fetish that went wrong.

[valentinoG]

Feel so heart broken. After reading from so many threads wanted to spice up our sex life so asked him to engage in a fb. But now things got into true feelings n messy. End up I feel hurt and broken I think I lost my husband. . . To his fb... my fetish actually killed my marriage. . Any advice from brothers n sisters here to salvage the relationship?

[maddog_mlvn]

TS pls tell us more of how this happen.

[2centsworth]

Played with fire and got burnt? Now you asked him if he is willing to be your FB and try to win him back?

[Nonteeruk2553]

What happen ?

[nuclearkid]

It's probably a passing phase with the new FB. New things are always fun to play with until it isn't, then people return to the familiar. Hang in there till then...

[acidicavex]

Care to elaborate more....?

What did u mean ask him engage with a fb?
He engage u watching beside?
He engage with fb n u in 3some?
He engage and come back tell u stories ?

[yangguo]

An eye for an eye..

Go find a fb for yourself and make him feel the same pain.

You may be able to win him back if he feels the same way as you.

On the other hand, you know he is gone if he does not feel anything for you.

If the outcome is the 2nd scenario, then it's time to move on.

[skids]

Hi hi btw, confusing..... fb will always be fb, can't develop feelings deeper than wife, look over a brighter side, it's easier for a woman to win back a man's heart than vice versa.

[comm]

what went wrong ??

maybe u tried FFM and now your husband like the other female ??

[SP2010]

Have he got any feelings for you in the first place, that's why you need to
spice up yr sex life ? Look how fast he spiced up his .

[francined69]

Agree let him get tired of FB and he'll come back

Do describe FB to us.

[prettymannequin]

You fucked up. Whatever the FB does, do it better.

[Summerhillt]

You fucked up. Whatever the FB does, do it better.

Hahahha!! So mean! :D

[prettymannequin]

Hahahha!! So mean! :D

Hahahah not mean, just too blunt.

Haiya okay la, sayang TS la. You can feel heartbroken but stay strong okay. Why do you think your husband prefers the other lady? What does she provide him that you don't? He's your husband afterall, make him remember why he chose you. Good luck babe. x

[Ashbirdy]

You fucked up. Whatever the FB does, do it better.

Agreed:D:D

[valentinoG]

To all bros in sbf pls state what must a "good fuck" possess? Then I know where I stand. And if he had real feelings for her.

[yandaodr]

Get a hot FB and purposely let him bump into u 2 doing the deed. See if he is jealous at all, you will know if the marriage is save able.

[btblue8]

Do you feel up to it to give more details of how it happened and how things escalated? I cannot quite catch the had or tail of it but only the gist of it..

[DemonicSS]

Hi TS,

Well, there is some truth that we would need to understand more to what happened between you and your husband to better advise you, but based on what you said, perhaps I could provide some pointers:

1) Alot of our culture is ingrained in us - dating is one of them as we were told to only date/be with 1 person only - marry him or her, fuck and get a kid or a bunch of them, grow old and die, so we often have problems ourselves distinguishing the difference between a FB and a relationship. So set boundaries of what you will allow your hubby and FB to do. for example things like - no public displays of affection... no kissing..etc... You must also remember that you ALLOW him to play, and not give free rein to do whatever he wants to do, so make it that he would always need to ask for your permission.

2) I can't quite comment for others, but for me, having just 1 person is abit dull at times and will sometimes think of some grass being greener on the other side of the fence - it adds variety..say around 90% my partner and 10% FB. But if your hubby is fucking FB like 95% of her and only 5% of you for a long time, then I think that you didn't have any communications with him in the first place and you will need to start talking to him in an open manner to find out why.

If things are really bad.... then:

3) In this situation, if he really were to leave you for his FB, I know you will be sad but take comfort that if this is to be so, then the relationship with him was just a question of when rather than a question of what you could have/would have done to avoid it.

Hope this will help you.

[BiRd13]

Somehow I feel that TS is the same person as Cassiechaplin. Another who posted about having 'weird fetish' previously in another section/thread. Best is that both having same issue over it recently :)

Anyway, like I mentioned in that thread. Human are emotional creature, and will tend to have feeling as times goes. That is common.
Which is why some will ask...

What is the worst case?
1) You found out your partner have a ons/prostitute
2) You found out your partner have a FB

[EnigmaofSorrow]

IMHO, if the husband was willing to fulfill the wife's fetish by having a FB, it probably means he would do anything to make his wife happy.

What could have happened here is probably there were no ground rules set before hand.

I guess having a FB while being married was merely something TS wanted to experience, perhaps for one time or on a short term basis, what she didn't realise was that there is a very real possibility that the husband didn't know the limits.

Probably why most married/attached persons seeking FBs are discreet.

Or perhaps, the FB really did everything better.

[EnigmaofSorrow]

Somehow I feel that TS is the same person as Cassiechaplin. Another who posted about having 'weird fetish' previously in another section/thread. Best is that both having same issue over it recently :)

Anyway, like I mentioned in that thread. Human are emotional creature, and will tend to have feeling as times goes. That is common.
Which is why some will ask...

