Duped by a Sugar Babe without wanting to be SD

[unbelievable]

Bros,
Met this local girl about six months ago. After dinner and a drink on the first date, she just jumped into my taxi when I was going home. Hey a girl with a great rack and ass, what guy isn't going to complain that he'll soon be hitting that...hehe. Some good sex all night and left in the morning.
She didn't want to meet after that but about a month later she asked straight up for $2,000. I said no, go to the bank lol ,etc.
Then she contacted me a month later said she was in Bali and lost all her credit cards. So I helped her with a flight back home and she "promised" to pay me back. Anyway made sure to get her passport details, etc. in case any issues.
Anyway she then started asking for more money with sob stories that her family was "sick", photos of her in hospital, saying it is "urgent", etc., etc. and always "promise" to pay it back next month. Well I just wanted my money back so a couple hundred here and there is fine, sure I can afford it so don't care if I lose it.
Now finally she is asking me to come out to buy some item that she broke of her customer urgently tomorrow. I can't understand why an "Ang Mo" is the only person in all of Singapore that can help.
And of course I fully know well she is on Seeking Arrangement, I think her asking price is $5,000/month.
Question:
Do you think I'm being duped by a SB or she could really be in financial trouble?

[jerko121075]

If she has nothing against u, just ignore her. U are not gonna get anything back from her for sure!

[FreebiezWanker]

Urmm, so u had a free fuck n that was ok? How much can an airtix back from Bali cost? N u wanted that money back? Lol

[abovetheline]

Urmm, so u had a free fuck n that was ok? How much can an airtix back from Bali cost? N u wanted that money back? Lol

thats funny and true.....good points:D

[conquer]

Question: Do you think I'm being duped by a SB or she could really be in financial trouble?
Answer: Yes... and don't you angmoh be fooled again by a chicken! :o

[hondachongsg]

Urmm, so u had a free fuck n that was ok? How much can an airtix back from Bali cost? N u wanted that money back? Lol

+1

happy to get free sex..

after which, too stingy to give alittle money to help her out..

[fuckburger]

Ang Mo dua kee, must help, must help

[anikisan]

Bros,
Met this local girl about six months ago. After dinner and a drink on the first date, she just jumped into my taxi when I was going home. Hey a girl with a great rack and ass, what guy isn't going to complain that he'll soon be hitting that...hehe. Some good sex all night and left in the morning.
She didn't want to meet after that but about a month later she asked straight up for $2,000. I said no, go to the bank lol ,etc.
Then she contacted me a month later said she was in Bali and lost all her credit cards. So I helped her with a flight back home and she "promised" to pay me back. Anyway made sure to get her passport details, etc. in case any issues.
Anyway she then started asking for more money with sob stories that her family was "sick", photos of her in hospital, saying it is "urgent", etc., etc. and always "promise" to pay it back next month. Well I just wanted my money back so a couple hundred here and there is fine, sure I can afford it so don't care if I lose it.
Now finally she is asking me to come out to buy some item that she broke of her customer urgently tomorrow. I can't understand why an "Ang Mo" is the only person in all of Singapore that can help.
And of course I fully know well she is on Seeking Arrangement, I think her asking price is $5,000/month.
Question:
Do you think I'm being duped by a SB or she could really be in financial trouble?

hey man. first of all, i really do think that this typical spg is all out to dupe you. but hey, you got a free fuck all night, so, consider that as a barter trade lol. nevertheless, $5000 for a month to be her SD is fucking ridiculous...dhe she offer you raw and cum in pussy, to be your personal slut and to be at your beck and call, whenever u feel like it? anyway, girls like that are always available anywhere, not just in sg. forget about it, and move on.

[conquer]

hey man. first of all, i really do think that this typical spg is all out to dupe you. but hey, you got a free fuck all night, so, consider that as a barter trade lol. nevertheless, $5000 for a month to be her SD is fucking ridiculous...dhe she offer you raw and cum in pussy, to be your personal slut and to be at your beck and call, whenever u feel like it? anyway, girls like that are always available anywhere, not just in sg. forget about it, and move on.

You people keep mentioning about "free fuck". I double read the story over and over but I don't see nothing "free fuck". This angmoh probably has spent like few thousand to fuck a prostitute, how can this be considered a "free fuck"? :o

[I Love Boobs]

Ang mo men generally have big egos and Intelligence that is inversely proportional to the square of their ego.
This post is a classic case study, but will not be the last.

