How to ask him to go down on me longer?

[royaling]

Hi guys, during foreplay with my boyfriend i will always be the one who do most of the foreplay and he will just finger me and go down for a while then the main event starts.. But i have no idea how to tell him to stay down longer because i'm kinda shy.. And sometimes when its over, he doesn't make me come and I will have to masturbate myself to feel satisfied.. Any idea how to tell or show him i want him to go down longer on me?

[mcyeoh]

Hi guys, during foreplay with my boyfriend i will always be the one who do most of the foreplay and he will just finger me and go down for a while then the main event starts.. But i have no idea how to tell him to stay down longer because i'm kinda shy.. And sometimes when its over, he doesn't make me come and I will have to masturbate myself to feel satisfied.. Any idea how to tell or show him i want him to go down longer on me?
you can just place your hands on his head or hands and push it slightly down to your genitals just to signal him as to you like it and he will oblige. you can also moan softly and feed him dirty words as to say you like it... just some positive reinforcement that will do.

[Wintermelontea]

are there any relation between yours and this thread > http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=430752


if you are shy..hmm...both of you just became an item? or, didn't make out much?

doesn't matter.

just dim the lights and don't look at him when you are requesting for more of whatever stuff you wanted from him...if he asked you to look at him to repeat your request, do it seductively + the shy part. i guess he will be more than willing to give it to you.

[IwantbustyKim]

Hi guys, during foreplay with my boyfriend i will always be the one who do most of the foreplay and he will just finger me and go down for a while then the main event starts.. But i have no idea how to tell him to stay down longer because i'm kinda shy.. And sometimes when its over, he doesn't make me come and I will have to masturbate myself to feel satisfied.. Any idea how to tell or show him i want him to go down longer on me?

Incentivize him with ANAL? maybe he will go longer? hehe:D

[WithoutEuu]

Why not just say "B, can lick longer mah?"

[unsung80]

Let me go down on you then. :D

[Fat Fatt]

Let me go down on you then. :D

Wah, bro u r fast man, I also want to volunteer.

TS, learn how to separate love from lust. U love your bf, continue to be with him. You have your needs which one boy alone may not satisfy.

Let a few of us bros in SBF satisfy you weekly to quench your lust and you can continue your BGR. Confirm shiok as the bros here all well trained

[Weiwei88]

I on auto mode . I will go down for u as long as u like ! Pm me! Haha

[(o)(o) Tuner]

When he is eating your abalone, just hold his head with your hands as long as you can :D

[BedekzapKing05]

I will guide u if we meet.

[chnhubby71]

Make more moaning sound or grab his head to tell him that you enjoy what he did to you and that will keeps him stay down there longer for you to enjoy his oral on you.

[diputs1269]

Make more moaning sound or grab his head to tell him that you enjoy what he did to you and that will keeps him stay down there longer for you to enjoy his oral on you.

Right move, if you are too shy to ask for more then this is what happenning to you right now :D
Btw, l love to go down there and enjoy being rewarded with the flowing juice, oishi. :)

[mcyeoh]

Wah, bro u r fast man, I also want to volunteer.

TS, learn how to separate love from lust. U love your bf, continue to be with him. You have your needs which one boy alone may not satisfy.

Let a few of us bros in SBF satisfy you weekly to quench your lust and you can continue your BGR. Confirm shiok as the bros here all well trained
pathetic Singaporean, why cant get enough girls due to your incompetence social skills..no wonder fucked up new generation Singaporean guy are diss by your own local girls which they choose white guys like us...pathetic.........are singpaorean guys that incompetent and that fucked up...pathetic Singaporean...small-dick inferiority complex.

[D-joker]

Right move, if you are too shy to ask for more then this is what happenning to you right now :D
Btw, l love to go down there and enjoy being rewarded with the flowing juice, oishi. :)

Totally agree. Be more vocal. Tel him u like it whenever he does that, moan out loud, touch his head, teach him n guide him how u want him to lick u and when he did it right, praise him... Encourage him. And after sex, give him a review of what u like when u guys r doing it juz nw...

