Which is better? Single or Marry?

[Ngengheng]

Which is better?Be Single or Marry? State your reasons for it.

[maxsee]

Single is definitely better unless you want kids and you are not rich enough to get woman to bear kids for you without marriage ... Else it is really pointless to get married .... especially with woman charter and the extra burden you have to shoulder after marriage .... :D:D:D

[Ngengheng]

But there is a saying....will be very lonely when old....nobody gonna take care of you...

[maxsee]

No guarantee the woman will take care of you when you are old...And also who take care of who also hard to say...End of the day, if you are rich enough....you can always hire helper to take care of yourself la...:D:D:D

[Ngengheng]

True...Modern woman don't even knows how to cook and wash how we going to expect them to take care of the hubby.....Heard some wife dump their husband into aged home when the husband real sick.

[topcook1]

Standard Marriage Vows (ROM)



Do I understand that you __________________ and you ________________ are here of your own free will for the purpose of becoming man and wife?
Couple answer together: Yes


To Bridegroom
Will you, __________________ take this woman ______________ to be your wedded wife, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love her, comfort her, honour and keep her in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to her, so long as you both shall live?
Answer: I will

To Bride
Will you, _________________ take this man _________________ to be your wedded husband, to live together in the ligal estate of matrimony? Will you love him, comfort him, honour and keep him in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to him, so long as you both shall live?
Answer: I will


Guess many of the vows has broken .....when comes to conflict and divorce..all are forgotten.

[JeanReNo]

True...Modern woman don't even knows how to cook and wash how we going to expect them to take care of the hubby.....Heard some wife dump their husband into aged home when the husband real sick.

That is why it is better to be single.

[WiseOldCat]

single, play for life

[sunhuan-con]

Single very lonely leh...

[wolverman]

That is why it is better to be single.

+10 returned with tks..:)

[S4896E]

Single is lonely life

[yangguo]

Of course it's marriage. Here are the few reasons:

1. I get to eat delicious home cooked food prepared by my wife very now and then.
2. We are the proud parents of our little cute and pretty daughter
3. We get together to celebrate our birthday as a family every year
4, There are many more happy reasons.. :D:p

[maxsee]

If you want to choose single life ... make sure you r loaded ... you won't feel lonely if that is so ... :D:D:D

[sunhuan-con]

If you want to choose single life ... make sure you r loaded ... you won't feel lonely if that is so ... :D:D:D

Nowadays married life needs money too. No money will end up in divorce.:D

[wolverman]

I still chose married life. But no need children. :o:)

[jon2000sg]

single can fuck around ! :p

[surbana]

Single has no commitment and stress...Loneliness is just a disease.

[Kuan Aik Hong]

If wanna drink milk , drink outside and dont bring a cow back....

[PPGirl]

There is no right or wrong or better or worst answer.
Depends on which stage or how u want ur life to be.
If u want to have more freedom/no curfew of coz single is better.
If u want someone to cook or do hsehold chores for u n yet dun want to get marry then hire a maid better :D

[wtf94]

Single of course :D

[is not enuff]

After ANALysing the difference

Marriage- (If you can manage ur finances and your loved ones)
Pros-
1)Support- can rely on your partner/children when the going gets tough
2)Family activities-Never lonely if big family, having fun,etc
3)Passionate raw sex
Cons-
1)Expensive to bear and nurture children
2)Limited time to spend with family due to work commitments,child's schooling, cannot go on holiday whenever you feel like it etc.
3)Onegina

Marriage- (If you fuck it up)
Pros-
0)None
Cons-
1)No Support- cannot rely on your partner/children when the going gets tough.
2)Lonely even though having a Family, everybody do their own shit.
3)Expensive to bear and nurture children
4)Limited time to spend with family due to work commitments,child's schooling etc.
5) Women's charter- pay for pussy you can't fuck(till she remarries or either one of you die)

Single-(If you can manage ur finances)
Pros-
1)Support-Enough savings to hire help when the going gets tough-Old age,sickness,etc.
2)Money-More expendable income due to less commitments
3)Companionship-Can hire different escorts each time you feel lonely
4)Freedom -More time to do the things you want,anytime you want
5)Sex on a menu- Browse thru SBF when looking for next pussy to fuck.
Cons-
1)Limited raw sex

Single-(If you are broke)
Pros-
1)Freedom
Cons-
1)No Support-no savings to hire help when the going gets tough-Old age,sickness,etc.
2)No Money-No fun
3)No money-No honey
4)Sex on a menu- Petain or desker road
5)Limited raw sex

Summary:
Being married or single is like a difficulty choice in a game, high risk high reward.

Harder to manage finances and the hearts of your loved ones,but if you can pull it off, you are better off than a successful person whom is single.

However if you fuck up your life, its better to be single than to be married.

But for me i view it in a simple manner-"eat the same meal for breakfast,lunch and dinner everyday until death do us part? I rather have a menu"

[Triple70]

Being single or married is a legal status.

Can be single and have a permanent companion.
This is the best of both worlds, if can find a like minded companion.

Such an arrangement will ensure nobody takes each other for granted, and will treasure each other more. Can live lives exactly like a married couple.

Old age need not be lonely if ppl have the correct mindset. Many old ppl are lonely simply because they are impossible to live with. Forever expect others to serve them, got CB mouth, frustrated, naggy etc.

Sg ppl need to learn from the humble and independent Japs!