They are also miserly and genetically inferior.

[jennytan]

thats one expensive spg! :eek:

[unbelievable]

hahah ok guys true true valid points....I'm not sure about I Love Boobs reply but damn funny.
It was all in good fun. Was always wondering if she is genuine or just trying to play me....I made her work hard for that money anyway ;)

[Jebuschris91]

hahah ok guys true true valid points....I'm not sure about I Love Boobs reply but damn funny.
It was all in good fun. Was always wondering if she is genuine or just trying to play me....I made her work hard for that money anyway ;)

I've met similar women before, it's a case of both soft hearted(in a way). And her inability to differentiate.

You keep lending her because it's small amounts than one big sum, it doesn't hit you so hard until you think about it, by then it's alittle too late, you probably felt alittle connected? Is that why you kept lending? Like a tad of soft hearted-ness.

And the other problem lies with her, she may not generally be a bad person, but she has a tendency to take people for granted and don't know her boundaries in terms of over stepping other people's good graces.

Or like you said, she's just a fucked up person who knows what she's doing and keeps doing it.

You fucked her, yes. Then you helped her a few times(besides air ticket, you lent her a few other times)
Take it as repayment and stop.

I know a person like this, been burned before, and we also only did it twice.

Move on you white skinned bastard, take it as a lesson learned and stop contacting her.

There's a gentlemen's rule that most men should follow.
"Never get them gifts till you've fucked them"

[sanig]

Bros,
Question:
Do you think I'm being duped by a SB or she could really be in financial trouble?

As fellow ang moh, I see you joined SBF 2010 so you have been in SG about 6-7 years. I would have thought you would have had understanding of how to handle situations like this also I guess you need to calculate your monthly total for "fun" including meals, drinks, gifts etc. and then decide if deal good or no good. Just my 2 cents worth.

[Siriusam]

I've had a similiar experience with a SYT, like 19yo or something. Right after dinner she started to hold my hand. Then when we went for drinks at the top floor bar at Equinox, she started to french me right where we seated. She was very pretty and has nice boobs so it was hard to resist. I was quite embarrassed because we're doing it in full view of public. But she was very open and playful and I didn't even initiate any of those.

Fast forward couple of weeks later, we met regularly and I even spent the night at her place a few times. But fucking bitch always play hard to get. We would always pet but she never allowed me to fuck her. She is a fucking tease.

One night, she started to ask me to buy her stuff when we were out. Expensive shoes like Christian Louboutin those 3-4K per pair of shoe kind.. I said no. We came across Dior store and she wanted me to buy her a bag. I almost ended up buying her 'Lady Dior' bag which cost around 4-5K I think? She was very good with her coaxing skills. That night I ended buying her a Ferragamo shoes, normal kind, about $900.

After that we did meet for a couple more times but she continued her flirting tricks to get me to buy her stuff. By then I started using my head to think than my dick.. I know it's time to call this off and tell her to fuck off. But mind you, she was one of the prettiest SYT I've met, great boobs, slim, very flirty and very good with her seducing looks. Of course when I told her I'm calling the "relationship" off, she went crying and begging me not to leave and act like damn poor thing. Wah, I must say she is really good man, I have to give it to her.

But I was clear in my head I have to let her go. Cuz I know she's just toying with me and playing hard to get all the time. I mean we even got together naked in her room many times but I still haven't got to fuck her? Felt like a joke and this cannot go on.

Too bad I deleted her contact, if not can share with you bros here. Haiz, regret never save her contact lol.. But then again, you also don't want to mess with her lah. Hate these fucking hard to get whores. Damn angry even thinking back about this. :mad:

[FreebiezWanker]

One night, she started to ask me to buy her stuff when we were out. Expensive shoes like Christian Louboutin those 3-4K per pair of shoe kind.. I said no. We came across Dior store and she wanted me to buy her a bag. I almost ended up buying her 'Lady Dior' bag which cost around 4-5K I think? She was very good with her coaxing skills. That night I ended buying her a Ferragamo shoes, normal kind, about $900.



I would buy her the shoes, AFTER i fucked her. :D

[YakunBoy]

Likely you are being dupped as a carrot head. Tried telling her something like you recently lost big time in stocks and have to be budget for the next 6 months. Likely that she will move on to her next victim.