For me. 1hr of sex usually consist of 40mins of foreplay b4 and after sex. LOL... Meaning 30mins foreplay, 20mins real action, 10mins foreplay again.. Lol...

[ah rat]

When he is eating your abalone, just hold his head with your hands as long as you can :D

Wait he suffocate :D

[justwanadoit]

Hi guys, during foreplay with my boyfriend i will always be the one who do most of the foreplay and he will just finger me and go down for a while then the main event starts.. But i have no idea how to tell him to stay down longer because i'm kinda shy.. And sometimes when its over, he doesn't make me come and I will have to masturbate myself to feel satisfied.. Any idea how to tell or show him i want him to go down longer on me?


Try yoplait yoghurt.... it's quite good

[Taisho75]

When he is eating your abalone, just hold his head with your hands as long as you can :D

I second to that. If u shy to say it, action speaks louder than words. It works for me, I believe it will work for u. It would be better if u tell him not to stop working the spot u want. Just remember not to push his face too near ur spot for too long, give him a breather once a while. If he finger u, just use ur hand to hold his when he hit the right spot, then say in a horny tone" baby, I love it when u touch there. Can u touch it longer?.

if all these fail, its time to change a better bf who knows how to service u. :)

[wildromper]

Stop going down on him hahaha if he ask, thats ur chance

[Icecreamsoda]

Why don't u consider having a meal for two and do a 69 ? I am sure he will make the effort to go as long as u don't stop :D

[Lucifersangel]

Hi guys, during foreplay with my boyfriend i will always be the one who do most of the foreplay and he will just finger me and go down for a while then the main event starts.. But i have no idea how to tell him to stay down longer because i'm kinda shy.. And sometimes when its over, he doesn't make me come and I will have to masturbate myself to feel satisfied.. Any idea how to tell or show him i want him to go down longer on me?

I know right? My bf does that too. he only goes down on me once in a blue moon. I am clean, I don't smell and I am shaven. But he just don't do it. He love oral only when I do it on him. I guess we just need to change bf. If they are so one sided and can't make us CUm why date them? Some guys are just like that. They only want sex and can't be bothered if girl Cum or not. They want oral but won't give it. He can cum 4-5 time while I get nothing. :mad:

[ah rat]

I know right? My bf does that too. he only goes down on me once in a blue moon. I am clean, I don't smell and I am shaven. But he just don't do it. He love oral only when I do it on him. I guess we just need to change bf. If they are so one sided and can't make us CUm why date them? Some guys are just like that. They only want sex and can't be bothered if girl Cum or not. They want oral but won't give it. He can cum 4-5 time while I get nothing. :mad:

Sis,I love to lick pussy :p :D

[timewarp]

I am clean, I don't smell and I am shaven. But he just don't do it.

Guys who don't dive, don't know gourmet.

[Lucifersangel]

Sis,I love to lick pussy :p :D

Wah. Ah rat bro is offering ley. A lot.of sis here would be very glad to offer their's to u^.~

[ah rat]

Wah. Ah rat bro is offering ley. A lot.of sis here would be very glad to offer their's to u^.~

I offer u only :p

[chnhubby71]

As for me, I always stay longer down there when the gal's response with moaning sound and leg gripping. It encourage me to go longer and make them cum.

[wildromper]

I know right? My bf does that too. he only goes down on me once in a blue moon. They only want sex and can't be bothered if girl Cum or not. They want oral but won't give it. He can cum 4-5 time while I get nothing. :mad:

Selfish pricks. (Pun intended.)

[Icecreamsoda]

I know right? My bf does that too. he only goes down on me once in a blue moon. I am clean, I don't smell and I am shaven. But he just don't do it. He love oral only when I do it on him. I guess we just need to change bf. If they are so one sided and can't make us CUm why date them? Some guys are just like that. They only want sex and can't be bothered if girl Cum or not. They want oral but won't give it. He can cum 4-5 time while I get nothing. :mad:

That's what I call an one-sided affair :cool:

[BiRd13]

IMportant is still communication...

