeding my advice to fuck first.....always play safe and mark ur territory....just like a dog pissing on a lampost to mark his area...

Morale of the story: Always safeguard ur investment, go take a piss....

unsung80
29-11-2007, 09:38 PM
I would give a fuck first, the rest talk later. :cool:

hereiam
01-12-2007, 10:23 AM
If she is willing, I will have sex with her but must use CD to play safe :)

ael123
04-12-2007, 12:57 AM
It's a decision to make together. If she's willing and so are you, why not? Singapore is rapidly considered a liberal society, many couples have pre-material sex.

Resident Evil
04-12-2007, 01:09 AM
No point in saving i think. Unless its what the girl wants, then must respect her choice.

Junta
08-01-2008, 01:50 PM
wait till marriage? cannot tahan tat long bah...i will pop it pre marriage for sure

samLOW
09-01-2008, 06:10 PM
Previously, I stick by the 1st option - respect her & save for the wedding night.

thinking back, should have just let nature take its course & JUST DO IT! especially if she wants it, too.

LionGuy
25-01-2008, 11:28 AM
must bonk her first b4 marriage, cant wait so long leh :D

maia
25-01-2008, 05:30 PM
I believe nowadays, even if you willing to wait, the ger might not want to wait .. :D

But most likely I will be the one asking to pop her cherry as soon as possible, what for wait till marriage ..., hopefully within one month of knowing her :D

asdfghjkl
25-01-2008, 11:30 PM
one month? so fast ah! :p