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chezeburger
12-06-2007, 06:53 PM
hi ppl,

need your help here. i had sex with a indo wl yesterday and wore a condom for all my acts. i am very sure i did not had sex for the past 3 months before.

i could not get through any of the hotlines at this time. it has been only about 1 days since i finished my last sexual contact. so plz help.

from what i read, stds syntoms usually appear 10 days after. but now, i found a small dark red spot on my skin. it is just 1 by itself. it is not pain and not a bump. might be a bump, but just tat i could not felt it with my naked hands. it is located on the skin under my dick head. sorry i do not know the exact wording for it. it looks as if a blood clot. very dark red.

was pretty sure it was never there before. i am pretty worried. should i wait longer to see if it would go off ? or should i go see a doctor tml? normal clinic able to do the job?

Rof|maoxz
12-06-2007, 07:06 PM
hi ppl,

need your help here. i had sex with a indo wl yesterday and wore a condom for all my acts. i am very sure i did not had sex for the past 3 months before.


That WL muz be savouring hot curry before giving you heads. :D

Don't worry, maybe you are too heaty. Try one more time!!

chezeburger
12-06-2007, 07:16 PM
alamakz.. i am worried sick then u say i too hot.

i don't think it has anyting doing with me being heaty etc. my guess is either a std, skin tear or abrasion or wat. cuz i dont hav sex very often and my foreskin is pretty tight.

really need some advice here.

Screw Driver
13-06-2007, 09:17 AM
Best advise is go DSC...cheers

halsurfer
13-06-2007, 10:23 AM
Okay dude, just relax first. And read this.

After an encounter with a pro, or whichever girl that you might suspect that have some stds, tendancy is anxiety arise. As such, we start to inspect here there and everywhere for anything that seems abnormal. Since usually, we do not pay so much attention to our little precious, there's a 'surpisingly' high possibility for you to notice something. In fact, it might have been there before.

If it so happens that you pay so much attention and worship your little precious everyday, it might in fact be something new. Most of the time, some red bumps, rised dots whatever are the effects of friction, or some form of skin irritation. And anxiety issues can actually worsen the problem, either by imagining that things are really bad, or cause some stress hormones released, resulting in some worse effects there. More importantly, it might trigger diarrhoea, fever, night sweats and what. These are symptoms for stds, but wait, they are also symptoms for many other things. Such common ailments should not lead you to think that you have an std.

However, when it comes that it really becomes a sore, an ulcer which hurts and burst, that's when you should start worrying. What is done is done, only thing is to go to DSC, get diagnosis and confirm the disease. Don't bother reading online too much about the symptoms, unless like mentioned above of ulcers and painless sores. Minor bumps are nothing, and if they are something, the bumps will worsen. Stop worrying and take it easy, if there's anything go see a doctor, and let us know. Good luck to you.

My only advice is bonk with a condom, and always take a bath and wash your groin area thoroughly after sex.

Rof|maoxz
13-06-2007, 11:18 AM
Really need some advice here.

Maybe you are too paranoid lah... you first time having sex arh?

Too much friction inside can cause temporarily redness, so dun worry, be happy. :D

~|@|~
13-06-2007, 11:24 AM
alamakz.. i am worried sick then u say i too hot.

i don't think it has anyting doing with me being heaty etc. my guess is either a std, skin tear or abrasion or wat. cuz i dont hav sex very often and my foreskin is pretty tight.

really need some advice here.

Best advise is go DSC...cheers

nothing we say here can help you much.... best to see a doctor and put your worries to rest ;)

chezeburger
13-06-2007, 12:48 PM
thanks guys.

i guess lao jiao jiu shi lao jiao. i cnnt up your points cuz ppl also don't care about my frs. :)

today i check, it started to fade off liao. i guess is a small blood clot. i don't often have sex so my foreskin is pretty tight. well.. i think if i gt anyting wrong in the coming months, i will go see the doctor.

btw, i really appreciate your inputs. thanks hor!

TenSanYi
15-06-2007, 12:36 AM
That a fangal... don't worry very common when you didn't wash properly..

sadsea
21-06-2007, 04:38 PM
bro chezeburger, since u said the spot gone liao, believe should be "bruises" kind of thing cause by the inpact during intercause, at moment contiune safe sex, nice day

Midnightiger
21-06-2007, 05:13 PM
thanks guys.

i guess lao jiao jiu shi lao jiao. i cnnt up your points cuz ppl also don't care about my frs.

today i check, it started to fade off liao. i guess is a small blood clot. i don't often have sex so my foreskin is pretty tight. well.. i think if i gt anyting wrong in the coming months, i will go see the doctor.

btw, i really appreciate your inputs. thanks hor!

Yes, I think that's what you should do. :rolleyes:

"Guess this & Guess that and Guess all you want and HOPE that your guesses are right.

And if you got anything wrong in the coming months and it turns out to be STD, I sure there will be enough time for you to see a doctor before transmitting it to others or before your dick head drop off.

So you're definitely doing the right thing as better to be sorry than safe.:rolleyes:

My 2 cents worth.