You have to tell him how you feel...

[wally888]

Do 69, make sure u BJ him BBBJ stop, he'll oso eat u till u wet wet :D :D

If your BJ skills not good I can show u how to improve ;)

[vkumar]

Make sure you keep yourself clean and good smell... If it smells good and looks good, it will taste good and any man will love a clean juicy honey pot... While he is down there mention to him that it feels so good and that you love it and no one has ever made you feel like that!!! All men want to make their woman happy and satisfied!!!

[purepulp]

Guys go through that phase when they are young. Too impatient to get their tool into the sheath and too inexperienced to pleasure.

As you get older, you learn to savor women and take your time to tease and give pleasure.

So given time, i'm sure things will improve… then again some guys just never learn… :D

[Lucifersangel]

As for me, I always stay longer down there when the gal's response with moaning sound and leg gripping. It encourage me to go longer and make them cum.

I am very sure Japanese pono moan said a lot already...

IMportant is still communication...

You have to tell him how you feel...

I am very sure Japanese pono moan said a lot already...


Do 69, make sure u BJ him BBBJ stop, he'll oso eat u till u wet wet :D :D

If your BJ skills not good I can show u how to improve ;)

my BJ skill is the best he ever had and he constantly is telling me how much he love it. but he hate 69. Only like 6 but no 9 for me...

Make sure you keep yourself clean and good smell... If it smells good and looks good, it will taste good and any man will love a clean juicy honey pot... While he is down there mention to him that it feels so good and that you love it and no one has ever made you feel like that!!! All men want to make their woman happy and satisfied!!!

Would you prefer it if I spray perfume on it? I think it is because I get too wet.. plus girls "juice" don't taste sweet.. Could it be guys hate the taste of it?

[RipcurlGuy]

I dont mind going down on your till you have enough :)

[LiN88]

TS, i agree with most of the samsters who given their suggestion.
Soft moans + placing your hand on his head n guide him down, he will stay longer den usual.

Think some guys need to be aroused before they can be more "auto" and do agree, handful of them are quite selfish - they only want to get their own satisfactions and does not bother whether the girl cum anot. :mad:

[WertyQ]

Hi Royaling

Happy to share my personal experience re your question. I'm a M. There are several aspects to the act itself : psychological, physical and sexual from both giver and receiver POV.

If you wish to know, for your own reading pleasure, do PM me, happy to share.

All the best.

[royaling]

I know right? My bf does that too. he only goes down on me once in a blue moon. I am clean, I don't smell and I am shaven. But he just don't do it. He love oral only when I do it on him. I guess we just need to change bf. If they are so one sided and can't make us CUm why date them? Some guys are just like that. They only want sex and can't be bothered if girl Cum or not. They want oral but won't give it. He can cum 4-5 time while I get nothing. :mad:
Hey sis I always wash and keep it clean shaven because I worried he won't like it if I have pubes. And he's my first and sometimes I just feel frustrated cause I kept give and give and didnt get back much.. I even wear something sexy and always tries ways to improve (etc blindfold) I'm shy but I guess I'm a hidden freak hahaha

[Sirrus]

just push his head towards ur pussy. hug his head with your leg so he cant siam. then keep grinding his mouth until u cum. dont let him run. no retreat, no surrender. no mercy. fuck his face until u song

[royaling]

Hey bros and sis thanks for all of your advice! I'm not a verbal person and he's first. Its just that sometimes i feel frustrated because i'm the one who always give and give and i didn't get much back.. Like i'll always google on how to spice things up (blindfold, game, wear sexy lingerie etc) I'm generally a shy person but... i guess i'm a hidden freak :p

[royaling]

Guys go through that phase when they are young. Too impatient to get their tool into the sheath and too inexperienced to pleasure.

As you get older, you learn to savor women and take your time to tease and give pleasure.