Having said that, unless you can afford that 5k a month and granted she is worth every penny of that. For myself. I put aside just a couple or few hundred bucks to visit my regular FL once or twice every one or two months and im happy with that.

To each his own.

[3someking]

I've had a similiar experience with a SYT, like 19yo or something. Right after dinner she started to hold my hand. Then when we went for drinks at the top floor bar at Equinox, she started to french me right where we seated. She was very pretty and has nice boobs so it was hard to resist. I was quite embarrassed because we're doing it in full view of public. But she was very open and playful and I didn't even initiate any of those.

Fast forward couple of weeks later, we met regularly and I even spent the night at her place a few times. But fucking bitch always play hard to get. We would always pet but she never allowed me to fuck her. She is a fucking tease.

One night, she started to ask me to buy her stuff when we were out. Expensive shoes like Christian Louboutin those 3-4K per pair of shoe kind.. I said no. We came across Dior store and she wanted me to buy her a bag. I almost ended up buying her 'Lady Dior' bag which cost around 4-5K I think? She was very good with her coaxing skills. That night I ended buying her a Ferragamo shoes, normal kind, about $900.

After that we did meet for a couple more times but she continued her flirting tricks to get me to buy her stuff. By then I started using my head to think than my dick.. I know it's time to call this off and tell her to fuck off. But mind you, she was one of the prettiest SYT I've met, great boobs, slim, very flirty and very good with her seducing looks. Of course when I told her I'm calling the "relationship" off, she went crying and begging me not to leave and act like damn poor thing. Wah, I must say she is really good man, I have to give it to her.

But I was clear in my head I have to let her go. Cuz I know she's just toying with me and playing hard to get all the time. I mean we even got together naked in her room many times but I still haven't got to fuck her? Felt like a joke and this cannot go on.

Too bad I deleted her contact, if not can share with you bros here. Haiz, regret never save her contact lol.. But then again, you also don't want to mess with her lah. Hate these fucking hard to get whores. Damn angry even thinking back about this. :mad:

you should post her photo here and let the world see.

[Siriusam]

I would buy her the shoes, AFTER i fucked her. :D

TBH I would have bought her the Lady Dior bag if I had fucked her before. She could be my FB or SB or whatever but no.. bitch play hard to get.


you should post her photo here and let the world see.

I removed all her traces from my life. Actually I did have her photos in my phone in a hidden folder but kana found out by my wife. So they're gone now also. Sian..

But at least wife doesn't know about her. She thought I just saved some random photos from tumblr hahaha.

[francined69]

in local terms you are called Robert

[YakunBoy]

in local terms you are called Robert

Well said!

[Ladyrain]

Men these days.
Dinner and drinks and expect so much..
Sweet young thing somemore.. .
Am wondering..
Are you men that good looking and young to begin with?
With great bods?
Otherwise isn't it fair as it being compensative?

[maxman]

Bros,
Met this local girl about six months ago. After dinner and a drink on the first date, she just jumped into my taxi when I was going home. Hey a girl with a great rack and ass, what guy isn't going to complain that he'll soon be hitting that...hehe. Some good sex all night and left in the morning.
She didn't want to meet after that but about a month later she asked straight up for $2,000. I said no, go to the bank lol ,etc.
Then she contacted me a month later said she was in Bali and lost all her credit cards. So I helped her with a flight back home and she "promised" to pay me back. Anyway made sure to get her passport details, etc. in case any issues.
Anyway she then started asking for more money with sob stories that her family was "sick", photos of her in hospital, saying it is "urgent", etc., etc. and always "promise" to pay it back next month. Well I just wanted my money back so a couple hundred here and there is fine, sure I can afford it so don't care if I lose it.
Now finally she is asking me to come out to buy some item that she broke of her customer urgently tomorrow. I can't understand why an "Ang Mo" is the only person in all of Singapore that can help.
And of course I fully know well she is on Seeking Arrangement, I think her asking price is $5,000/month.
Question:
Do you think I'm being duped by a SB or she could really be in financial trouble?

Sex is rarely, if not never, really free. Almost every man will pay for it someway or somehow, before or after.

Payment could be the dinner, drinks, flowers, and the joy ride in your sports car before sex, or the designer handbag, shoes or jewelry after sex, and in some cases, the legally mandated child support ordered by the court.

Even the cheapest cost to the man could be a condom or the morning-after pill to ensure you do not get hammered with nearly 2 decades of child support.