What is the worst case?
1) You found out your partner have a ons/prostitute
2) You found out your partner have a FB

How about finding out your partner had a ons who became a FB?

[bg102]

TS why don't you play with them (3P)? perhaps this will expose more to the situation!

[acidicavex]

Somehow I feel that TS is the same person as Cassiechaplin. Another who posted about having 'weird fetish' previously in another section/thread. Best is that both having same issue over it recently :)

Anyway, like I mentioned in that thread. Human are emotional creature, and will tend to have feeling as times goes. That is common.
Which is why some will ask...

What is the worst case?
1) You found out your partner have a ons/prostitute
2) You found out your partner have a FB


Now that u mention sound the same.:confused:

[BiRd13]

How about finding out your partner had a ons who became a FB?

Haha. The main is actually if the girl can accept a one affair kind, rather than a long term wise.

Reason mainly for ons/prostitute, it doesn't involve feeling, and is like fuck and go kind.

While for FB, it's usually from friends, and both click which thus became FB. So most of the time, there will be feeling involve.

Now that u mention sound the same.:confused:

As above :)

[EnigmaofSorrow]

Haha. The main is actually if the girl can accept a one affair kind, rather than a long term wise.

Reason mainly for ons/prostitute, it doesn't involve feeling, and is like fuck and go kind.

While for FB, it's usually from friends, and both click which thus became FB. So most of the time, there will be feeling involve.



As above :)

Haha. I was thinking more on the lines of the female has an ons who then becomes a fb. Would the guy be able to accept then?

[BiRd13]

Haha. I was thinking more on the lines of the female has an ons who then becomes a fb. Would the guy be able to accept then?

Haha. I think most are selfish (Or perhaps me)

Guy can find fb/ons/prostitute, but when found out by their partner, will ask for forgiveness and promise not to again.

But if gf find fb/ons/gigolo, and when found out by their partner, will break up :D

[prettymannequin]

To all bros in sbf pls state what must a "good fuck" possess? Then I know where I stand. And if he had real feelings for her.

Have you read any of the stories in this forum? Whatever the bros write, especially those that are obviously fiction, they're pretty good fucks lol.

[EnigmaofSorrow]

Haha. I think most are selfish (Or perhaps me)

Guy can find fb/ons/prostitute, but when found out by their partner, will ask for forgiveness and promise not to again.

But if gf find fb/ons/gigolo, and when found out by their partner, will break up :D

Well said bro.

Unfortunately, that's what usually happens in general. There's always the odd one out.

[EnigmaofSorrow]

Have you read any of the stories in this forum? Whatever the bros write, especially those that are obviously fiction, they're pretty good fucks lol.

A good fuck is when both parties thoroughly enjoy each other, and there's only each other on their minds.

And yes, the majority of the stories depict good fucks. Perhaps the writers are good fucks too... :D

[prettymannequin]

A good fuck is when both parties thoroughly enjoy each other, and there's only each other on their minds.

And yes, the majority of the stories depict good fucks. Perhaps the writers are good fucks too... :D

No writers here would depict themselves otherwise. You would know. :p

[BiRd13]

No writers here would depict themselves otherwise. You would know. :p

I think it's common...

A writer will never write how bad he/she is... But will only write how good he/she is :)

[EnigmaofSorrow]

No writers here would depict themselves otherwise. You would know. :p

I think it's common...

A writer will never write how bad he/she is... But will only write how good he/she is :)

Haha... I don't know.... lol. With my writing range, it's very possible to write myself out to be a short, ugly, micro-penised premature ejaculator...

Hiding behind a computer, nobody would ever know... :D

[BiRd13]

Haha... I don't know.... lol. With my writing range, it's very possible to write myself out to be a short, ugly, micro-penised premature ejaculator...

Hiding behind a computer, nobody would ever know... :D

That's right! No one will actually write about himself having PE... or stuff like that... Or he can only go for 1 round etc...

In fact, usually will write like can last for very long (in real maybe few thrust...) and can go for many rounds (In real maybe 1 round...) etc etc...

[EnigmaofSorrow]

That's right! No one will actually write about himself having PE... or stuff like that... Or he can only go for 1 round etc...

In fact, usually will write like can last for very long (in real maybe few thrust...) and can go for many rounds (In real maybe 1 round...) etc etc...

Lol.

I got a small dick and shoot within a few thrusts...

There! Written!

Haha....

[BiRd13]

Lol.

I got a small dick and shoot within a few thrusts...

There! Written!

Haha....

u try write story on that... very rare will have good response..haha...

[EnigmaofSorrow]

u try write story on that... very rare will have good response..haha...

Sounds challenging...

but my recent story is fiction, response isn't very good either. Lol.

no real stories for now...

[Soignie]

An eye for an eye..

Go find a fb for yourself and make him feel the same pain.

You may be able to win him back if he feels the same way as you.

On the other hand, you know he is gone if he does not feel anything for you.

If the outcome is the 2nd scenario, then it's time to move on.

An eye for an eye usually results in blindness. Be the first to forgive and if that doesn't work then take the high road and move on, payback usually does more harm to the payee than to the debtor.