[discordpiggy]

3)Onegina

Russell Peters FTW!

because govt reward married with LOTS of tax subsidies or incentives, otherwise there is no need to get married. having a companion and constantly in love is good... but unfortunately govt REWARD marrieds and tax single 10x more. singles are for married people to use them both in married affairs (to be xiao san end up single get hurt for both single male/female) and monetary sense (pay more tax).

so whats the point of being single with freedom?!

be married and can abuse single people! isn't this best of both worlds?! lols!

:D:p

[Botakhead]

MBA, married but available, just dun hurt any one knowingly. Eat outside, keep low profile, end of day goes home to your partner, never neglect your loved ones, just spread your love around evenly. Micro-manage your lifestyle, you still can feel like a single when you're married.

[Kuan Aik Hong]

MBA, married but available, just dun hurt any one knowingly. Eat outside, keep low profile, end of day goes home to your partner, never neglect your loved ones, just spread your love around evenly. Micro-manage your lifestyle, you still can feel like a single when you're married.

But very stressful.....need to lie everytime....

[maxsee]

Marriage is like a commitment between two parties...If you want to get married, best not to fool around outside...After all how would you feel if you find out your spouse cheating behind your back....:D:D:D

[Botakhead]

But very stressful.....need to lie everytime....

This is a very dangerous game, need luck all the time, need skill to be honed well in order to execute the 'job' accurately without making a stupid blundering mistake. Telling lies and being honest all worked into one big equation, end result is to be happy and alive, without causing hurt to anyone and enjoy life at it's best.

Not easy to actually carry it out, James Bond also need a lot of training to becum a top agent.

[Botakhead]

Marriage is like a commitment between two parties...If you want to get married, best not to fool around outside...After all how would you feel if you find out your spouse cheating behind your back....:D:D:D

If you want to eat outside, also must be big hearted to allow your partner to eat out too. If you want everything to yourself, that is selfish on your part.

If you are sincere and faithful, your partner eats outside without you knowing, will you get suspicious?

[sunhuan-con]

At this current modern society ,human has change alot and no longer like past generations whereby marriage is a life time guarantee. Be it guys or gals the mentality has change and both are equally selfish . There is no perseverance and patient . My point is to stay single and dont have much stress .

[dap26]

For me, i prefer single;)

[Luger]

Being single is usually more advantageous compared to being married. Marriage is only better only if you have found your perfect match.

[Triple70]

Being single is usually more advantageous compared to being married. Marriage is only better only if you have found your perfect match.

The problem is.. over time.. does that "perfect match" remain "the perfect match" eternally.

We all evolve over time. Nothing is constant. Is whether that partner evolves together, or starts to boss over the spouse.

[R32wanfun]

Nowadays married life needs money too. No money will end up in divorce.:D

Very true...... Even during the dating time, once we (men) are broke, most of the woman will definately leave us..... The reason they ( women) gives is No Securities.... (So sorry to offen all the sis here)

[sunhuan-con]

True indeed , in this modern society money is always 走在前面. No matter how handsome or honest you are , guys still need money to maintain a relationship. No woman would likes to suffer with the guys, times has change.

[ThunderMonkey]

If you enjoy your freedom,Marriage.
In the long run,no one wants to die lonely.
Most of us live for our family and children.
But in the current times,everything seems to be a gamble.

[topcook1]

If you enjoy your freedom,Marriage.
In the long run,no one wants to die lonely.
Most of us live for our family and children.
But in the current times,everything seems to be a gamble.

True..now things come fast and go fast...changes are very fast.

[sunhuan-con]

Both are suffering......which one is more?

[makop]

Single wouldn't need to come out and play if it is better, be it due to lust or whatever reason. At the end of the day it you need someone to satisfy you then single probably is not the best option.

[Captainoceania77]

Woman charter too strong.....

[Sentguy]

i think Single will said married better
Married will say single better
grass is always greener on the other side!
according to my nonsense theory, 2/3 of bro in this thread who voted are married :D

[thanos69]

voted single

[Rocode]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UJth_8gEiLg

[mankomanko]

Married - If your wife earns more than you. Independent but still need your mojo from time to time.

I admire my ex-colleague as he and his wife make frequent trips to BKK and the wife will order a 3some for him at their regular hangout joint. His wife accepts men are always looking for different fishes so why not join in the act?

Single - You may only want to play for so long until it's time to settle down if you could find that partner.

Most of my friends who were married but divorced would tell me they want to stay single again.....

[surbana]

Single is lonely life

Lonely is better than with a wrong partner....

[Soul_Reaper]

Woman charter too strong.....

True... very true.
And now with the amendments it has become even more powerful! :mad:

F U * K

T H E

W O M E N S

C H A R T E R ! ! :mad:

[mars2000]

hole is always stronger than the dick:(

[ChangeOfOrders]

hole is always stronger than the dick:(

Very true indeed bro :(

[maxsee]

Marriage is only better if you can find the other half that compliment you and is supportive of the things you do....Otherwise singlehood is definitely way much more better....:D:D:D

[surbana]

To be marry can be describe like drink driving.....take the risk and hope not to get caught..If not ready for commitments better stay out of marriage and remain single.

[Elfi]

To be marry can be describe like drink driving.....take the risk and hope not to get caught..If not ready for commitments better stay out of marriage and remain single.

Very well put bro ;)

[Destruction]

I cast my vote on single.

No worries and no commitment. Do what you want.

Living expenses in sg is also very high.

[FortuneCats]

I cast my vote on single.

No worries and no commitment. Do what you want.

Living expenses in sg is also very high.

Same thoughts here as well