So given time, i'm sure things will improve… then again some guys just never learn… :D

Haha i hope he will learn! But we're both quite young (legal) so i guess just have to take it slowly

[2centsworth]

There is a danger of holding his head in your hands. If you are too forceful, some guys will find it a bit put off. Why not try this method? Try praising him. All of us guys have big egos. If you tell him he is so good at licking, he will lick longer. I give you a script ok?

Oh baby, this feels so good. You are so skillful with your naughty tongue. You are making me so wet...(take a few loud deep breaths). Don't lick so fast I cannot take it when you lick sooo fast. Baby... you purple-ly one... Your tongue is really so much better than your cock. Eh, wait! I don't mean that baby. Come on, lick finish first than angry ok? :p Aw.. baby..

When all else fails, do a 69 position. He won't stop if he is enjoying his BBBJ.

[Lucifersangel]

There is a danger of holding his head in your hands. If you are too forceful, some guys will find it a bit put off. Why not try this method? Try praising him. All of us guys have big egos. If you tell him he is so good at licking, he will lick longer. I give you a script ok?

Oh baby, this feels so good. You are so skillful with your naughty tongue. You are making me so wet...(take a few loud deep breaths). Don't lick so fast I cannot take it when you lick sooo fast. Baby... you purple-ly one... Your tongue is really so much better than your cock. Eh, wait! I don't mean that baby. Come on, lick finish first than angry ok? :p Aw.. baby..

When all else fails, do a 69 position. He won't stop if he is enjoying his BBBJ.

Nice script! I shall try it too. TS let us know how it goes^^ but for my bf, even if I 69, BJ, bbbj till cim and he still won't do it. I can shove my pussy right in front of him, but he will just finger only.

[empire999]

pathetic Singaporean, why cant get enough girls due to your incompetence social skills..no wonder fucked up new generation Singaporean guy are diss by your own local girls which they choose white guys like us...pathetic.........are singpaorean guys that incompetent and that fucked up...pathetic Singaporean...small-dick inferiority complex.

aiyo....y until now u still haven 4get how sg guy fuck ur wife/mother/gf izzit...hahahahahahaha

[Johnbass]

Wah. Ah rat bro is offering ley. A lot.of sis here would be very glad to offer their's to u^.~

Wah! Ah rat is 卧虎藏龙 one ah... Got extra ones pass to me leh
:D

[Johnbass]

He can cum 4-5 time while I get nothing. :mad:

Wah! Got so power ah?
What's the secret?
:eek:
:D

[vkumar]

I agreat sure Japanese pono moan said a lot already...



I am very sure Japanese pono moan said a lot already...




my BJ skill is the best he ever had and he constantly is telling me how much he love it. but he hate 69. Only like 6 but no 9 for me...



Would you prefer it if I spray perfume on it? I think it is because I get too wet.. plus girls "juice" don't taste sweet.. Could it be guys hate the taste of it?

Perfume around the areas will be great!! I love to eat you as long as there is no smell!!! Wow!!! If you get too wet I will be down on you whole day and night!!! You're very jucy then!!! My mouth is melting already. Who said the juice is not tasty?? The more horny we are the taste better!! The more juicy a girl is,it makes men more horny!!! We are ego driven and the more wetter the girl, we think she wants me and we go mad and will be all over you!!! Your boyfriend does not know what he is missing!!!

[pussylicious12345]

Hey bros and sis thanks for all of your advice! I'm not a verbal person and he's first. Its just that sometimes i feel frustrated because i'm the one who always give and give and i didn't get much back.. Like i'll always google on how to spice things up (blindfold, game, wear sexy lingerie etc) I'm generally a shy person but... i guess i'm a hidden freak :p

Did u check if ur pussy stinks? Guys will be repulsed by vagina odour, and probably won't lick as long as u like. Try shaving off ur pubic hair to entice him.

[Wintermelontea]

Did anyone suggest a toy?

Don't lick and suck is alright...you just wanna cum and be satisfied...so either a combo of short licks, fingering or a toy! :D:D

Men are somewhat boys in disguise...lol...pass him a toy and let the play begin. ;)

[B52bomber]

[QUOTE=royaling;10642891]Hey bros and sis thanks for all of your advice! I'm not a verbal person and he's first. Its just that sometimes i feel frustrated because i'm the one who always give and give and i didn't get much back.. Like i'll always google on how to spice things up (blindfold, game, wear sexy lingerie etc) I'm generally a shy person but... i guess i'm a hidden freak :p[/

During sex , there is no longer any shy, you are strip naked, your pussy was shaven and wet, you even dare put a dick in your mouth and suck it..so what's there to be shy?

Just tell him what you need...you can just open your mouth and speak lightly to him while he is licking your pussy " oh dear, I love your tounge, I love that licking.. Sooooo nice "


You just need to praised him a little and I am sure you will be rewarded with sextisfaction.

Cheers !

[royaling]

Always wash and clean shaven before sex.

[erdragon]

I volunteer to be your bf.... coz i love to go down, especially shaved & clean..... but my gf she doesn't liked...

[Johnbass]

Always wash and clean shaven before sex.

Guys and girls alike... Personal hygiene is good.
Perhaps Talk 1st (about what you want him to do), Piak later
Once Piak, no time to talk liao
:D

[erdragon]

i'm so admire those guys who has such of sexy, can have sex anytime and good g/f.......

but i don't have that luck....:(

[traviz]

No offense but there was once, I had an ex who had a terrible stench no matter how hard she washed it. I love licking pussies and I could go on forever. But this ex in particular made it so difficult for me as I felt so disgusted with the smell and I could not even get my little bro to stand after that.

So, if hinting and requesting still doesn't get him to satisfy you longer, you may want to ask him why and see what he says?

Again, no offense yeah? Hope you'll be satisfied by him soon!

[happilynluckily]

Nice script! I shall try it too. TS let us know how it goes^^ but for my bf, even if I 69, BJ, bbbj till cim and he still won't do it. I can shove my pussy right in front of him, but he will just finger only.

Something must be wrong with him OR your pussy....hmmm...

[Johnbass]

Again, no offense yeah? Hope you'll be satisfied by him soon!

I read your post, my KKJ shrink also...
:eek:
:D

[artioke]

Sigh.. I remb the first time i made my gf cum

She is on top, I was sucking her nipples, grabbing her close with one hand while teasing her clit/vagina with another.

It took some time, but I know she is getting there. She was breathing hard and her muscles tense and grabbing the bedposts for dear life.

And when she came, she literally SCREAMED.

I am such a good bf...

[royaling]

No offense but there was once, I had an ex who had a terrible stench no matter how hard she washed it. I love licking pussies and I could go on forever. But this ex in particular made it so difficult for me as I felt so disgusted with the smell and I could not even get my little bro to stand after that.

So, if hinting and requesting still doesn't get him to satisfy you longer, you may want to ask him why and see what he says?

Again, no offense yeah? Hope you'll be satisfied by him soon!

Thanks for the advice i was worried whether the problem lies with me too.. Will check with him the next time.

[chnhubby71]

Usually smell happens when the party have health problem that causes it. Just need to check. But according to your say that your b/f still go down on you mean there is no such problem except he did not stay longer enough to make you come that all. Make some moaning sound and leg gripping it might encourage him to stay longer.

[GorDJilla]

Dun be afraid and tell him what u want. Or maybe he just dun really like to lick?

[wildromper]

Maybe not smell but the taste?

[romidogdog]

I love to paint especially those shaven one. But frankly speaking not all guys are into it. Maybe your bf is one of them.who knows maybe he force himself to go down just to make you shiok a bit .As a painter myself, I won't stop till the juice flow out.

[pleasurehobby]

Hi guys, during foreplay with my boyfriend i will always be the one who do most of the foreplay and he will just finger me and go down for a while then the main event starts.. But i have no idea how to tell him to stay down longer because i'm kinda shy.. And sometimes when its over, he doesn't make me come and I will have to masturbate myself to feel satisfied.. Any idea how to tell or show him i want him to go down longer on me?

Hi TS, more often than not, the saying goes: "Ask and you shall recieve". As long as your vagina is not on period, and is well groomed, most men sees it as an ego boost to be able to make a woman cum.

A few ways to suggest indirectly, you may moan like an AV star. Most men take it as a hint that you are enjoying it, and they will continue what they are doing or go at it with more rigor. :)

[2centsworth]

If your vagina stinks, no man will go down on you. That rotting smell is what we call CCB in Hokkien. Can use feminine/vaginal wash when you bathe. The wash helps to restore the ph levels in her vagina. If the smell persists, see a gynae. It could be vaginal thrust which you will need to apply fungal cream into your pussy. Vaginal thrust looks like white cream and can be passed on from ladies to guys during sex.

I once had a gf who had it. I cannot take it and had to say in the sweetest way 'dear, I think you got CCB.' She was shocked and embarrassed. I bought her feminine wash from Guardian. She was quite touched that I bought her vaginal/feminine wash. She later told me she won't dare to buy it from Guardian on her own as it is like telling the whole world she has CCB. Silly girl.

You can also consider using taste to entice him to lick longer. If he likes the taste of honey, you take 1 teaspoon of honey, put on your palm and spread on the outside of your pussy. Ask him to lick until he cannot taste honey on your pussy anymore. Treat it like a game lah. Can use Hersey's Chocolate sauce too. If your bf likes spicy food, then I pity you loh. You will have to spread sambal belaccan sauce on your vagina... :D

Can spread honey on your bf's penis too. I love it when girls do that and slowly lick up and down... When the honey is about to be licked finished, I help her spread some more! :p

[naan1974]

sometimes hor...man gets turn on by the weirdest thing,
next time tell yr BF in a dominating tone " La wo ai chee bye ! "

[kt99]

Wah. Ah rat bro is offering ley. A lot.of sis here would be very glad to offer their's to u^.~

World is so strange.have a wife don like sex. don ike to be lick n don like to give me bj.i live like a monk.sianz

[ishidatyy]

Honestly I hate to go down on girls, unless is shaved and smell good :D

[sungsung]

2centsworth really 2 cents worth. Nice.

[11_Frog]

pathetic Singaporean, why cant get enough girls due to your incompetence social skills..no wonder fucked up new generation Singaporean guy are diss by your own local girls which they choose white guys like us...pathetic.........are singpaorean guys that incompetent and that fucked up...pathetic Singaporean...small-dick inferiority complex.


pathetic son of a whore indeed :rolleyes:

[IAmAwesome]

IIf your bf likes spicy food, then I pity you loh. You will have to spread sambal belaccan sauce on your vagina... :D


Lol, hahaha :D

[nolimit]

This is what he wants. Do not wash pussy at all. Tie your boyfriend up with hands and legs wide open. Proceed to sit on his face with his nose rubbing your ass for added pleasure. Rub and smear your pussy and ass all over his face, like it was a sandpaper. If you worry about suffocating him, just release a few farts time to time, and that should keep him alive.

[vkumar]

Any luck sister??? Is he staying down longer?? :):):)

[royaling]

*Update*

He is staying down longer but he doesn't seems to hit the right spots.. :(

[vkumar]

Give him some time... He will get used to the taste and will get addicted to it!!! Once you've start loving it, you'll hit the jackpot or the honey pot more often... Hang in there, unless you need any help... :):)

[stupidz]

Tell him you enjoy ML with him,
Please make the moment longer for you to enjoy his into you..
Lead his hand to the spot,
Try playing with him 'let's find each other sensual spot',
moan louder when hit the right spot..
Don't be shy when ML, you will be the loser..
But don't speak dirty to bf IMHO, at least I don't like it..

[vkumar]

*Update*

He is staying down longer but he doesn't seems to hit the right spots.. :(

One good thing is that now you know that atleast you do not have a smell issue or cleanliness issues

[nihilarian70]

loll, sounds like a plan

[Nanjing]

If your bf likes spicy food, then I pity you loh. You will have to spread sambal belaccan sauce on your vagina... :D




what if she likes to pour acid onto his boyfriend cock, kekekekek :D

joke only bro :p